Vanessa

that's right,

but unfortunately it now looks like she is supposed to wear the cb until her wedding, although in the beginning it was only supposed to be during her studies 🙁

      Angelina
      The wedding, for me, is a very much logical line than ending of studies.
      If a girl wears a belt, I can not understand what is difference between to have a degree or not.

          Ines If a girl wears a belt, I can not understand what is difference between to have a degree or not.

          if i remember correctly it had been the deal of @catherine98 with her mother that she only wears it during her studies. it can take much longer until the wedding 🙁

            Angelina that's right,

            but unfortunately it now looks like she is supposed to wear the cb until her wedding, although in the beginning it was only supposed to be during her studies 🙁

            It seems to be the case,yes...

            Ines

            Generally,people think the university years are the ones when we're the most sexually active(not totally wrong).But it is not unusual to have a serious relationship starting during it,or even be engaged,so,after the studies,it can not be very long before being married and with not too much different partners.

            And,for women,many start to think differently about relationship and sex.Before,it is often "I fall in love,and then,I'll have sex with him/her.".But,during,and after,it,it can easily be more "I'll have sex with that man/woman I like,and then,we may fall in love.".

                  Vanessa Generally,people think the university years are the ones when we're the most sexually active(not totally wrong).

                  it kind of reminds me of American movies 🤣

                  but you're right, it's no different in germany, even if many of them had their first time before they started studying 😉

                      Angelina

                      As far as I know,it is the same in France too.

                      And I agree,it is pretty rare to still be a virgin when starting university.But,often we were less sexually active before.Especially women,men tend to be more focused to sex,even before!

                          Vanessa

                          maybe, also because the learning load increases strongly during the studies, you need something to cool down 😂

                              Vanessa And I agree,it is pretty rare to still be a virgin when starting university

                              And that's pretty bad

                                  Angelina

                                  Right!These(getting such pleasure when single or in couple😉)were good ways to calm down after a hard day at university....

                                  Laura

                                  Not that bad...😉

                                  Especially,as,generally,our first time is done when in love.

                                        Vanessa

                                        I realize now, after school days, that sometimes I would like to masturbate and when I realize that it is not possible, I am doubly frustrated 🙁

                                            Angelina I realize now, after school days, that sometimes I would like to masturbate and when I realize that it is not possible, I am doubly frustrated 🙁

                                            I know exactly what you mean. I have this feeling almost constantly. Especially when I have or had time with Daniel. I miss the ability to masturbate so much. I hope I can feel an orgasm in a few years after wedding. I hope it will be in 2 or 3 years.

                                                Sara2001

                                                I wish it for you 😃

                                                then you will probably have an orgasm earlier than me. with me it will take at least another 3 1/2 years 🙁

                                                  Vanessa Especially,as,generally,our first time is done when in love.

                                                  It can wait. She should study rather than fooling around

                                                      Laura

                                                      if sex happens out of love it is not bad. otherwise you are right

                                                          Angelina and Sara2001

                                                          The same for me.I often did it in my bed before sleeping,or when coming home after a hard day of studying,and it is very frustrating to not be able to do it anymore...And,as @Sara2001,it happens very often for me too...

                                                          I probably wouldn't feel an orgasm again until I'm married too,and I hope it wouldn't take too long....

                                                          Laura It can wait. She should study rather than fooling around

                                                          Not necessary to wait.And both are not incompatible;I got diplomas even when I had sex with boyfriends or girlfriends.Even if I was already permanently locked for the hardest one(but it would not have changed much the results if not,I think).

                                                          Angelina if sex happens out of love it is not bad.

                                                          I agree.

                                                          For one night stands and such,it is different,sure(even if it still can give pleasant feelings).

                                                                    Vanessa Not necessary to wait.And both are not incompatible;I got diplomas even when I had sex with boyfriends or girlfriends.Even if I was already permanently locked for the hardest one(but it would not have changed much the results if not,I think).

                                                                    it's the same with me, i already had good school results before i was in cb (except in english 😂

                                                                    Vanessa For one night stands and such,it is different,sure(even if it still can give pleasant feelings).

                                                                    I wouldn't want that, even though I can understand you 😉

                                                                          Angelina it's the same with me, i already had good school results before i was in cb (except in english 😂

                                                                          It's another proof that we don't need a chastity belt to be good students(and you're totally understandable when you speak english).

                                                                          Angelina I wouldn't want that, even though I can understand you 😉

                                                                          Understandable.Not everyone like it,and,even if pleasant,it is not the best experiences.

                                                                                Vanessa (and you're totally understandable when you speak english).

                                                                                thank you, even if I think about whether it is better if camryn writes my texts 🤣

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