Verrouille You're right. I'm getting used to the belt currently. My belt is really tight, it is a hard device you understand, and I need still to unlock frequently to check and rest.
Vanessa Verrouille Good you take time to train. Does she knows it?And when do you think you would give her the keys?
Verrouille I need a few weeks more I think. This belt is really hard. I cant stand for even a few days currently. Also I fear that moment, as I know I will have to stay locked without complaining.
Saintprudence Verrouille Fear is good. Fear reminds you that this is not a fetish or a game, but a disciplinary tool to control your urges and remain virtuous. It is my hope your girlfriend takes the initiative to claim the keys, because an enthusiastic keyholder is most effective.
Verrouille Saintprudence Still adaptating to the belt. She feels glad I'm locked but still didnt claim the keys.
Angelina Vanessa I doubt you would manage it... i think that's impossible, even the volunteers here sometimes complain
Saintprudence Vanessa Agreed. He’s only half correct — he may complain all he likes but he will stay properly locked once the keys are out of his reach.
Sara2001 Angelina i think that's impossible, even the volunteers here sometimes complain I think so, too. Even when I know that I will stay belted for good, I have good and bad days and the limitations are to severe to forget what you can't have.
Verrouille Saintprudence "he will stay properly locked once the keys are out of his reach." This is no doubt, I fear.
Angelina Sara2001 right, i have managed to get a better relationship with the belt, through many factual discussions with my father i can accept it most of the time, but i cannot say that this restriction does not work 🙁
Max9 Saintprudence That's true. Once you can't access them you're not afraid if it anymore. I oncr had a gf doing that. ... you judt need to ba able to trust that she will take care of your health.
Verrouille Saintprudence I confirm, I feel better now. It's certainly because I trust her. and even I'm always locked, she unlocks regularly for check.
Angelina Verrouille so you feel better now even though you gave up control? it sounded a bit different a few days ago.
Verrouille Angelina Vanessa To my experience, giving up control is a major step that has to be passed the earliest. When I gave up the keys, it was like the end, a enormous relief.
Angelina Verrouille When I gave up the keys, it was like the end, a enormous relief. nevertheless, your first experiences were not positive. you even briefly wrote that you were now an involuntary wearer.
Vanessa Verrouille But a training should be done. Fatherof3 My twin don't think the same about his chastity cage...
Verrouille That's true, yes. Perhaps I believe I'm a voluntary wearer to reassure myself because I dont have the choice to wear it fondamentaly. It's possible, yes. I prefer do not think about that.
Max9 Is it actually difficult to find a fitting belt? I have thought of getting a belt, but I'm not sure if it isn't too hard to get used to it. Will it make a lot of problems once you put in on?
Verrouille Max9 It will be hard for sure but it worth. Go for a full belt on your measures, you will not be disappointed.
