Vanessa Both you and your girlfriend have already experienced orgasms,so you know how it works!😉

that's true, but we've never had sex

Vanessa .And,if it is,it would probably make us more angry to not be able to relieve our urges anymore.

I think it would be very uncomfortable in this forum 😂

Ines I think it make us more sweet and less selfish.

but it can also go in the other direction. i think it depends on the character of a woman 😉

    Angelina I don't think that the character of a person is strongly influenced by masturbation

    I have also heard this urban legend

      Angelina I don't think that the character of a person is strongly influenced by masturbation

      However it's one more argument for parents 😂

        Megan And at least I am youthful and fit as can be... Don't start that whole thing about every woman hits "the wall" when they turn 30... I think those people are exposed to too many chemicals or something. Like those celebrities who look ancient right after 30.

        You sound like your mother. Nowadays, age has shifted and 30 is not that border anymore as in your mother's days. So and @Laura still have plenty of time.

          Ines

          As,for most of us,it would be for years,it isn't totally inaccurate either...Being aroused in the middle of our work and having to wait until we're at home to relieve us,it is "not yet".Being aroused and not being able to relieve ourself during several years,it is very different.

          Maybe it can impact different women in different ways...And,as you know,I don't think masturbation is a selfish activity,nor a not sweet one.

          Angelina that's true, but we've never had sex

          At least,you have some basis about knowing how your body works,and it is a good start.

          Angelina I think it would be very uncomfortable in this forum 😂

          🤣

          Angelina but it can also go in the other direction. i think it depends on the character of a woman 😉

          I think the same.

          Laura However it's one more argument for parents 😂

          But it can be a good argument against it too!😉

          Angelina

          Exactly!🙂

          Christine Never heard about it.

          However,some studies think it is good for a woman.

            Vanessa

            It is merely my subjective point of view.
            In general it is good because we have stay calm, and even in my case that is very flexible, I have clear that to be nervous is not a motivation to be released, and thankfully, I have a lot of breaks for a wide range of reasons.
            I think that await a bit to have sex is not bad for us the girls.

              Vanessa However,some studies think it is good for a woman.

              I have heard it about sex but not masturbation

                Vanessa Being aroused and not being able to relieve ourself during several years,it is very different.

                that's right, it is very important to emphasize again and again that we have no orgasm for several years and not for 1 or 2 weeks

                Ines I think that await a bit to have sex is not bad for us the girls.

                but it is a very big difference if you wait a little bit or have a relationship for years without orgasm

                  Angelina
                  Angelina, I think that when right moment for our sexuality would arrive, we would have a happy sexual life. It is not bad await.

                    Ines

                    yes but I would like to determine this right moment myself 😉

                      Ines

                      In you case,the breaks probably help a bit the general feelings.

                      But,I don't think it is bad to give ourself some self-pleasure,or to have sex if in a serious relationship(with good possibility to lead to marriage).Even if we want to wait a bit.

                      Laura

                      I'm pretty sure I've read it,but I don't remember in which studies...

                      Angelina that's right, it is very important to emphasize again and again that we have no orgasm for several years and not for 1 or 2 weeks

                      The duration is very important to understand it,yes.Waiting a few weeks or severel years don't lead to the same feelings...

                      Angelina but it is a very big difference if you wait a little bit or have a relationship for years without orgasm

                      Sure.And,even if we quickly meet the right one for us(not often the case),usually,people don't marry before at least a few years of relationship.Especially if we met during studies.

                      Angelina

                      I agree.Happily,I could have decided when it is the right moment for my first time as it was years before I've to wear my chastity belt permanently(and I don't regret it,my boyfriend was sweet and patient).But I would have liked to be able to decide when to have sex with Emilie for the first time(it would have been the case months or years ago(we started to date together,with not dating anyone else,a bit more than 2 years ago),at least!)...

                        Vanessa t I would have liked to be able to decide when to have sex with Emilie for the first time

                        And you will do it! Happily!

                          Ines

                          No.I can't until married.If we decided it freely,we would had sex a long time ago.

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