How I can convince my daughter(s) to wear a chastity belt
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Tere Hello Tere, you wrote some time ago you bought your belt to liven up the sex life in your marriage a bit, so as a fetish. That's what the belts are made for. Things changed and you found other reasons for you to wear the belt. So far so good. But why (I don't understand and @Ines can't explain it to me) did you buy chastity belts for your daugters? You are maried and you can have sex with your husband, but for your daugters sex is denied. Isn't it a little bit unfair? As I tried to evaluate why @Ines waers one (she dislikes masturbating, has no boyfriend, fetish perhapse?) she got a little bit aggressiv (as with @strictfather a few weeks before as he doubted, that everything is voluntary). She reacted in a way that I was sure afterwards, she didn't know why she wears it either. She isn't a naughty girl and nobody wants to harm her (or do you have to protect her from someone?). So why wearing? She would be loved without the belt too, or? It looked like belonging to a chastity belt religion you created (and a little bit brainwashed). I know, that a lot of people here don't like what I write but it's a free world and I can ask what I want. There are usually no stupid questions, just stupid answers.
What I don't understand, too, is why you bought a belt for your Ines' younger sister, who refuses to wear. You knew before, that she dislikes a belt, so why buying it? It is very expensive. Now it hangs over her like a sword of Damocles and she has to be careful not to end up in her belt. I just try to understand a mother who puts chastity belts on her girls to show her love?! Love doesn't need belts and the belt is your fetish not theirs.
What if @Ines finds a boyfriend and wants to get rid of the belt immediately? Or just wants to be free without a boyfriend? Would this be a problem for her (less love from mother... )?
And @Ines, I would be glad, your mother would answer, not you. I have heard your opinion more than once. This is a talk between parents.
The truth is, you always manage to make your words stand out as impertinent.
It is interesting the lightness with which you talk about religion, you question the ability to reason in Inés,
you talk about brainwashing... the truth is that you present many incompatibilities with the quiet life of a forum.
The only thing I'm going to answer, because I'm particularly offensive, is that the only sword of Damocles hanging over my youngest daughter is the explicit and thoughtful fact that she wants to wear a belt.
The rest, well, I see you very convinced of your position to try to reason or expose anything more complex.
a_father but it's a free world and I can ask what I want.
you can write whatever you want 
a_father This is a talk between parents.
but everybody else can write what they want and this is a forum where everybody can write
and @Ines and @Tere have often described quite clearly how the conditions in the family are regulated
Good decision.
a_father I know, that a lot of people here don't like what I write but it's a free world and I can ask what I want.
Think about it on a different context.On a board talking about Peugeot's car,with several people using one,and some liking to use a Peugeot,you come,and tell to the ones they like to use these they should not...After some time,what would happen?You would likely be told it is not the appropriate place for you,and if,you insist,you would be banned.It is the same here.If you want to talk with us,you're welcome,but if you still are agressive to @Ines and close to trolling,you should leave,and find another better place for your talks.
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Angelina I have a son and a daughter. Of course, I can only speak of myself and the relationship with my children. But at least in my circle of friends, all parents think the same way (and my parents, who unfortunately have died for a while, told me exactly that later). Parents love their children and hope that this love will be returned. They also often think about how children will think about their parents later when they are adults. In addition, no one wants to be alone in old age and without contact with the children.
And this is where I would start. If there is no argument and everything is fine, I would ask without warning; "What do you think our relationship will be like in 10 years, like when you are old?" At the momement he can blackmail you, and force you to wear what you hate, but at the latest when you are 18 years old, that will change. No matter what happens then, nobody can send you to a children's home or foster parents. You have to know yourself how to use this lever. If he slowly realizes that he is losing you and you, as an adult, do not forget what he did, it should slowly arrive in his head. Believe me, the biggest fear of "normal parents" is losing contact with the children. What you do in the future is up to you. What matters is what he BELIEVES, what you do. It must also be clear that you have evidence of everything. Your strongest sword is the (believed) future. Put yourself in the position of a mother. What would be your biggest concern? I hopee you understand, what I want to say. How you bring this in his mind is your task (I don't know your father and, believe me, it's better for him).
a_father but at the latest when you are 18 years old, that will change. No matter what happens then, nobody can send you to a children's home or foster parents
the problem is when i am 18, my girlfriend is 16 and we are not married yet, and i am going to study and need financial help from my father
a_father Put yourself in the position of a mother. What would be your biggest concern?
that my child does not love me
a_father I hopee you understand, what I want to say.
i understand very well what you want to say but that's not the point. to be more precise, i love my father and my father loves me. we have a very close relationship and have a very honest and open relationship with each other. of course i hate to wear these devices on my body and yes i am often angry and very frustrated but i also try to see the big picture. my father takes care of everything i need to live, even more, he spoils me very much. my chastity is only a small part of my life, that i write a lot about it here is because it is the main topic of this forum. if it were a forum about music i would write almost only about music. so i want to emphasize that i see my whole life as a whole and yes chastity is one of the things i don't like but in general i am happy in my life and i don't want to break off the relationship with my father. do you understand what i mean?
i hope you understand what i write my english is not so good
I like the rolling bushes in Western movies.
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right now I think there are more important things to think about than a chastity belt or an orgasm of a daughter. for example the hope that the family remains healthy and alive. I say this as a closed person in the house with my wife and two daughters hoping that the coronavirus does not enter the house. in such a difficult moments like this, you can understand that certain ideas are a luxury that you can only have when there are no bigger problems to think about. however, apart from the terrible moment that I am living, I can confirm that the idea of chastity belt is, in my opinion, a solution to the consequences but not to the causes. And it is better to solve the causes rather than ignore them and think only of hiding the problem under a piece of metal.
