Angelina but @Ines has no relationship yet, so she can keep all options open 😂

It may change soon!😉

Ines

Who hesitate to go a step further?Your sister?Her friend?Or both?

Angelina

Me too.

  • Ines replied to this.

    Vanessa Who hesitate to go a step further?Your sister?Her friend?

    I think both are guilty.
    They are very comfortable with situation and nobody decides to go a step farther.

      Ines

      if both are satisfied with the situation, this is very good and can be left 😉

      but if one of them is in love, you have to talk about it, otherwise it's a rather unfortunate friendship 🙁

        Angelina
        I do not Know because they do not tell to the other what everybody know...

          Ines

          It can be long until it evolves,so!

          Angelina

          I think they're both in love with each other,but both don't dare to do the first step from "friends" to "more than friends".

          Ines

          I hope they'll decide soon...If it works,it could be very good for both of them!

            Angelina I think he'd accept it, but he wouldn't like it and it would take a long time.

            My father and my mother implemented this lifestyle on her own. There was no family tradition or something like that. So I know they are open to the idea that couples organze their life the way they want. They have just the very strong feelings that their way is very good for us.

              Vanessa

              I know, but they'll have to before it's too late and an unfortunate friendship develops.

                Sara2001

                that's exactly what i meant with my last post 😉

                i think your parents like this lifestyle very much, they would accept another one but it would not be easy for sure

                  Angelina

                  If they're "no dating" for this long,it is unlikely it changes to be only friendship now.

                    Angelina i think your parents like this lifestyle very much, they would accept another one but it would not be easy for sure

                    Not so sure.Their relationship was more classical at first;even if they noticed it works better this way,it can be easier for them to understand their daughter wants a more classical one,at least at start.

                    And,based on @Sara2001's posts,I guess they likely have to accept it later,for her sister.

                      Vanessa

                      I hope that, the most important thing is that both are happy with the relationship, no matter what it looks like 😉

                        Vanessa

                        that's right, i didn't say it was impossible either, but parents have their own feelings and i think they would rather have a man-led relationship with sara's sister as well

                          Vanessa

                          in any case 🙂 but the feelings must come from both sides and both must be happy in a relationship 🙂

                            Angelina

                            They would probably try to convince her,but,as long as it is not mandatory,it's ok,in my opinion.

                            I think every parents have an idea of the perfect man for their daughter.Even if it rarely goes as they would have liked.

                            Angelina

                            Sure.But,based on @Ines' posts,I guess it would be the case if they become more than friends.

                            I think they're in love,but afraid to admit it,and to lose their relationship if it doesn't work.

                            • Ines replied to this.

                              Angelina that's right, i didn't say it was impossible either, but parents have their own feelings and i think they would rather have a man-led relationship with sara's sister as well

                              It is most important for them that we are happy in our relationships.

                                Vanessa @Angelina
                                😂 OMG, a little anecdote made almost a topic 😂.
                                Do not worry about them, it is just time matter.
                                Even if they want do not know it, the rest of the world, we, know that they are couple!

                                  Sara2001

                                  luckily, i think in these cases, the luck of the daughter must be above her own luck 🙂

                                  Ines

                                  so I get it right, they have a relationship but don't want to admit it, right?
                                  😉