I open this topic, because I would like share a personal opinion about bad habits and we, the girls.
Obviously is merely my vision, so please, I do not pretend export it as universal true.
Well I, in general, I have not bad habits, smoke, or drink alcohol, use drugs, further that I like very much the sweets, and frankly I do not like that people make anything of this habits.
But, I recognize, when I see drink or smoking a girl, the impression is very worse that if I see a boy.
I always think that we, as makers and givers of life, we have an extra commitment with maintaining us healthy.
Possibility of pass our babies problems and toxins for smoking, drinking is something tht as girl, I worry about.
What is your opinion about this? What do you think? Girls and boys, (your girl's bellies is yours too 🙂).

    Ines

    I honestly don't care if anyone smokes or drinks,

    Only exception : pregnant women (that makes me very angry) 🙁 🙁

      Angelina
      It is of the few moments in which I become a little Taliban...
      You are right. But It gets me very very angry.

      As doctor I will be terrible! 😤

        For my part I am an occasional smoker (1 package per month) it's pretty little.

        In fact I smoke a cigarette after lunch when I'm at work. It's my little moment of relaxation.

        Otherwise I sometimes drink mojito terraces bistros especially during the summer.

        And I happen to be drunkenness two or three times a year. (birthday, new year, victory of the France football team ...)
        It remains quite exceptional.

        So, since I'm not a saint myself,I would not allow myself to judge my partner.

        But if I find that his consumption (tobacco or alcohol) exceeds the festive framework I will try to encourage him to reduce his consumption in a protective feeling.

        Otherwise, like Angelina I will be very angry if a pregnant woman smoked or drank because in this case it no longer corresponds to her individual freedom. (It's even criminal for the child)

        So in general I will not be more demanding with my partner than I could be with myself.

        I don't smoke, don't do drugs, drink a little.

        Ines

        I don't smoke myself and only drink when my father allows it (for birthdays, special celebrations).

        but in pregnant women I get strong agressions (and I am otherwise very calm) . I have also ever beaten a pregnant the cigarette out of hand

        Ines

        I don't feel smoking very feminine,in addition to be bad for the health.

        I did it(as usual,to do like my friends),but my parents quickly make me understand it is not the best idea I had.The(very severe)punishment and the long talks about danger of smoking and bad image of myself I give when I do it was enough to make me stop and never resume it.And I'm glad they make me stop soon after I started.

        Drinking,I do it,but reasonnably,I take care to not be drunk(even if it happened a couple times).But I've no problem that a woman drink,as long as it is not too much.Not like Penny(it seems we're several to watch The Big Bang Theory,here! 😉)! 😛

        No drugs for me,never.

        Of course,it is awful when a pregnant woman do it!How can they be so careless?

        I'm more chocolate than sweets,personally!😉

          Vanessa Drinking,I do it,but reasonnably,I take care to not be drunk(even if it happened a couple times).But I've no problem that a woman drink,as long as it is not too much

          You, Frenches, drink like fishes anyways 😛

            Laura

            We are more festive,that's all!😉 And I think there is a lot of countries who are "festive",too!😉

            I don't smoke or take drugs. I would never try but it is also strictly forbidden for me. This is one of the reasons why I am not allowed to have and spend money without permission. I wouldn't even be able to buy cigarettes or drugs.

            It is a little bit different with alcohol. In general it is forbidden, too but on some occasions I get the permission to drink responsible (this means not more then one drink any two hours). When I was younger I was drunken once but my father gave me a lesson I won't forget so I never tried it again. BTW: I didn't even liked the feeling.

              Ines I don't see how drinking alcohol or taking drugs are bad habits if you don't overdo it.
              Especially about drugs: Jura is a subject in uni you cannot possibly beat without drugs. Like 90% of the students took cocain or ritalin during their studys.
              I just wanted to add that.

              Ines For me, sweets are my weakness!

              Well we still have one thing in common :

              I have a huge weakness for the brand HARIBO candies.

              Here are my favorites:

              https://www.carrefour.fr/p/bonbons-zanzigliss-haribo-3103220025956

              https://www.carrefour.fr/p/bonbons-world-mix-haribo-3103220041468

              Otherwise I enjoy mint hard candies because they have a longer duration.

              https://www.monoprix.fr/courses/bonbons-aromatises-a-la-menthe-la-pie-qui-chante-2482476-p

              And candy is like sex: most the longer time it, most better it (lol)

              • Ines replied to this.

                Laura You, Frenches, drink like fishes anyways 😛

                It's funny because I did not know that expression at all.
                But I find it funny and full of meaning.
                In relation to the cigarette we have the expression "smoke like a fireman"

                Esteban
                Werthers in my case 😋.
                And Pastry! 😋😋😋
                Without so much sport and the CB, probably I would be a 🐄!

                  Ines

                  i love cake and chocolate

                  but I can eat it without sports 😉

                  • Ines replied to this.

                    Ines

                    I'm just reading your post and eating a cosy bar of chocolate 🤣