Ines

otherwise I would never let anyone lock me up 🙂

    Angelina

    Angelina a girl who is so close to suicide usually has a rather broken family relationship

    In reality it is unlikely that the wearing of the belt, alone can, lead to a suicide attempt. (I concede it to you)

    But if the wearing of the belt comes at a time when the girl feels very bad (breakup with boyfriend, school failure, does not feel good in his body ...) and well in this case the wearing of the belt that would now prevent him from masturbating (by depriving her of the only moment of happiness to which she could still hang on) this can unfortunately lead to a desperate act.

    Once again, repressing an individual's sexuality is not harmless on the psychological and emotional level.

          Esteban

          therefore, the girl must have a good relationship with her parents and be able to talk about it. wearing a cbs only works in happy families.

              Angelina my father thinks in the same order 🙂

              I think it is the most logical one.

              Ines

              It is a bit different if having to wear it due to parents' decision...But they should not be tyrant too,sure.

              Angelina

              I agree.Even if I don't like at all to wear my chastity belt,I've to say,that,except it,my family is pretty happy.

              And I guess it is your case,too.

                      Vanessa I think it is the most logical one.

                      My father thinks the same. And Daniel thinks the same. I think the same, too.

                          Vanessa

                          exactly, my father is very strict in some things (chastity etc.), but he is also very loving and generous 🙂 and I can talk to him about everything 🙂

                              Sara2001

                              Good you all have the same opinion about it.

                              Angelina

                              I think it is an important point for us to accept,more or less,to wear a chastity belt,even reluctantly.

                                    Vanessa

                                    exactly, if the family wouldn't work, the binding to the keyholder would be broken and we probably couldn't accept the belt 🙁

                                        Angelina

                                        It is a bit the case of @strictfather's family,as the idea of a chastity belt was discussed when the situation was very tense,and it mainly made it worse.

                                            Vanessa

                                            exactly, before deciding for a cb, important family problems have to be clarified, I think that otherwise it can be a bad experience for the family 🙁

                                                Angelina

                                                Yes,and even more if the use of a chastity belt is an important part of the problem.

                                                    Vanessa

                                                    exactly, i think any girl could come to terms with the cb, but not if it happens in combination with other problems

                                                        Angelina

                                                        I don't think it is possible to be used to it if she doesn't wear it willingly,but it would be way harder to manage if there is unsolved other problems too.

                                                        Which don't mean that the chastity belt would be avoided if the other problems are solved,however.

                                                            Vanessa

                                                            i think it is possible to accept the cb, i learned that in the last months, i accept the cb in the meantime, but i don't like to wear it of course

                                                            but you're right about other problems making it harder

                                                                Angelina

                                                                I think accepting our chastity belt is possible,even if wearing it reluctantly,but not being used to.

                                                                But,for both,there should not be other problems,sure.

                                                                    Vanessa

                                                                    exactly, even if I still don't succeed completely, I can accept my situation more and more 😉

                                                                        Angelina so it's important to accept it quickly, otherwise it can break us psychically.

                                                                        Angélina your remark is very interesting.

                                                                        This is one of my biggest worries about you all (the girls in this forum).

                                                                        I think that the human mind does not like being forced to do something that it finds unfair. Therefore it is possible that your discomfort may resurface many years later.

                                                                        It's a bit like physical injury when you hit a body part.

                                                                        We have a very bad time (first day in the belt)

                                                                        Then the pain gets better (phase of acceptation compared to your situation)

                                                                        And the pain returns sometime later in a less painful way but still handicapping (awareness of having been sexually repressed in a completely fair way)

                                                                        I know that my way of thinking may seem you unfounded because you are currently in the period of d'acceptation.

                                                                        But you can not deny that it is at the same time a time of great frustration for your mind.

                                                                        Because even accepted, your situation is still unfair.

                                                                            Esteban

                                                                            of course i still suffer, but only in a few moments, it was much more in the beginning . and yes it is unfair especially as many other girls can use a cb better (but i don't want to say that i support forced wearing). but i can control my feelings better now and manage to achieve a certain indifference 😉