Harry

i'm not a man, but if you're wearing swim shorts, the cage shouldn't be visible

      Harry I deliberately put on normal swimming trunks so that everyone can see that I am wearing a cage

        Harry What are you afraid of? Women react more interested than men

          Harry then you are not wearing it long enough

            Harry I'm talking about months if not years, I've been wearing it regularly since 2009

              Harry If your parents do it right then they should keep you locked up for a very long time and should give the key to your future wife. Why should your chastity be any different to that of the locked up women here?

                Harry you should have thought of that before

                  Harry you agreed to something carelessly without thinking, I hope your parents are not like you

                    Harry then hopefully they will regularly switch to smaller cages

                      Holger76
                      Why don't you get to a fetish / bdsm place to talk about your fantasies?

                      Your idea to not cover the cage in the best possible way when in public and dealing with other people (e.g. in a swimming pool) is offensive.
                      You might have exhibitionistic fantasies, but when you involve strangers that have neither asked nor consented to be involved in your chastity life, you have crossed a line.
                      I believe everyone should be able to act out his/her kinks, but if you crossed that line in my presence, I would make sure you got your day in court for this.

                        Harry Your posts are not the problem. You want to keep living your life with the cage with minimal impact on how you are seen by strangers. It is Holger who is crossing lines. It is one thing to be proud of your cage and willing to wear it where it might be seen, but going out of your way to show it off to non-consenting strangers crosses several lines of consent. And that is before we take into account that he tries to force his kinks into your family dynamics while being well over twice your age.