Every girl should wear a chastity belt

Joh

Max9
I am sorry that you had such a bad experience. And your experience with the teacher should not have happened at all. Not for nothing was determined from what age you may have sex and how old the partner may be.
Did you take advantage of psychological care to be able to process the experience?

I suffered a lot from my mother's behaviour without realising it. After a few attempts I found someone who helped me. Now I am in the clear with it but nevertheless I remain to never see my mother again.
I can only recommend it.

I hope you will find the right person soon.

Max9

Joh Did you take advantage of psychological care to be able to process the experience?

Nope, the pedophile person was a youth psychologist who lost her allowance to work, probably because of her desires, she switched to consulting afterwards... she's extremely manipulative ... I don't want to have anything to do with people who work in this job ever again.

Joh

Max9
Ops. This is double bad luck.
I understand why you do not want it. But not everyone is like her. Maybe you give it another try. In some years if you feel more confident.
I needed several before I found the right one but I had never one who tried something suspicious.

Max9

Joh "Bring back the past only if you're going to build from it" - Dominico Estrada

It's locked inside a lamp and I don't want to run at this oil lamp... I know, western cariations of the myth say that a Gini fullfills wishes, but according to the original arabic mythology a Gini is a monster that comes out of ther to destroy you... like a box of the pandora just that hope isn't inside.
It's past and I don't like rubbing the oil lamp.

Joh

Max9
It's ok. If you do not feel the need to solve this, don't do it.

Vanessa

Angelina I would probably rather give the keys to my girlfriend ;

Understandable!😉

Jen And you all mess with my sleep everyone posts when I should be in bed

🤣

GoodyProctor

Logical,and wise.

GoodyProctor I hate feeling tied down

You would not feel this way with a chastity belt.

GoodyProctor The idea of being locked up by anyone else is even worse.

However it would not be a punishment,but a choice;don't you think you would feel it differently?

GoodyProctor t's that I'm pretty sure it's the start of something bigger that I'm not ready to deal with.

Not if you don't want to.

GoodyProctor know for a fact that if I accept any belt, she'll try to find a way to expand it.

Don't tell her.

Laura

Possible,yes!😉

GoodyProctor

A belt can always be destroyed/lockpicked.And,in your case,it would not be hard to get the keys back.

GoodyProctor Sometimes if I'm in a cranky mood I'll say it's none of her business, which she assumes is a yes.

I think every parents would think it is a "yes"!😉

GoodyProctor

Start by wearing it a day,not a night.

HHelen And I want to prevent such "experiments".

I've to admit that,in university and such,it is more sexual,and with more experiments.

But if you daughter is willing to stay virgin until marriage,she could keep it during her studies.

HHelen

GoodyProctor There's nothing wrong with learning about your own sexuality in college. It's a great place for it.

I'm pretty sure she should learn something else there.

GoodyProctor My mother thinks I'm going to hell because I masturbate and don't go to church

Therefore your life is not your own completely.

Vanessa But if you daughter is willing to stay virgin until marriage,she could keep it during her studies.

Even @Laura had to wear a belt during her studies.

Angelina

Max9

i think if you find a girl who really loves you it will be no problem to talk about it openly, maybe you should date a girl without reservations and see how it develops. when the time is right you can tell her about your preferences, if you explain it well i think she will understand it 🙂

Vanessa But if you daughter is willing to stay virgin until marriage,she could keep it during her studies.

the only question is whether it needs the belt to do so 😉

HHelen I'm pretty sure she should learn something else there.

yes, that's true, but studying is not just about learning a subject, it should be an experience for life. 🙂

Saintprudence

Laura It is. I think you are not against the belt in principle, but want to be persuaded 😂

I love how you’re my biggest co-conspirator here!

Man, at the rate I’m going I may never get out of the corner, haha!

Saintprudence

HHelen Laura has been kept belted a lot longer than that, haha!

GoodyProctor

HHelen Therefore your life is not your own completely.

My mother certainly thinks so, but I disagree. My life and the future of my soul belong totally to me. If my mother's religious beliefs require me to follow them to make her feel better, that's her problem.

Vanessa

HHelen Even @Laura had to wear a belt during her studies.

