Esteban In the rules of the forum you could make recommendations on confidentiality for example by advising newcomers not to mention their real first name in order to avoid too obvious identification of a parent who comes to discover the forum by chance.

https://unwedchastity.org/d/19-private-browsing-and-anonymity

Esteban And for girls who would not dare to take the plunge for fear of being identified by their parents, it might be interesting to offer an email address available which can only be viewed by forum moderators.

I always offer an e-mail address at unwedchastity.org

Esteban This would perhaps allow you to establish private contacts with girls wishing information on a specific point which would not have dared to ask it publicly.

I can always do it even now

Esteban Do you have the possibility to check if Amber has been tracked by another user?

Usually people read all topics. But good point.

Esteban Have you noticed something similar for Amber?

No

              @Laura

              as long as no one follows Amber, i think we should keep the community together, i think it can be very good if wearers and not wearers can exchange

              @Esteban

              after talking to my father i can say that nobody is following me here 😉

                You have to keep in mind that there are people who know nothing about it (like me). Therefore they will not be able to set up what you offer simply because they will understand nothing at all.

                Not to mention that the discussion to which you refer fell into the abyssal depths of the forum (the last message dates from July 05). Could you see out of curiosity how many people we have consulted with since ?

                In my opinion, this element should be put forward by joining it with the rules of the forum and including the email address allowing you to be able to contact you.

                Laura J'offre toujours une adresse e-mail à unwedchastity.org

                Yes, but you must already be registered to obtain this address. No ?
                There should be an address available for everyone.

                You could add a little accompanying phrase to the style:

                "Do you have a specific question? But you dare not ask it publicly out of modesty or for fear of being identified, then send your question to this address [...] and we will try to answer your problem as best as possible we'll be able to"

                It's nice to know that what I proposed already exists but unfortunately if no one can know that it really exists it is useless. The important things should be highlighted. And there, I think there is unfortunately a problem of visibility.

                      Esteban Not to mention that the discussion to which you refer fell into the abyssal depths of the forum (the last message dates from July 05). Could you see out of curiosity how many people we have consulted with since ?

                      This discussion started at the misterpoll

                      Esteban There should be an address available for everyone.

                      They can use an one-time transient address for registration

                          Angelina as long as no one follows Amber, i think we should keep the community together, i think it can be very good if wearers and not wearers can exchange

                          I agree with you about it.

                              Angelina

                              Happily,this one is pretty active presently!🙂

                              Longer to read or answer,but very pleasant.

                                  Vanessa

                                  exactly, but even if it takes some time, I am happy to be here and answer all questions or give tips to others 😉

                                      Vanessa

                                      but I wonder how you can still write so late in the evening with your new job 😂

                                          Angelina

                                          I mainly do it when I've to start later the next day or when I've insomnia;and I'll try to write here more or less every other day.

                                          Not sure I can always do it,depending on the job I've,but,for now,it works!🙂

                                              Vanessa

                                              i don't always have much time, i will write today for example now and look again tonight, mostly i do my homework before and after. if i have a date with camryn it is more difficult but it depends on how many posts i answer 🙂

                                                  Angelina

                                                  I've did it a few times,but it is better for me to write here late,when I'm pretty sure my parents won't come in my bedroom unexpectedly and I don't have to care too much about it.

                                                      Vanessa

                                                      luckily I don't have to pay attention 🙂

                                                      but currently there is not so much going on here 🙁

                                                          Vanessa Yes,it is a bit calm here since a few days...Let's hope it won't last too long!

                                                          Yes, I feel not many of tell our stories in detail. Many of the newer members only make very short posts and the frequency of answers is not very high. There is nothing wrong with it, I just see it. I always love to hear how other families work.

                                                              Vanessa Yes,it is a bit calm here since a few days...

                                                              Also I'm a little busy in other things these days

                                                                I admit I don't have much exciting stuff going on at my place.

                                                                My main concern is that only very few people have written in the last few days, so the number of people has dropped considerably 🙁

                                                                and I'm worried again about @Ines 🙁