I can agree with you a little bit
but i have to make it clear that it would be much, much worse for me if i reported my father to the authorities. it's not just about the emotional connection to my father, but also about the fact that i would lose a lot of advantages of my current life just to get one advantage
Ok I respect that. You seem to have made peace with the arrangement you are in.
However, are you familiar with the theory behind the idea of mutually assured destruction? The Cold War was centered around this concept. M.A.D. is when both the parties in a conflict or disagreement have the capability to completely destroy the other, or in your case cause significant harm in each others' lives. You had a very powerful bargaining chip back when this all started (or at least I believe so reading some of your posts). I believe that you mentioned that one of the reasons behind your father forcing you into a chastity belt was that your mother left him for another man. Aside from you and his own mother, he has no-one. He was a distraught, distrusting mess who was so desperate to retain you in his life that he resorted to this extremely abusive and upsetting behaviour.
But here's the thing: he has just as much to lose from you reporting him as you do.
Personally if I had been in your position back when he forced you into a belt (I don't know the exact circumstances however, I admit this) I'd have explained the situation very clearly - that he has precisely 2 options: either he forgets the silly idea with the belt right now and never brings it up again, in which case we both agree to forget all about it or the "nuclear option" - I go to the police and get taken away immediately by child protective services. Threatening to lock up a child in bondage like that is textbook child abuse, he'd be in trouble with the law. Now neither of you don't want this , but I'd have explained that if he tries to push the belt idea even once more then he will lose you, and you don't want to lose him either.
If what I remember reading is true then he would have cared far too much about retaining you to gamble like that. If wanting to keep you desperately to himself was the reason for him putting you in a belt, then you threatening to get taken away would strike him where it hurts.
Of course there are benefits to staying in your family, but from what I've read he's got far too much to lose to let you go to report him, meaning you wouldn't have to. This is the concept of mutually assured destruction - neither party wants this outcome to occur but both know that it will if one of the parties fails to conform to the other's wishes.
You still have this powerful bargaining chip - with all your bondage gear padlocked on you at all times you'd just have to show a teacher and explain that you're kept like this 24/7 and child protective services would swoop and unleash a shitstorm the likes of which you father has never even conceived of before.
Sorry to ramble like this but I just thought that it would be fair to try an describe your situation from my perspective. I am curious whether there's something I said that you disagree with. Good night 
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Epicurus You seem to have made peace with the arrangement you are in.
not really i am still trying to get the belt off, that will never change, but not for any price 
Epicurus was that your mother left him for another man.
I can't really imagine, but it's certainly possible
Epicurus But here's the thing: he has just as much to lose from you reporting him as you do.
And that's exactly why I don't use "hard" means. Why should I destroy two lives
Epicurus but I'd have explained that if he tries to push the belt idea even once more then he will lose you, and you don't want to lose him either.
the problem is my father would then break the relationship with me (at least as far as possible) otherwise of course I would have tried
Epicurus I am curious whether there's something I said that you disagree with
no i agree with you in general, but there are things i think are more important than fighting a battle where there are only losers. it's not that my father locked me in these devices by force. if i firmly insist that he should give me the keys he will do so, but my life (at least until i get married) will not be a good life anymore
I love Mutually Assured Destruction (MAD) even trough I would rather have Mutually Assured Masturbation with some cool confident athletic Top boy whom I would glad to make bottom for me even though I'm rather bottom if so 
I love Mutually Destruction concept
https://youtu.be/hyFphyoPRS0
When I play civilization 6 I always produce loot of nukes to respond in kind if someone trying to screw me over ;-)
Angelina
Screw it, i think it's better break should relationship if so, it's learned helpness.
Every human being whatever is boy or girl should have right to freedom and self-determination.
https://youtu.be/nAIPECyFHco
hornyaspie2 Every human being whatever is boy or girl should have right to freedom and self-determination.
right, but not if sexual freedom takes away too many other freedoms from me
Angelina
What do you mean?
Paul I must say it sounds like chastity to me.
hornyaspie2 What do you mean?
that by wearing the belt i have many other privileges freedoms and financial support that i do not want to lose
Angelina that by wearing the belt i have many other privileges freedoms and financial support that i do not want to lose
What kind of privileges and financial support do you mean?
Besides, there are no such things that a good lawyer cannot win for you in court ;-)
Are you afraid it would ruin your family relationship?
Such treatment is not worth such sacrifices
It is no different from allowing physical aggression, as with these people, usually women who allow themselves to be beaten and if they dare to report it to the authorities, but it is enough for the attacker to apologize and they immediately withdraw their complaints, no matter what that they've been through it a couple of times already!
Can you remind me of how you even started walking in this chastity belt, what was your life like before you were forced to wear it, and soon after?
What country are you from if you can ask?
hornyaspie2 What kind of privileges and financial support do you mean?
I've probably written that 1000 times here, at least once a day, I won't repeat that now
hornyaspie2 Are you afraid it would ruin your family relationship?
that is one reason yes
hornyaspie2 Can you remind me of how you even started walking in this chastity belt, what was your life like before you were forced to wear it, and soon after?
yes, at the beginning of 2019 and yes it was a very bad year for the relationship between me and my father and it almost broke up, but i forgave him even if i still don't think it's good, because there are things that are more important in life than sexual freedom are
Angelina yes, at the beginning of 2019 and yes it was a very bad year for the relationship between me and my father and it almost broke up, but i forgave him even if i still don't think it's good, because there are things that are more important in life than sexual freedom are
What happened? Caught you with a boyfriend or girlfriend?
Is it due to religious reasons?
hornyaspie2 What happened? Caught you with a boyfriend or girlfriend?
Is it due to religious reasons?
i was caught masturbating. no, at least for my father no religious reasons. he thinks that masturbating distracts me from important things in life and that i could have sex with people i don't really love (that's why the belt until the wedding).
Angelina
I think he's wrong and you should fight for your right even if that means you lost good relationship with him, he abusing you.
hornyaspie2 even if that means you lost good relationship with him, he abusing you.
and it is exactly this part of your sentence that i see differently
Angelina
Why?
And what masturbating have with having sex with people you don't love?
Strange
Angelina thinks that masturbating distracts me from important things in life and that i could have sex with people i don't really love (that's why the belt until the wedding).
How?