I was still studying when I had to start to wear it permanently,too.

But your daughter want to stay virgin until marriage.Making her wear one because you think there is a risk she would change her mind easily show you don't trust her,which is not good.

And it isn't your only purpose;otherwise she could be free when alone at home,or during night.

Angelina the only question is whether it needs the belt to do so 😉

I depends how much she is trusted.

Angelina yes, that's true, but studying is not just about learning a subject, it should be an experience for life. 🙂

Yes,but I think many parents would prefer we concentrate mainly on studies instead of parties,friends,boyfriends/girlfriends,etc...

GoodyProctor I'm ready to do this thing

Congratulations!🙂

GoodyProctor I guess I'm temporarily in the "reluctantly belted" club!

Welcome! 🤣

GoodyProctor Neither of us is as organized as some people here so there's no contract, it's all verbal.

It's the case for most of us.

GoodyProctor no tightbands

Good,the belt is enough!

GoodyProctor She has to take her belt off the whole time. If she can be responsible for me, she needs to be responsible for herself. She needs to take this exercise seriously and think like an engaged keyholder. I'll defer to her authority around the house

It makes sense,yes.

Tobbe This is the wrong way to start wearing a belt! We talking metal against skin and your body must be used.

Generally,yes,but I think they can take good care of it;and adapt if needed.

GoodyProctor But if you think it will work better this way, we can do what I usually do with Pru and take it off for a few hours during the day when she can supervise.

It can be helpful if you've some problems wearing it permanently at the start,yes.

GoodyProctor

🤣

Laura

I agree.

GoodyProctor Belt is on now.

Good!😉

GoodyProctor I have the pillow I once gave Pru, a curved heavy pillow that goes between the knees for support.

Good idea.

GoodyProctor that Hawkeye expansion of the Avengers game

Is it a good one?I've played a bit at Avengers,but not that much...I should give it another chance...

Laura

🤣

GoodyProctor

😉

Saintprudence Goody made it through the night more or less okay.

Good it went well!

Saintprudence no wandering hands take advantage of the belt being opened

😉

Angelina i disagree it could be very romantic 🙂

But can turn bad,with blackmailing,and such...

Saintprudence

So it would be a useful experience for you too!

GoodyProctor I'm trying very hard not to call it "my belt"

At the end of the week,maybe!😉

GoodyProctor I decided not to take my option to call it off tonight, so it's six more days without masturbation for me.

Good luck;if you did it daily,it would be hard!

Saintprudence I want to be careful with this authority and not get too drunk with power

Yes,as you're not used to,you should be very careful.

Angelina i understand, but does one have to exclude the other

I think so.Not possible to do both at the same time.

GoodyProctor I don't like the belt but I also don't mind the increased intimacy.

It seems you can appreciate at least a part of this experience!🙂

Saintprudence Tomorrow will be a fun test: our first public outing while she’s belted. Just a little grocery shopping and dinner on a restaurant patio. We’ll see if this feels any different!

New pattern for the openings and going out,it would be interesting for you both.

HHelen

Saintprudence Laura has been kept belted a lot longer than that, haha!

Because she was still single.

GoodyProctor If my mother's religious beliefs require me to follow them to make her feel better, that's her problem.

But you still answer her questions she is not supposed to ask.

Vanessa I was still studying when I had to start to wear it permanently,too.

But your daughter want to stay virgin until marriage.

You didn't want to, but @Laura did and still got a belt.

Vanessa show you don't trust her,which is not good.

No, I don't trust her in this and she knows it.

Vanessa otherwise she could be free when alone at home,or during night.

The possibility of being without a belt will provoke her.

GoodyProctor I imagine many conservative parents, discovering a willingly chaste adult daughter, might

But if you are older than me, as you mentioned before, it might not be a good idea.

