Angelina so it's important to accept it quickly, otherwise it can break us psychically.
AngΓ©lina your remark is very interesting.
This is one of my biggest worries about you all (the girls in this forum).
I think that the human mind does not like being forced to do something that it finds unfair. Therefore it is possible that your discomfort may resurface many years later.
It's a bit like physical injury when you hit a body part.
We have a very bad time (first day in the belt)
Then the pain gets better (phase of acceptation compared to your situation)
And the pain returns sometime later in a less painful way but still handicapping (awareness of having been sexually repressed in a completely fair way)
I know that my way of thinking may seem you unfounded because you are currently in the period of d'acceptation.
But you can not deny that it is at the same time a time of great frustration for your mind.
Because even accepted, your situation is still unfair.