Secondary shield
Vanessa As one of the purpose of my chastity belt is to prevents me to masturbate,no chance they change their mind about it.
And I think this approach, about masturbation, is right.
I know that most of you are wearing reluctantly the belt, and most of you are wearing for a longer term than me and it could make me change my mind, but I think that avoid we can fall in the temptation is a goal of our belts.
Another thing is that some girls can thinking that it will be more bearable if they could experiment some sensations, but I think that absence of stimulation is the objective. And for that, for this sacrifice, I believe, every day more firmly, in that, this sacrifice, just must be done willingly.
my new belt should be delivered on friday, i am a little nervous and hope that the new belt is comfortable to wear 
You're so cruel
More seriously,I think it is not that good to prevent a woman to masturbate.Even if excluding the good parts we know(getting orgasms,feeling well,etc...),there is still valid arguments.It does no harm to anyone(except if excessive),and some people think it is good for the health(maybe there is scientific studies about the benefits of female masturbation,but not sure).And it is better for a woman to know her body,what she likes the most,how she reacts and such;it would help her to have a better sexual life later,with her husband.
I hope too,and hope you'll "like" it!
I don't understand your first sentence.
They want me to not masturbate or have sex anymore until I'm married.
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Renita You are not only girl suffered by secondary shield. Other parents might be more reasonable.
Sure.But I think it is mainly used to prevent masturbation or some kind of sex.
Renita I understand, but why?
I've answered it before:
Vanessa Firstly,they probably thought I knew enough how my body react and how other men/women body react to be able to be a good wife,even sexually.Masturbating and having sex was forbidden,and severely punished,but they probably knew,without proof,I sometimes do it,but tolerate it.I guess they accepted I cheated a bit,while using these rules to be sure it is not too often,and accepted I learnt how my,and my partner's,body reacted when having sex/orgasming.
Secondly,I was going to start my Master's degree soon after(the belt was locked permanently a bit before the last partiels for my Licence),and,as these studies are harder,they probably thought it would be better for me to concentrate mainly on studies,not on sexual pleasure.
Thirdly,a bit shaming,but I tended to be more "sexual" since I started university...Masturbating more often,having new boyfriends/girlfriends more often...And,more disobedience,breaking my "sexual rules" more often,and often punished for it,including wearing my chastity belt for some time...My parents may have thought I should be "calmed" sexually a bit,then preventing it would be better than punishing me for it.
I guess there can be other reasons,but these are probably the main ones;not totally sure,however,I don't discuss it much with my parents,as I don't feel at ease to talk about it with them...
Angelina there doesn't necessarily have to be reasons some parents just want it
Right,they don't have to explain us exactly their reasons,it don't change things much...
Angelina like it would be a little too well expressed, I hope that I can accept it
Better said this way,sure.
I agree.I think that being prevented to masturbate and have sex,and trying to concentrate in other things(inclduing studies)to manage the urges,have impacted my study habits,and,so,my grades.
As it is not the only reason,and as they seems to like the idea of making me wait until marriage.
Vanessa As it is not the only reason,and as they seems to like the idea of making me wait until marriage.
I think that's very typical. My father thinks the same and Angelina's father, too. No matter how the circumstances are. Anything that prevents masturbation stays in place all the time until marriage or the key to the equipment will be given to our partners during wedding and then they decided how long, when and why anything stays in place.