Purpose of preventing masturbation?
Megan And at least I am youthful and fit as can be... Don't start that whole thing about every woman hits "the wall" when they turn 30... I think those people are exposed to too many chemicals or something. Like those celebrities who look ancient right after 30.
You sound like your mother. Nowadays, age has shifted and 30 is not that border anymore as in your mother's days. So and @Laura still have plenty of time.
Angelina not if the parents think that mastubation has a positive effect on the character
Never heard about it.
As,for most of us,it would be for years,it isn't totally inaccurate either...Being aroused in the middle of our work and having to wait until we're at home to relieve us,it is "not yet".Being aroused and not being able to relieve ourself during several years,it is very different.
Maybe it can impact different women in different ways...And,as you know,I don't think masturbation is a selfish activity,nor a not sweet one.
Angelina that's true, but we've never had sex
At least,you have some basis about knowing how your body works,and it is a good start.
Angelina I think it would be very uncomfortable in this forum
Angelina but it can also go in the other direction. i think it depends on the character of a woman
I think the same.
Laura However it's one more argument for parents
But it can be a good argument against it too!
Exactly!
Christine Never heard about it.
However,some studies think it is good for a woman.
It is merely my subjective point of view.
In general it is good because we have stay calm, and even in my case that is very flexible, I have clear that to be nervous is not a motivation to be released, and thankfully, I have a lot of breaks for a wide range of reasons.
I think that await a bit to have sex is not bad for us the girls.
Vanessa Being aroused and not being able to relieve ourself during several years,it is very different.
that's right, it is very important to emphasize again and again that we have no orgasm for several years and not for 1 or 2 weeks
Ines I think that await a bit to have sex is not bad for us the girls.
but it is a very big difference if you wait a little bit or have a relationship for years without orgasm
In you case,the breaks probably help a bit the general feelings.
But,I don't think it is bad to give ourself some self-pleasure,or to have sex if in a serious relationship(with good possibility to lead to marriage).Even if we want to wait a bit.
I'm pretty sure I've read it,but I don't remember in which studies...
Angelina that's right, it is very important to emphasize again and again that we have no orgasm for several years and not for 1 or 2 weeks
The duration is very important to understand it,yes.Waiting a few weeks or severel years don't lead to the same feelings...
Angelina but it is a very big difference if you wait a little bit or have a relationship for years without orgasm
Sure.And,even if we quickly meet the right one for us(not often the case),usually,people don't marry before at least a few years of relationship.Especially if we met during studies.
I agree.Happily,I could have decided when it is the right moment for my first time as it was years before I've to wear my chastity belt permanently(and I don't regret it,my boyfriend was sweet and patient).But I would have liked to be able to decide when to have sex with Emilie for the first time(it would have been the case months or years ago(we started to date together,with not dating anyone else,a bit more than 2 years ago),at least!)...
Vanessa
Yes, Vanessa, but I mean.... I obviously understand conditions, but at the end last word is ours. If we choose, very logical and please I am not making criticism, other things before the release of the belt, at the end is because right moment has not arrived yet.
But... Is just my idea. I hope you will be very happy wife soon (but a happy belted one 
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I just found out a day ago that my cousin also wears a chastity belt. turns out she started wearing it earlier than me - she started in june or some time around that, which means that my mom probably got the idea from my aunt.
She somehow noticed mine, and asked me "do you also have to wear special underwear?" (it was very unezxpected, thought i would die of embarrassment lol).
We talked about it, turns out she doesn't know it's called a "chastity belt", because my aunt always calls it "special underwear" (my mom also does this).
I also asked her why she has to wear it - she said it's because girls shouldn't need access there during pubrety. She also doesn't know about masturbation (i didn't ask directly but it was obvious, i didn't tell her about it though).
I think both my mom and my aunt want to completely prevent masturbation.
Also now I know I'm not alone! 