Vanessa Have you to wait until a determined age before being allowed to date someone?

Not really, not sure how he had reacted when I had started it at the age of 13 or something like that. At least since we wear the belt it is fully ok for us to have dates but I never had before Daniel.

      @Vanessa

      then you can be glad not to have this ability 😉 but I treg mine also permanently although I do not have this ability, so anything can happen 🙁

      @Sara2001

      that's a good rule of your father 🙂 i had to fight hard for him to keep the date lock until my 18th birthday 🙁

        Sara2001

        Not too much rules about it,so.

        Angelina then you can be glad not to have this ability 😉 but I treg mine also permanently although I do not have this ability, so anything can happen 🙁

        Well,it would have been helpful,but,if discovered,probably had bad consequences,too.

        But right,in your case,it woud not have changed anything...

        Angelina that's a good rule of your father 🙂 i had to fight hard for him to keep the date lock until my 18th birthday 🙁

        It would have been pretty hard to have to wait until that age to date,good he changed his mind after you met Camryn!

                Vanessa

                no actually it wouldn't have been difficult, i think it would have been ok if i hadn't found anyone 😉
                difficult it becomes only if you are already in love and then must wait, therefore it was important that I could convince my father

                    Angelina

                    Right.I think more it is hard if you like someone,have some feelings for him/her and aren't allowed to try to become closer to him/her,to try to seduce him/her,and finally notices he/she starts to date someone else,who is less restricted...

                    But not only hard if in love,it starts to be hard even if you only like someone and aren't allowed to be "more than friends" with him/her.

                        Vanessa

                        that's true for me only friends, I haven't felt for any of my friends (even the male ones) any more, which is also good, because unhappy love can destroy friendship

                            Angelina

                            Better you hadn't romantic feelings with your friends,while your father wasn't ok to cancel this rule.

                            Do you think he would have cancelled it easily if you felt in love with one of your friends?

                            It can be very good to date a friend,we're close since the start of the relationship and already know each other and our tastes well,but if it doesn't work,we lose a boyfriend/girlfriend and a friend too(as it is rarer to keep friendhip after we break-up).It is a very good,but risked,relationship;however,I think it's worth trying it.

                                Vanessa

                                i think he would have accepted it, he also accepted camryn 😉 but i think it would have been hard if the relationship hadn't worked 🙁

                                    Angelina

                                    It is logical he would accept you had a boyfriend/girlfriend if you hadn't met Camryn and fall in love with someone else,yes.

                                    Hard for you and your ex-partner,or hard about changing the rule a second time,the next time you want to date someone,if the first time wasn't successful?

                                        Vanessa
                                        For me is the nicer relationship, in home my sister is "no dating" with a friend of infancy since a lot of years ago (almost since they met😅). And it is nice the level of knowledge that they have about the other.
                                        I would like they dare to give a step more, but... anyway all we know how they will end 😆!

                                            Vanessa

                                            i think if the relationship doesn't work, we'll go back to the old rule (no dates under 18) and i won't have a chance to change that rule anymore 🙁
                                            i had to convince my father 100% that i am serious about camryn

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