Health issues related to chastity

Vanessa

i think it is possible to accept the cb, i learned that in the last months, i accept the cb in the meantime, but i don't like to wear it of course

but you're right about other problems making it harder

Vanessa

exactly, even if I still don't succeed completely, I can accept my situation more and more

Angelina

I do my best for it,too.

But we,more or less,don't have the choice...

Vanessa

so it's important to accept it quickly, otherwise it can break us psychically.

Angelina so it's important to accept it quickly, otherwise it can break us psychically.

Angélina your remark is very interesting.

This is one of my biggest worries about you all (the girls in this forum).

I think that the human mind does not like being forced to do something that it finds unfair. Therefore it is possible that your discomfort may resurface many years later.

It's a bit like physical injury when you hit a body part.

We have a very bad time (first day in the belt)

Then the pain gets better (phase of acceptation compared to your situation)

And the pain returns sometime later in a less painful way but still handicapping (awareness of having been sexually repressed in a completely fair way)

I know that my way of thinking may seem you unfounded because you are currently in the period of d'acceptation.

But you can not deny that it is at the same time a time of great frustration for your mind.

Because even accepted, your situation is still unfair.

Esteban

of course i still suffer, but only in a few moments, it was much more in the beginning . and yes it is unfair especially as many other girls can use a cb better (but i don't want to say that i support forced wearing). but i can control my feelings better now and manage to achieve a certain indifference

Angelina of course i still suffer, but only in a few moments, it was much more in the beginning . and yes it is unfair especially as many other girls can use a cb better (but i don't want to say that i support forced wearing). but i can control my feelings better now and manage to achieve a certain indifference

If you feel that it becomes less difficult for you and that you suffer from it less and less then I can only be happy for you.

I hope that you will suffer less and less to the point of being able to forget your belt.

But if I found a technique that allows you to get an orgasm you would still be taking? (would you test it ?)

Esteban

I think you can never forget it, but I can accept it now

i would try it but only if there is no danger or risk in any way

Angelina

It think it would do such damages only if there is other problems.Wearing it reluctantly is not pleasant at all,but not that much harmful,even emotionally(but it is easier when we start to accept it,yes).

Angelina as many other girls can use a cb better (but i don't want to say that i support forced wearing).

I sometimes feel the same,some women I know would "benefit" more of a chastity belt than me(even if I was pretty "active",too! ),but I wouldn't agree about forced wearing,even for them.

Angelina I think you can never forget it, but I can accept it now

I've a similar opinion.I don't think it is possible to be used to it or to totally forget it,but we can manage it better.As we seem to do.

Angelina i would try it but only if there is no danger or risk in any way

You would be able to not tell it to your father?

Angelina lying is the worst crime in our family

But hiding important information on purpose is not? In our family it is the same. I ask because of your little video project

Sara2001

it is not the same, because if we do not say something it is not false information. it is not at all information. it is also not punished, my father always says, who wants to know something, must also ask for it concretely

Vanessa

there are definitely worse girls than you,
but outside of your adventures I think you are a great girl

but my father always asks exactly the same question, he expects the same from me. so he can uncover misbehaviour but he always says, who does not ask must not expect an answer

Angelina there are definitely worse girls than you,

I think it too,I was not ashamed of my sexuality,and my desires,but not a slut.

Angelina but outside of your adventures I think you are a great girl

Thank you(I guess)!

Angelina but my father always asks exactly the same question, he expects the same from me. so he can uncover misbehaviour but he always says, who does not ask must not expect an answer

Even if you omit voluntarily something forbidden,for example,if he asks for something more general,but not specifically about the rule you break?

Let's say,you go to a party when you were forbidden to go and you aren't caught;if your father ask you,the next day,"Have you slept well?",you can say "Yes,I had a good sleep!",while not telling you disobeyed,and it should not be considered as lying?

Vanessa

if I slept well despite the party it's not a lie even if it's unlikely that my father didn't notice it

i may hide things, but i may not lie. however, my father always asks very precisely so that hiding is almost impossible

Angelina

Yes,it is not technically a lie,but very close to it...

It seems he knows well how to adapt to his rules to not be trapped in his own rules,and so,not give you some way to manipulate these to your advantage!

Vanessa

exactly, therefore it is very important to discuss the contracts in detail and to talk regularly about the rules and contracts

Angelina

You review these at what frequency,generally?