• Poll

  • How much time do you wear your chastity belt?

Verrouille

Good you take time to train.

Does she knows it?And when do you think you would give her the keys?

    I need a few weeks more I think. This belt is really hard. I cant stand for even a few days currently.
    Also I fear that moment, as I know I will have to stay locked without complaining.

      Verrouille Fear is good. Fear reminds you that this is not a fetish or a game, but a disciplinary tool to control your urges and remain virtuous. It is my hope your girlfriend takes the initiative to claim the keys, because an enthusiastic keyholder is most effective.

          Vanessa I doubt you would manage it...

          i think that's impossible, even the volunteers here sometimes complain

              Vanessa Agreed. He’s only half correct — he may complain all he likes but he will stay properly locked once the keys are out of his reach.

                  Angelina i think that's impossible, even the volunteers here sometimes complain

                  I think so, too. Even when I know that I will stay belted for good, I have good and bad days and the limitations are to severe to forget what you can't have.

                      Sara2001

                      right, i have managed to get a better relationship with the belt, through many factual discussions with my father i can accept it most of the time, but i cannot say that this restriction does not work 🙁

                        13 days later

                        Saintprudence That's true. Once you can't access them you're not afraid if it anymore. I oncr had a gf doing that. ... you judt need to ba able to trust that she will take care of your health.

                          3 months later

                          Verrouille

                          so you feel better now even though you gave up control? it sounded a bit different a few days ago.

                              14 days later

                              Angelina

                              Vanessa
                              To my experience, giving up control is a major step that has to be passed the earliest. When I gave up the keys, it was like the end, a enormous relief.

                                    Verrouille When I gave up the keys, it was like the end, a enormous relief.

                                    nevertheless, your first experiences were not positive. you even briefly wrote that you were now an involuntary wearer.

                                      That's true, yes. Perhaps I believe I'm a voluntary wearer to reassure myself because I dont have the choice to wear it fondamentaly. It's possible, yes. I prefer do not think about that.

                                      Is it actually difficult to find a fitting belt? I have thought of getting a belt, but I'm not sure if it isn't too hard to get used to it. Will it make a lot of problems once you put in on?