strictfather
It seems you have better understanding about it,and maybe your wife too.Such talks can be helpful.
BikelockFugitive You could offer her an alternative to the CB: Offer her that she will not have to wear a CB, if you install some Spyware on her phone AND her marks improve significantly.
It seems a good idea,but I doubt she will accept to have a spyware on her phone at her age!
And it would be invading her privacy,too.
And easy to give her phone to a friend,meet her boyfriend secretly;then take it back after.
James There is no way these girls will accept their mom in charge. This is Italy. Southern, I'd guess.
If it's their parent's decision,they won't have a choice,except leaving when they're older.
James You never ever yell at a girl or lady. You never slap their face, either
I agree.
James as much as women love to do that sort of thing
Not necessarily.
James You exercise control by never losing you cool patiently.
I agree too.
Ines Absolutely right, in fact I think, reading your comments, that at the moment, the only girl that could be advisable wearing a CB, is your wife, if she agreed it.
It should be the first step,sure.
Ines I think that wear a belt, can provide your wife a more proactive approach in therapy, and can boost the results of psychologist.
I think it can have this effect,yes.
Ines If all becomes calmer and anger and hostilities in you home go down, then you can propose your girls usage of the belt. Your daughters would be more used to see it, and it will not have any negative charge, in fact it could be seen as an element that solve problems.
I guess you grounded your daughter in order to correct a dangerous behavior and not as a vengeance, so if she improve the marks, the behavior and she starts to wear a chastity belt, there is not reason to maintain her grounded.
It won't necessarily turn this way about wearing a chastity belt,but it would increase the chances they accept it,yes.And,of course,not grounded if she improves and wear one.
Ines
Not sure about the keys,however,both possibilities have their advantages and disadvantages...But for now,their mother should not have the keys,yes.
Ines Anyway, belting or not, you should talk with your wife, and achieve to make a solid stone, in which, your girls can trust.
Yes,very important.
Angelina probably you are right and in this respect @strictfather is really the better leader, because the mother wants to decide quite fast and does not think about the long-term consequences 🙁
Yes,she would not be a good leader,presently.
Angelina As a key holder you have a lot of responsibility
Sure.
