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  • How much time do you wear your chastity belt?

You're right. I'm getting used to the belt currently. My belt is really tight, it is a hard device you understand, and I need still to unlock frequently to check and rest.

    Verrouille

    Good you take time to train.

    Does she knows it?And when do you think you would give her the keys?

    I need a few weeks more I think. This belt is really hard. I cant stand for even a few days currently.
    Also I fear that moment, as I know I will have to stay locked without complaining.

      Verrouille Fear is good. Fear reminds you that this is not a fetish or a game, but a disciplinary tool to control your urges and remain virtuous. It is my hope your girlfriend takes the initiative to claim the keys, because an enthusiastic keyholder is most effective.

        Vanessa I doubt you would manage it...

        i think that's impossible, even the volunteers here sometimes complain

          Vanessa Agreed. He’s only half correct β€” he may complain all he likes but he will stay properly locked once the keys are out of his reach.

            Angelina i think that's impossible, even the volunteers here sometimes complain

            I think so, too. Even when I know that I will stay belted for good, I have good and bad days and the limitations are to severe to forget what you can't have.

              Sara2001

              right, i have managed to get a better relationship with the belt, through many factual discussions with my father i can accept it most of the time, but i cannot say that this restriction does not work πŸ™

              13 days later

              Saintprudence That's true. Once you can't access them you're not afraid if it anymore. I oncr had a gf doing that. ... you judt need to ba able to trust that she will take care of your health.

              3 months later

              Verrouille

              so you feel better now even though you gave up control? it sounded a bit different a few days ago.

                14 days later

                Angelina

                Vanessa
                To my experience, giving up control is a major step that has to be passed the earliest. When I gave up the keys, it was like the end, a enormous relief.

                  Verrouille When I gave up the keys, it was like the end, a enormous relief.

                  nevertheless, your first experiences were not positive. you even briefly wrote that you were now an involuntary wearer.

                  That's true, yes. Perhaps I believe I'm a voluntary wearer to reassure myself because I dont have the choice to wear it fondamentaly. It's possible, yes. I prefer do not think about that.

                  Is it actually difficult to find a fitting belt? I have thought of getting a belt, but I'm not sure if it isn't too hard to get used to it. Will it make a lot of problems once you put in on?