The whole thing reads like a BDSM fantasy about enforced chastity.
Where is the actual reason (e. g. moral values about saving oneself for the right partner, religious conviction or whatever else)?
That whole contract thing is what you typically would find in D/s relationship involving chastity but lacking other options, parents are asked to be keyholders.
In the absence of other stated motives, I have to conclude that it is essentially an erotically driven desire to be strictly caged and if this is the case, this whole endeavour is wrong.

    curious In the absence of other stated motives, I have to conclude that it is essentially an erotically driven desire to be strictly caged and if this is the case, this whole endeavour is wrong.

    Especially with the clothing restrictions being explicitly stated as a form of punishment.

    Harry If it isn’t, with that contract you’re going to get a decent idea what jail is like from the sound of it

    Harry Now i don’t know really what I should do.

    Unfortunately, the contract has already been signed, so my concerns may be too late, but I still want to say something about it. The first point relates directly to this, you actually need a lot more time to work out the contract. You have to think about what your goals are and what means and rules you will use to achieve these goals. This contract sounds like a slave contract and goes far beyond improving grades in your studies or better behavior. On the other hand, you wrote that your parents were never particularly strict and then they should enforce this "slave contract"? That seems illusory to me.

    Harry My parents I’m not the kind of that talk much

    Unfortunately, this is a very bad precondition. The situation can always change and it needs to be discussed

    further suggestions
    end date: when you finish your studies and/or move out and/or get married the contract should end
    you should be allowed to terminate, albeit with a waiting period in which you can change your decision again

    Harry I agree with @Angelina and the others. You need a realistic end date. You are starting on a rather drastic change in you lifestyle that may be hard to deal with all at once. Although the contract is signed and it is too late to change, I would suggest that others who find this thread to learn from it consider starting slower and with a few restrictions and increase them until their are at an effective level. I would also suggest starting with a defined duration or perhaps six month with the stated intent that you will make a decision at four months to renew for a longer period, perhaps a year, and repeat the process going forward. Decide at ten months whether or not to renew for another year.

    Harry
    THe Kakapo is the only known recent flightless parrot and is native in New Zeeland. Only through an intensive protection program has it been possible to save it from extinction.

      Joh A flightless parrot? Now that is interesting.

      Harry

      i don't know how long you've been toying with the idea, but you've only been on the forum for 5 days. take a little more time (if it's not too late). this is a very big decision and i think you should think about it longer

      Joh THe Kakapo is the only known recent flightless parrot and is native in New Zeeland. Only through an intensive protection program has it been possible to save it from extinction.

      always interesting how much i learn about animals here 😂

      This sounds like an interesting start. Because @Ines is not here right now, I would like to point out that woodpeckers, members of the bird family Picidae are found worldwide, except Austrailia, New Guinea, New Zealand, Madagascar, and extreme polar regions, according to Wikipedia.

        Tjc And their tongue wraps around the inside of their head, provinding some cushioning for the brain when retracted to minimize concussion damage from pecking.

        Harry Its already signed.

        and this is exactly where the mistake lies, such life-changing decisions should not be made within a few days, nor should such radical changes be initiated. it would be better to take a slow approach with increasingly strict rules until you have found the optimum that is bearable and serves as self-discipline

        • Joh replied to this.

          Angelina When I look at the short time, what's in the rules and that the eldest brother is involved and not just the parents, it's a strong indication for me that it's a fantastical story that has no relation to reality.

            Joh

            yes i think so too, my post was also intended more as advice for others