Christine No.
Being respective.
Some advice I have is have for women our age and our position, is to get your hands on things.
For instance driving friends or running a church program.
In England you have young who shop for older people (sometimes don't pay full price, use discounts).
Of course you can do those jobs respectfully... Another girl Mandi used church activities to justify release.
From everyone I know like you that is somehow the fastest way to getting a less strict relationship with parents.
If you don't mind me asking where do you spend most of your time these days???