Vanessa Even if I understand you,I think it would never be the best way to act to be unlocked.
Yes, but I didn't start the argument, I asked to unlock me, same like I did during previous periods, and I tried to talk calmly after she refused, it only became a huge argument later.
Angelina no, most people wear the belt BECAUSE they masturbated and got caught
Makes sense.
I still don't understand why it's so important to prevent masturbation. Is it just bad to masturbate before turning 18?
Vanessa if we know these,and we miss it much than if we don't know these feelings.
it's easier that's true, but when you have your first orgasm on your wedding night it can be scary, when you masturbate you know roughly how it feels 
I meant the first one
amber it only became a huge argument later.
unfortunately this is mostly the case, but with time you will learn to stay calm even in such situations. this helps for your whole life
amber Is it just bad to masturbate before turning 18?
it is generally not bad, completely independent of age, but our parents think it is very bad 
Laura It's bad in any age. You should try to avoid it.
I see no reason for that 
Laura Seriously though I think it depends on where someone is in life... I want to more than I did before I knew how. I guess that is natural. How often is natural for someone our age?
And at least I am youthful and fit as can be... Don't start that whole thing about every woman hits "the wall" when they turn 30... I think those people are exposed to too many chemicals or something. Like those celebrities who look ancient right after 30.
amber Yes, but I didn't start the argument, I asked to unlock me, same like I did during previous periods, and I tried to talk calmly after she refused, it only became a huge argument later.
Not easy to avoid,nor to accept it without arguing,yes.I hope you'll manage it better soon,even if I understand it is not easy to stay calm in such situation.
I don't think so.It'll help relieve stress and urges,help to know our body too(which would be good for our sexual life,even if staying virgin until marriage),and many studies prove it has only benefits,not disadvantages,except,of course,it if becomes excessive.
Angelina it's easier that's true, but when you have your first orgasm on your wedding night it can be scary, when you masturbate you know roughly how it feels
Right too...Both have advantages and disadvantages,it seems.But if we have a partner who know more about orgasms,he/she can help us feel at ease,during the wedding night!
Megan How often is natural for someone our age?
It seems masturbating every other day is common for a single woman,maybe once a day...But it depends on each people.
Angelina I think it's more about other things than masturbating, even if you're right
My mom thinks the same, unfortunately.
Vanessa ,even if I understand it is not easy to stay calm in such situation.
but it would be a decisive advantage and she would have an advantage over her mother
Vanessa .But if we have a partner who know more about orgasms,he/she can help us feel at ease,during the wedding night!
okay, then my wedding night will gonna be very difficult 
Angelina but it would be a decisive advantage and she would have an advantage over her mother
Sure,and it could lead to more results after a calm talk(or after several ones...).
Angelina okay, then my wedding night will gonna be very difficult
Both you and your girlfriend have already experienced orgasms,so you know how it works!
Angelina I don't think that the character of a person is strongly influenced by masturbation
I don't think too.And,if it is,it would probably make us more angry to not be able to relieve our urges anymore.
Vanessa And,if it is,it would probably make us more angry to not be able to relieve our urges anymore.
I think it is not accurate, it is not anymore, it is just "not yet" and "not when we would want".
And I think that it does not become in " bitter" women, I think it make us more sweet and less selfish.
Vanessa Both you and your girlfriend have already experienced orgasms,so you know how it works!
that's true, but we've never had sex
Vanessa .And,if it is,it would probably make us more angry to not be able to relieve our urges anymore.
I think it would be very uncomfortable in this forum 
Ines I think it make us more sweet and less selfish.
but it can also go in the other direction. i think it depends on the character of a woman
