Purpose of preventing masturbation?

BikelockFugitive

I thought it because you wrote:

BikelockFugitive When I used to live at my parents place I had one, was really great.

And I thought the word "one" refers to a chastiy cage(or belt).

Angelina i agree with you. even if i was caught i do not regret that i masturbated. it was a very nice feeling and i enjoyed it very much, especially because it helped me a lot after stressful days. and yes i miss this feeling so much

It was very pleasant to do it and get such feelings,yes But it is harder to admit we won't feel it anymore,probably during years,if we know these,and we miss it much than if we don't know these feelings.In this case,we can guess it is pleasant feelings,but it is easier to manage to not being able to do it,I think...

Angelina If you mean me to use workshop from my office -no, I can't. We didn't have forge. And it will be strange,if I use it to make chastity,but not electronic devices.
If you mean me to earn money with my profession- well, after next 6 month my salary will be raised, and I will think about workshop.

amber Is it just bad to masturbate before turning 18?

It's bad in any age. You should try to avoid it.

Vanessa if we know these,and we miss it much than if we don't know these feelings.

it's easier that's true, but when you have your first orgasm on your wedding night it can be scary, when you masturbate you know roughly how it feels

Daniil

I meant the first one

amber it only became a huge argument later.

unfortunately this is mostly the case, but with time you will learn to stay calm even in such situations. this helps for your whole life

amber Is it just bad to masturbate before turning 18?

it is generally not bad, completely independent of age, but our parents think it is very bad

Laura It's bad in any age. You should try to avoid it.

I see no reason for that

Angelina I see no reason for that

For example @Renita looks less aggressive since she is not able to masturbate anymore

Laura Seriously though I think it depends on where someone is in life... I want to more than I did before I knew how. I guess that is natural. How often is natural for someone our age?
And at least I am youthful and fit as can be... Don't start that whole thing about every woman hits "the wall" when they turn 30... I think those people are exposed to too many chemicals or something. Like those celebrities who look ancient right after 30.

Laura For example @Renita looks less aggressive since she is not able to masturbate anymore

I think it's more about other things than masturbating, even if you're right

Megan

I agree with you 100%

Angelina I think it's more about other things than masturbating, even if you're right

Let's hope so

Laura

I see we're putting ourselves in danger.

amber Yes, but I didn't start the argument, I asked to unlock me, same like I did during previous periods, and I tried to talk calmly after she refused, it only became a huge argument later.

Not easy to avoid,nor to accept it without arguing,yes.I hope you'll manage it better soon,even if I understand it is not easy to stay calm in such situation.

Laura

I don't think so.It'll help relieve stress and urges,help to know our body too(which would be good for our sexual life,even if staying virgin until marriage),and many studies prove it has only benefits,not disadvantages,except,of course,it if becomes excessive.

Angelina it's easier that's true, but when you have your first orgasm on your wedding night it can be scary, when you masturbate you know roughly how it feels

Right too...Both have advantages and disadvantages,it seems.But if we have a partner who know more about orgasms,he/she can help us feel at ease,during the wedding night!

Megan How often is natural for someone our age?

It seems masturbating every other day is common for a single woman,maybe once a day...But it depends on each people.

Angelina I think it's more about other things than masturbating, even if you're right

My mom thinks the same, unfortunately.

Vanessa ,even if I understand it is not easy to stay calm in such situation.

but it would be a decisive advantage and she would have an advantage over her mother

Vanessa .But if we have a partner who know more about orgasms,he/she can help us feel at ease,during the wedding night!

okay, then my wedding night will gonna be very difficult

Christine My mom thinks the same, unfortunately.

I don't think that the character of a person is strongly influenced by masturbation

Angelina but it would be a decisive advantage and she would have an advantage over her mother

Sure,and it could lead to more results after a calm talk(or after several ones...).

Angelina okay, then my wedding night will gonna be very difficult

Both you and your girlfriend have already experienced orgasms,so you know how it works!

Angelina I don't think that the character of a person is strongly influenced by masturbation

I don't think too.And,if it is,it would probably make us more angry to not be able to relieve our urges anymore.

Vanessa And,if it is,it would probably make us more angry to not be able to relieve our urges anymore.

I think it is not accurate, it is not anymore, it is just "not yet" and "not when we would want".
And I think that it does not become in " bitter" women, I think it make us more sweet and less selfish.

Vanessa Both you and your girlfriend have already experienced orgasms,so you know how it works!

that's true, but we've never had sex

Vanessa .And,if it is,it would probably make us more angry to not be able to relieve our urges anymore.

I think it would be very uncomfortable in this forum

Ines I think it make us more sweet and less selfish.

but it can also go in the other direction. i think it depends on the character of a woman

Angelina I don't think that the character of a person is strongly influenced by masturbation

I have also heard this urban legend

Renita