Our families

Ines

I agree too.No problem we're different,we should not be considered to have less value than a man.However there is still many people thinking it...

Angelina and that's my problem, why should i set up different rules for my kids ?

Same sleeping time, same curfew and same punishments, that is my attitude

It is more fair,sure!

Ines In domestic chores, always were equal all siblings.

It more or less the case for us.My twin will tend to have more to work in the garden or in the garage,when I'll do more tasks in the house than him.But it is similar about the part of the tasks we have to do.

Ines For example, a not very well planned camping excursion of 3 or 4 days to the beach is something that my brother when he was in home could pose our parents, and of course, girls can not.

Same for me,my twin would be more free for similar things than me,sure.

Ines And go out with the friends to a grade party that finish at 02.00 AM and ask to my father come to pick us with car, it is something that obviously only girls can ask.

My twin can ask it too.But he's more free to choose to come home in friends' car than me,it is only allowed if there is only very good friends my parents know too in the car.

Ines Only difference is that girls have to move in a more secure environment. And I like feel that security.

Same for me too,but i can understand it.

It seems,when there is rules based on gender,these can be very different depending on the family;but,generally,women must be more careful and more secure,but men are more free.

I've mixed feelings about it...For some things,I can understand it and feel it is logical,but for others,it is unfair,without good reasons...

Sara2001 I am very happy about this situation, it is much easier for me and with the new rule from Daniel even more safe

And better for you two.

Sara2001 Actually I fear a bra more for my sister then for me. I think she is still looking for a way to stimulate herself but we agreed that we will not talk about ways we found or use because the other one would have to tell it our fathers or would be in a situation where she has to be dishonest to him. I try to convince her to stand the urges

It is logical,she recently lost her last possibility to orgasm...

Yes,as you,and your sister,don't lie to your parents,you should not discuss about your tries too much.Even if I doubt one of you can find a way to defeat the belt.I guess it won't be easy for her,for now at least,to manage her urges...Do you think there is a risk your parents order a chastity bra for her?

Angelina if i had this ability, i probably couldn't hold back no matter how bad the consequences are. but i don't have this ability and wear a chastity bra, so no chance

Same for me.Being so close to orgasm,I'm not sure I would have the willpower to stop before reaching it.

Sara2001 I don't know.

It should be useful to convince her to not do it if she can,but not good if it gives her ideas to disobey...

Vanessa Do you think there is a risk your parents order a chastity bra for her?

I think the risk is actually bigger then for me, but as long as she not get caught playing with her breasts she should be save. My father again made it clear to us while I explained him my new rule form Daniel. The reason why I don't have to wear one is Daniels pleasure. My sister has no Daniel, so there is no need to keep them accessible.

Vanessa Same for me.Being so close to orgasm,I'm not sure I would have the willpower to stop before reaching it.

I fear the consequence to much. Not only the chastity bra but I think it would also "hurt" Daniel if I do it on purpose. I think as long as I can manage it, I will stop. I can swear to you it is very difficult.

You all know how difficult I, my sister and my brother are threatend.

My brother doesn't wear a CB, is allowed to go out like any boy/man at his age, is allowed to have a sexual relationship with a possible girlfriend, has much less tasks in the household and can deligate them to one of us if we have time. He is even allowed to give us tasks when it is not to much, like cleaning his room.

Luckily he almost never used his power.

@Vanessa

if I had this ability, then I would understand the chastity bra for me, even a little

@Sara2001

i understand your situation very well, you want to avoid an orgasm because of daniel, which i find of you very affectionate towards daniel, i think it is easier if you know for whom you renounce your pleasure

i don't know if a chastity bra would be good for you, but i hope for you that your breasts stay free, because a chastity bra is not very pleasant Vanessa can confirm that

@Vanessa

i understand why your parents treat you and your brother differently, this is the case in many families

but I would definitely treat my children the same later on, at least in terms of penalties and rules, but also in terms of tasks and permission

@Sara2001

Is your brother older than you and your sister?
if so, i can understand it (even if i would never support it)
if no, it's an absurd thing for me.

Ines

i am not a mother yet (is not possible with cb either) but i take over the education from my father who told me i had the same rules as when i was a boy

Sara2001

Same rules for us,except we have the same amount of tasks(but not all the same),and he can't tell me to do his,or give me tasks.

Good he(almost?)never does it,however.

In my house,if one of us is punished,a part of the punishment can be to do some of the tasks the other one usually do.

Ines n my home too, but most of times I prefer, and even we changed chores, I do not like at all the bees (I now... and you are right, but I do not like them), and my brother hates the ironing (thankfully se now has a girlfriend for ironing uniforms band clothes ), so if I had garden chores and he had to do something into home, we had a deal!

We can do it too,but must ask our parents if they allow us to swap tasks.Generally,they're ok with it.

Ines Not in my home, but in your lifestyle I think it was expected.

Yes,not illogical in her case.

Angelina i understand why your parents treat you and your brother differently, this is the case in many families

but I would definitely treat my children the same later on, at least in terms of penalties and rules, but also in terms of tasks and permission

Not sure in my case.I can adapt some rules depending on the gender.But I think the punishment would be the same for both.

Angelina Is your brother older than you and your sister?
if so, i can understand it (even if i would never support it)
if no, it's an absurd thing for me.

Not that much in her house.It seems her parents think that men should be "higher" than women,no matter the age...

Ines I think that you say that because you are not, fortunately, still a mom. Every family I met, in more or less way, protect more the girls. Even the brothers take care and worry for the is sisters.
It is natural, and I think that, In general we should let be caressed.

I think too we tend to protect more the daughters,and I think too it is natural.

Angelina i must believe my father that. i think he means it theoretically also so, whether he would act also so if he had a son is again another question

I think too he can be sincere when telling it to you,but would have acted differently if he had a son too.

Angelina Is your brother older than you and your sister?

No, he is between me and my sister.

Angelina it's an absurd thing for me.

Because it is completely unthinkable that man and woman are threatend differently. The opposite is the case in my family.

Vanessa Not that much in her house.It seems her parents think that men should be "higher" than women,no matter the age...

Yes, they think man have to be descision makers and woman have to learn to follow. That's why my brother is allowed to assign tasks to us. Because he should learn that he has to take our needs into consideration and so he can learn that he has still take care that an assigned task is done properly after we finished it.

It sounds more convenient for him, but it is also a big responsibility. Like I said, he almost never used this power to us.

Sara2001

i consider it morally questionable that your brother can decide about you even though he is younger

luckily he is so respectful that he almost never uses it

@Ines

I accept your opinion but mine still exists

Ines

exactly that would be very boring. the sense of a forum is to exchange our opinions

Sara2001 Yes, they think man have to be descision makers and woman have to learn to follow. That's why my brother is allowed to assign tasks to us. Because he should learn that he has to take our needs into consideration and so he can learn that he has still take care that an assigned task is done properly after we finished it.

It sounds more convenient for him, but it is also a big responsibility. Like I said, he almost never used this power to us.

Does he didn't use it because he feels it is unfair for you,or because he does not like these responsabilities?

Has he a girlfriend?Does he wants her future wife to be submissive,or does he don't care about it,as long as he loves her?

Ines I think so too. Education has to be different, in general, always there are exceptions that must be respected, girls do not want ad to the society same things than boys, and society does not expect same of we than of the boys.

Yes,and I think it may be difficult to understand if we haven't a brother(or a sister for a man),or if we haven't daughters and sons.

Ines Same in a relationship, I expect of a man that complement my personality. I do not want a mirror!

Logical,sure.

Angelina

Right.