Abstinence belt

Mary

shinydiamond77 I agree with you. Full on chastity makes the most sense.

Laura

shinydiamond77 although I think a belt is no longer needed at that age

I disagree, I think he is most needed at this age to prevent sex

shinydiamond77

Laura

I think sex should be allowed at that age, but it's important to explain how to have sex safely beforehand.

Vanessa

Ines

I don't think so.I know I would have less troubles to accept it if I've some releases.And it seems it is the case for other wearers too,based on their experiences like @catherine98(which have releases every other Sunday),or @Amira(who have tried some time with no openings).

However,I agree it should be willingly,of course.

Laura

Yes.Not sure it is needed,however,but the student years(at university or similar)are generally the most sexually active years.

Angelina probably, but how big the difference is varies 😉

Sure.

Angelina this could perhaps be prevented by planning the openings of the belt beforehand

I think it can be better to plan the openings,in this situation(or use "tokens" given at a planned time,but the wearer can decide when to use these).

Tobbe

It can be used this way too if the purpose is to only protect her virginity or avoid unwanted pregnancy and some STD.

Angelina

Vanessa Sometimes if I've not much free time or if I'm tired! 😉

I can understand that, sometimes it is very much

Vanessa I think it would probably be the case for most wearers.

probably, but how big the difference is varies 😉

Ines I think that it can makes the girl needs more opening relieves and we would accept less the belt.

this could perhaps be prevented by planning the openings of the belt beforehand

shinydiamond77 I think sex should be allowed at that age,

so the main reason is that your daughter is too young? do you think at 17-18 she would be exempt from the belt?

shinydiamond77

Angelina so the main reason is that your daughter is too young? do you think at 17-18 she would be exempt from the belt?

Exactly. The belt's main purpose in my case is to stop her from doing anything involving her private area, and while that does include sex, it s unlikely that she would have sex at this age in the first place, so it usually ends up preventing her from doing other things.

Mary

I feel that Laura is right. It is certainly needed at that age to prevent sex, but also everything else.

Tobbe

The only reason to use a abstinence belt is when the woman wants to use it by herself as protection against rape. Then she also have full access to the keys.

Angelina

Tobbe Then she also have full access to the keys.

i would not say that you always need full access to the keys to wear an abstinence belt

HHelen Well, it's not a fear, I just don't see a reason for it. Just cons and no pros.

well, in my personal opinion i completely agree with you. i only ask because many parents see it differently

shinydiamond77

interesting, you approach the topic chastity belt differently than most other parents

HHelen

Angelina so i would be interested in your fears

Well, it's not a fear, I just don't see a reason for it. Just cons and no pros.

Mary

Yes. In my opinion, the purpose of a locked belt is to prevent the wearer from doing anything involving her private area. Nothing at all is far better than some compromise where some things are allowed and some things forbidden. Keep it simple and allow nothing at all.

shinydiamond77

Angelina It seems so, at least in regards to preventing sex specifically.

Angelina

Vanessa )are generally the most sexually active years.

actually i always thought it was the first years after the wedding 🙂

Vanessa I think it can be better to plan the openings,in this situation(or use "tokens" given at a planned time,but the wearer can decide when to use these).

right, but I think it is better to have a fixed plan, I think then there will be less discussions

Vanessa

Angelina actually i always thought it was the first years after the wedding 🙂

It would be logical,but I think it is more frequent during the student years.

In your case,if what you plan for your wedding work,you would be newly married and a student!😉

Angelina right, but I think it is better to have a fixed plan, I think then there will be less discussions

Token should be given on a specific day,and used once only,to not be in the same case than @Amira who was not in the mood during her opening day,but wanted to do it a lot a few days after...

Angelina

shinydiamond77

don't you think that a wedding would have a special meaning? it is a bit more symbolic than saying you are now 17 (or 18) and therefore you don't need the belt anymore

shinydiamond77

Angelina

I don't think that it's necessary to use the belt all the way up until marriage. The main goal is to keep the private area locked up until a certain age. After that, it's no longer needed.

Angelina

Vanessa In your case,if what you plan for your wedding work,you would be newly married and a student!😉

if we put our logics together it would mean twice as much sex as for anyone else 😂

Vanessa Token should be given on a specific day

i know what you mean and yes the thing with @Amira has shown that your idea is sometimes better, but it definitely leads to more discussions, which could be worse

Vanessa

Angelina if we put our logics together it would mean twice as much sex as for anyone else 😂

It's what I meant!😉

Angelina i know what you mean and yes the thing with @Amira has shown that your idea is sometimes better, but it definitely leads to more discussions, which could be worse

It should be clearly defined at the start.

Jonas

It is secure against sex(except oral sex).

Angelina

It depends how we define an abstinence belt.

Angelina to end their chastity at some point 😉

It's the case for us too,except the point where it would end would be when married!

Tobbe You can order most chastity belts without any second shield, except for MySteel which has a design that does not allow to remove it.

Unhappily...

Jonas

Angelina

"every good belt is secure"

Agree, for chastity belts. "Abstinence" belts not so secure!!

Angelina

Jonas Agree, for chastity belts. "Abstinence" belts not so secure!!

since it is about the way of wearing, i think it is not right, an abstinence belt can easily be made into a chastity belt. 😉

Tobbe

Angelina an abstinence belt can easily be made into a chastity belt.

It all depends on what chastity belt model you have. If it is delivered with the shield, it is simple, but if it has been ordered without, there may be no attachment points.

Angelina

Tobbe

but every belt can be unlocked and locked, then it is removed for breaks and put back on again afterwards. 😉

Fatherof3

Angelina Very true. My belt broke in October. I had to use a ball trap device while waiting on parts. Im Happily back in my belt now. No worries. 😃

Tobbe

Angelina But then we not talk about an abstinence belt, converted to be a chastity belt, when the perforated shield locks over the slit..

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