Vanessa You're not a bit embarrassed about having to write about your fights,and what part of your devices you fought?I think I would not like it much...
of course it is sometimes embarrassing, but it helps my father to understand my feelings better. so we have a good basis to discuss these things
I have to say that I have a complete different feeling about my chastity bra than I have with my chastity belt, because I wear the bra consensual and I think I will feel the same after wedding for my chastity belt.
I hate that I am forced to wear the belt and the tightbands every day and every hour of the day, but I have learned that in the first place it is not because of the restrictions it brings (which I truly hate, too) but mainly because it is not my choice.
I think because this aspect will be gone after wedding, I will be much happier in the belt.
I think the best way to convince a daughter is to make it kind of consensual, even if she can't get out without a waiting time, it still feels much better.
It is logical,but I think discussing only the main fights would be quicker,and easier.But I guess it is not your decision...
It seems logical.Wearing it consensually is very different than being forced to.I've never experienced consensual wearing,but I think I would manage it way better(except I don't think I would have accepted willingly to wear a chastity belt! 
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But good to know you manage not too badly your chastity bra.I guess the fact it is forced make it very different for your sister.
Greetings to all,
and, though late, my best wishes for 2020.
I haven't been in for a while, but Inés told me there was a straight and somewhat rough appeal to one of my posts.
Well, first of all, I point out that in my house, together with my husband, I believe that if we are exempt from any suspicion is of child abuse, my 4 children are undoubtedly, and mainly on the merits of them, 4 young, healthy, educated and dynamic people.
In our home no one has ever been forced into anything and, always, the use of the chastity belt has been made on a basis of love and trust, MUTUAL.
Regarding your comment about a young lady growing up with steel around her hip.... I think if a girl is growing up, a belt of chastity is simply a nonsense. We are talking about a girl and not a little woman, and contrary to the most popular practices currently, in our home, we have never sexualized to children.
A girl has to be that, a girl, dedicate herself to studying, playing, being happy and growing physically and intellectually. There is no point in presenting an element as related to female sexuality as a chastity belt, to a creature that, thank God, at that age is alien to sex.
If you ever see a different use of a chastity belt, I encourage you to report it, but I also tell you, that before you assert certain things, you must inform yourself and understand what you are talking about.
Or is he very much related to ladies who wear a chastity belt?
I apologize for my darts.
They were coming from the facts that some wearers on the site claimed that they been wearing belts since 14 years old .
For me few women old like that have finished growing and I find very expensive to buy new belts each year.
A few years ago I had bought a Neosteel to my wife it cost me a lot due to her discomfort and times it went back to the manufacturer...
tomdom
A girl has to be mature enough to wear a belt. For me 14 years is so many young.
tomdom They were coming from the facts that some wearers on the site claimed that they been wearing belts since 14 years old .
I think same than @Laura . You can claim it too.
tomdom A few years ago I had bought a Neosteel to my wife it cost me a lot due to her discomfort and times it went back to the manufacturer...
A uncomfortable belt is unbearable.
Tere Hello Tere, you wrote some time ago you bought your belt to liven up the sex life in your marriage a bit, so as a fetish. That's what the belts are made for. Things changed and you found other reasons for you to wear the belt. So far so good. But why (I don't understand and @Ines can't explain it to me) did you buy chastity belts for your daugters? You are maried and you can have sex with your husband, but for your daugters sex is denied. Isn't it a little bit unfair? As I tried to evaluate why @Ines waers one (she dislikes masturbating, has no boyfriend, fetish perhapse?) she got a little bit aggressiv (as with @strictfather a few weeks before as he doubted, that everything is voluntary). She reacted in a way that I was sure afterwards, she didn't know why she wears it either. She isn't a naughty girl and nobody wants to harm her (or do you have to protect her from someone?). So why wearing? She would be loved without the belt too, or? It looked like belonging to a chastity belt religion you created (and a little bit brainwashed). I know, that a lot of people here don't like what I write but it's a free world and I can ask what I want. There are usually no stupid questions, just stupid answers.
What I don't understand, too, is why you bought a belt for your Ines' younger sister, who refuses to wear. You knew before, that she dislikes a belt, so why buying it? It is very expensive. Now it hangs over her like a sword of Damocles and she has to be careful not to end up in her belt. I just try to understand a mother who puts chastity belts on her girls to show her love?! Love doesn't need belts and the belt is your fetish not theirs.
What if @Ines finds a boyfriend and wants to get rid of the belt immediately? Or just wants to be free without a boyfriend? Would this be a problem for her (less love from mother... )?
And @Ines, I would be glad, your mother would answer, not you. I have heard your opinion more than once. This is a talk between parents.
