Reasons for chastity

Laura

Vanessa Don't you feel it very unfait?

"fair" or "fait", e.g. "done"? 🙂 Seriously, they only unfairness I feel I'm a girl while boys don't have such rules.

Vanessa

Unfair!😉

I don't like to be "punished" or restricted if I haven't break a rule(or if my parents don't have proof I did it).I would have more troubles to accept it(especially if I haven't did anything wrong;if I misbehaved and it is only a matter of proof,I can accept it more "easily"),and would feel it unfair.

Angelina i just hope it doesn't break the warm atmosphere in the forum, but currently it's still a friendly conversation 😉

Don't worry,there is no problem with this conversation!

Laura However sex might produce social consequences, depending on society, culture, etc.

Yes,but it is less common.Drinking too much or driving without license is almost always dangerous,for ourselves or the others.

Laura That's what the discussion forums are for, to represent different opinions.

Right.

Angelina of course it can have consequences, but not in the modern world in europe and north america

We can be considered a bit as a slut,and such,but the consequences aren't very hard.

Esteban

Renita Why is she?

It's just a joke coming from me.
Because due to the fact that Vanessa is angry at me this makes Angelina feel uncomfortable because she likes to chat with me and Vanessa.

And I compared the situation of Angélina as a child facing a divorce from her parents ie having to juggle between his father (in this case Me) and his mother (in this case Vanessa).

But it's just a joke.

reactionary69

Renita No because she has developed the same snarky humor. 😁

Angelina

I think in this topic the opinions in the forum are clearly separated from each other and as I see it strongly depends on how strict our parents are 🙁

i just hope it doesn't break the warm atmosphere in the forum, but currently it's still a friendly conversation 😉

@Renita it is exactly like esteban says 😉

Laura

Vanessa But,still,driving without a license is way more dangerous than having sex(with condom and on the pill).

However sex might produce social consequences, depending on society, culture, etc.

Angelina think in this topic the opinions in the forum are clearly separated from each other

That's what the discussion forums are for, to represent different opinions.

Angelina

Laura

you're right, it would be very boring if we always had the same opinion 😉

Laura However sex might produce social consequences, depending on society, culture, etc.

of course it can have consequences, but not in the modern world in europe and north america

Sara2001

Vanessa We can be considered a bit as a slut,and such,but the consequences aren't very hard.

I think this would only happen if you end in bed with many mans. Nobody would have a bad view on you if you have fun with a long time boyfriend. At least not here.

Angelina

Vanessa
exactly, a punishment or also a restriction I can only accept if I have also broken a rule, everything else I would not accept and the consequences I would not tolerate, fortunately my father of the serbian opinion is like I/we 😉

@Sara2001
that's what I think, unfortunately more and more girls get a little sloppy 🙁

Vanessa

Sara2001

Right.But it would be the case too if we wear very revealing and slutty clothes,or if we flirt a lot(even if not until we have sex).

Angelina exactly, a punishment or also a restriction I can only accept if I have also broken a rule, everything else I would not accept and the consequences I would not tolerate, fortunately my father of the serbian opinion is like I/we 😉

It seems more logical.And,even if used to prevent such misbehavior,it should be sure that we have already misbehaved this way,at least one time.

Angelina

Vanessa

exactly, I would hate to be punished or restricted even though I never did anything wrong 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

It would be unfair,and I think there would be a lot of resentment and anger in this case.

Not the best setting to help a woman accept and manage her chastity belt.And almost no chance she follows her parents' decision about not taking it off until her marriage.

Angelina

Vanessa

i think if a girl is to accept to wear a cb, the parents must have good reasons too, otherwise it will be a huge challenge and the family peace will be heavily burdened 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

I don't think preventing her to masturbate or to have sex are "good reasons"(except if she asks for it or agrees willingly),but at least,it is a reason in her parents' opinion,and I think a daughter can understand it,even if she doesn't agree.

If there is no reason at all,it won't lead to anything good...

Angelina

Vanessa

it is a good reason for our parents, but not for us 🙁

but it is still better than no reason at all 😉

Esteban

Vanessa : If there is no reason at all,it won't lead to anything good...

Angelina it is a good reason for our parents, but not for us 🙁
but it is still better than no reason at all 😉

There can be in my opinion only two reasons (parents) wearing the belt.

Light version : To preserve only virginity until marriage.
Hard version : To repress straight to sexual pleasure outside marriage. Because parents consider that sexual pleasure is a cause of depravity for the girl.

I see no reason other than these two.

Vanessa

Angelina

Right and right.

Laura

Experienced it,and you're right.

Angelina the only advantage of number 3 is that there is a certain time when the cb is stored again 😉

Yes,it was better for me when it was used as a punishment,as I was often without it on.But if it used permanently from the start,like in your case,it would not be used as a punishment too,logical.

Laura

Esteban I see no reason other than these two.

Punishment

Esteban

Laura

yes it is true but in this case it is not definitive and we can suppose that it could aim to dissuade the girl from masturbating. Therefore we find ourselves in the second case indirectly.

The punishment is almost always related to masturbating when it was not allowed.

Angelina

Esteban

numbers 1 and 2 both apply to me, and number 3 does not, because numbers 1 and 2 exclude number 3.

the only advantage of number 3 is that there is a certain time when the cb is stored again 😉

Angelina

Vanessa

exactly, it makes no sense to say you wear the cb permanently and then to say as punishment you wear the cb 🤣

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