Vanessa

exactly, if the family wouldn't work, the binding to the keyholder would be broken and we probably couldn't accept the belt πŸ™

    Angelina

    It is a bit the case of @strictfather's family,as the idea of a chastity belt was discussed when the situation was very tense,and it mainly made it worse.

      Vanessa

      exactly, before deciding for a cb, important family problems have to be clarified, I think that otherwise it can be a bad experience for the family πŸ™

        Angelina

        Yes,and even more if the use of a chastity belt is an important part of the problem.

          Vanessa

          exactly, i think any girl could come to terms with the cb, but not if it happens in combination with other problems

            Angelina

            I don't think it is possible to be used to it if she doesn't wear it willingly,but it would be way harder to manage if there is unsolved other problems too.

            Which don't mean that the chastity belt would be avoided if the other problems are solved,however.

              Vanessa

              i think it is possible to accept the cb, i learned that in the last months, i accept the cb in the meantime, but i don't like to wear it of course

              but you're right about other problems making it harder

                Angelina

                I think accepting our chastity belt is possible,even if wearing it reluctantly,but not being used to.

                But,for both,there should not be other problems,sure.

                  Vanessa

                  exactly, even if I still don't succeed completely, I can accept my situation more and more πŸ˜‰

                    Angelina so it's important to accept it quickly, otherwise it can break us psychically.

                    AngΓ©lina your remark is very interesting.

                    This is one of my biggest worries about you all (the girls in this forum).

                    I think that the human mind does not like being forced to do something that it finds unfair. Therefore it is possible that your discomfort may resurface many years later.

                    It's a bit like physical injury when you hit a body part.

                    We have a very bad time (first day in the belt)

                    Then the pain gets better (phase of acceptation compared to your situation)

                    And the pain returns sometime later in a less painful way but still handicapping (awareness of having been sexually repressed in a completely fair way)

                    I know that my way of thinking may seem you unfounded because you are currently in the period of d'acceptation.

                    But you can not deny that it is at the same time a time of great frustration for your mind.

                    Because even accepted, your situation is still unfair.

                      Esteban

                      of course i still suffer, but only in a few moments, it was much more in the beginning . and yes it is unfair especially as many other girls can use a cb better (but i don't want to say that i support forced wearing). but i can control my feelings better now and manage to achieve a certain indifference πŸ˜‰

                        Angelina of course i still suffer, but only in a few moments, it was much more in the beginning . and yes it is unfair especially as many other girls can use a cb better (but i don't want to say that i support forced wearing). but i can control my feelings better now and manage to achieve a certain indifference πŸ˜‰

                        If you feel that it becomes less difficult for you and that you suffer from it less and less then I can only be happy for you.

                        I hope that you will suffer less and less to the point of being able to forget your belt.

                        But if I found a technique that allows you to get an orgasm you would still be taking? (would you test it ?)

                          Esteban

                          I think you can never forget it, but I can accept it now πŸ˜‰

                          i would try it but only if there is no danger or risk in any way

                            Angelina

                            It think it would do such damages only if there is other problems.Wearing it reluctantly is not pleasant at all,but not that much harmful,even emotionally(but it is easier when we start to accept it,yes).

                            Angelina as many other girls can use a cb better (but i don't want to say that i support forced wearing).

                            I sometimes feel the same,some women I know would "benefit" more of a chastity belt than me(even if I was pretty "active",too!πŸ˜‰ ),but I wouldn't agree about forced wearing,even for them.

                            Angelina I think you can never forget it, but I can accept it now πŸ˜‰

                            I've a similar opinion.I don't think it is possible to be used to it or to totally forget it,but we can manage it better.As we seem to do.

                            Angelina i would try it but only if there is no danger or risk in any way

                            You would be able to not tell it to your father?

                              Vanessa

                              please don't be angry at me, but if you write about your previous sex life, you would also fall into this category πŸ˜‰

                              if my father doesn't ask me, I don't have to tell it, only I won't lie, because lying is the worst crime in our family πŸ™

                                Angelina lying is the worst crime in our family πŸ™

                                But hiding important information on purpose is not? In our family it is the same. I ask because of your little video project πŸ˜€

                                  Sara2001

                                  it is not the same, because if we do not say something it is not false information. it is not at all information. it is also not punished, my father always says, who wants to know something, must also ask for it concretely πŸ™‚

                                  Angelina please don't be angry at me, but if you write about your previous sex life, you would also fall into this category πŸ˜‰

                                  Not for all the decisions I took!But for some,yes,I've to agree I would have "benefited" to wear a chastity belt permanently at this time.Even if I don't consider myself to be very slutty.

                                  But,as I said in the other topic,all my decisions about my sexual life were not bad,and wearing a chastity belt permanently would have made me lose the good ones too...The "punishment wearing" have made me lose enough of these!

                                  Angelina if my father doesn't ask me, I don't have to tell it, only I won't lie, because lying is the worst crime in our family πŸ™

                                  And I think he won't ask you about it.

                                  Sara2001

                                  Same for me.Lying by omitting voluntarily something,especially if I know it is forbidden,is considered as lying,and is punished the same way.