GoodyProctor

All right. Pru and I have been talking last night and this morning and I'm ready to do this thing before I talk myself out of it. I guess I'm temporarily in the "reluctantly belted" club! Since I'm pretty much the "every girl" of the thread name, this seems like a great place to write a diary.
Neither of us is as organized as some people here so there's no contract, it's all verbal. Here's the rundown: Pru will lock me in the belt this evening and I'll stay in it for 24 hours. After that, I can call this off or continue for the rest of the week. If I make it through the first day I'll commit to trying to be a good wearer for a week, which I figure even I should be able to pull off. I'll wear the shield for protective purposes. I don't like it but I accept it. Showers will be supervised just like hers are. Good news for me: the old belt isn't equipped for thigh bands and her current belt can't be adjusted to fit me, so no tightbands for Goody!
My conditions for Pru: She has to take her belt off the whole time. If she can be responsible for me, she needs to be responsible for herself. She needs to take this exercise seriously and think like an engaged keyholder. I'll defer to her authority around the house, and that means I get a break from being in charge for a week, laughs. Running a household is a big mental drain, she might be as eager to give that up as I am to get unbelted when this is over! A beltwearer shouldn't be giving orders to their keyholder, and if I'm going to do this thing, I want to do it right, dammit! This is also why I won't be a long-term wearer, though, laughs.
Pru doesn't get to tell my mother about any of this. If she feels like it she can say she's taking a brief break from the belt herself, but for her sake she should probably just not say anything and not set off my mother's nosiness.

Tobbe

GoodyProctor Pru will lock me in the belt this evening and I'll stay in it for 24 hours.

This is the wrong way to start wearing a belt! We talking metal against skin and your body must be used.
First day, one or two hours max!
Then + one hour each day, until you have held on for about a month and first then can wear it on you 24/7.
Forced use only causes discomfort and you will take it off after a few days. Then say that 24/7 is just a fabrication because you could not do it.

Laura

GoodyProctor Pru will lock me in the belt this evening and I'll stay in it for 24 hours

Mutual keyholding is always a bad idea in my opinion

Angelina

GoodyProctor

that sounds very interesting. what i don't understand is why Pru should take off the belt while you wear it, you can both look after each other and be each other's keyholder 😉

Laura Mutual keyholding is always a bad idea in my opinion

i disagree it could be very romantic 🙂

GoodyProctor

I'm sure I can make it past one day but I wanted to give myself the escape hatch. I'm too proud and bullheaded not to make it! And a week should be workable, especially since we're not going anywhere. I almost went for three days but I decided not to go small here. If it needs physically removed to give my body a break for a little bit since I'm not fully trained, Pru has to watch me like a hawk the whole time.

GoodyProctor

Tobbe I've worn it before, for a few hours, just not for days at a time, and it's reasonably well fitted to me. Also I'm extremely stubborn! I did track and field, I know all about chafing, laughs. But if you think it will work better this way, we can do what I usually do with Pru and take it off for a few hours during the day when she can supervise.

Tobbe

GoodyProctor You seem to see it more as a challenge!
"I can wear it for many hours and will prove it to you."
But it's the stupid way and so most females do, who then get into trouble.
This is no fabric panties that shape to your body. It is metal that your body have to form into.

GoodyProctor

I appreciate that your first thought is for my well-being, though. And I'm not surprised that your second thought is for convincing me 24/7 is fine long-term!

GoodyProctor

Tobbe Seeing it as a challenge is the only way I think I can tolerate it!

GoodyProctor

Tobbe But it's the stupid way and so most females do, who then get into trouble.

The best thing about being an old lady is that this is weirdly charming now instead of being really annoying!

GoodyProctor

That was what made me decide I should be able to do it, to be honest. Pru has worn this thing for years and I can't bear it for a single damn week? No, ma'am, that's not gonna happen.

Tobbe

GoodyProctor I have now told you how to do it.
If you consider yourself more knowledgeable, then do as you please, but do not come and say on any forum, that it is impossible to use chastity belt for a long time.
It's kind of like buying new hiking boots. You do not take them on and then walk a week in the terrain.

GoodyProctor

Tobbe If you consider yourself more knowledgeable, then do as you please, but do not come and say on any forum, that it is impossible to use chastity belt for a long time.

For the record, I've never said that and I never will. After all, I've lived with Pru all this time! I have my doubts about individual people's stories but I don't doubt long-term wearing is possible.

GoodyProctor

Tobbe If you consider yourself more knowledgeable, then do as you please

Please accept my apology for being disrespectful of your advice last night. It was not an appropriate way to address your experience.

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