Vanessa Let's hope so.It won't probably be my case,anyway...

the year is long and your relationship is strong 🙂 maybe there is a chance 🙂

    Angelina

    I doubt I'll be allowed to take it off soon,but I think that,even if I'm not free in 2020,it won't endanger our relationship.

      Vanessa

      I think your relationship is strong enough 🙂 but maybe there is a small chance for a wedding or ? 😉

        Angelina

        I don't think so.Even if one of us get a long term job quickly,we'll have to find a house/flat,live together a few months,then prepare the wedding(it can easily take a long time).So,probably no wedding in 2020 for us.

          Angelina

          I hope so!

          But we're strong and I'm sure we can wait until it is done in the best conditions.

            Vanessa

            I agree with you, a wedding should be something very beautiful and well planned 😉

              Angelina

              Especially as we want it to last for our entire lives,so only one wedding for us!😉

                Vanessa

                right 🙂 you should marry for love and when the right moment has come 🙂 it makes no sense to rush into it 😉

                  Vanessa

                  i definitely wish you a very nice wedding, no matter if 2020, 2021 or later 🙂

                    Angelina

                    Sure,we would wait if needed,but we want to do it well and as good as it is possible.

                    But,of course,if we can do it soon too,it would be better!😉

                      Angelina

                      Even if it would be fun we both marry the same year,I hope it won't take that long!😉

                      Angelina when it becomes 2023, we can have a double wedding 🤣

                      It's very likely that our wedding is in 2023, too. Maybe a year earlier or later. I think 3 years of relationship is the minimum but it should not be much more then 5 years. 3 years feels right for me.

                        Sara2001

                        it gets pretty crowded in the church 🤣

                        i do not have a minimum or maximum but we should be very sure that we are happy with our partner 🙂

                          Angelina i do not have a minimum or maximum but we should be very sure that we are happy with our partner 🙂

                          I think I am sure for myself. In your case the church need to be happy with your choice, too.

                            Sara2001
                            yes i know, i am not sure if a church wedding is possible, but maybe there are more liberal laws until then 😉

                              Sara2001

                              No maximum for me,but 3 years of relationship before getting married is good,yes.If very in love,and sure of us,2 years could be ok too,I think.

                              Angelina we should be very sure that we are happy with our partner 🙂

                              Of course.

                              Angelina

                              I think for homosexual couples,it would be only at the town hall(or on a ship...Captains are allowed to marry people on their ships).