Vanessa

right 🙂 you should marry for love and when the right moment has come 🙂 it makes no sense to rush into it 😉

      Vanessa

      i definitely wish you a very nice wedding, no matter if 2020, 2021 or later 🙂

          Angelina

          Sure,we would wait if needed,but we want to do it well and as good as it is possible.

          But,of course,if we can do it soon too,it would be better!😉

              Angelina

              Even if it would be fun we both marry the same year,I hope it won't take that long!😉

                Angelina when it becomes 2023, we can have a double wedding 🤣

                It's very likely that our wedding is in 2023, too. Maybe a year earlier or later. I think 3 years of relationship is the minimum but it should not be much more then 5 years. 3 years feels right for me.

                    Sara2001

                    it gets pretty crowded in the church 🤣

                    i do not have a minimum or maximum but we should be very sure that we are happy with our partner 🙂

                        Angelina i do not have a minimum or maximum but we should be very sure that we are happy with our partner 🙂

                        I think I am sure for myself. In your case the church need to be happy with your choice, too.

                            Sara2001
                            yes i know, i am not sure if a church wedding is possible, but maybe there are more liberal laws until then 😉

                                Sara2001

                                No maximum for me,but 3 years of relationship before getting married is good,yes.If very in love,and sure of us,2 years could be ok too,I think.

                                Angelina we should be very sure that we are happy with our partner 🙂

                                Of course.

                                Angelina

                                I think for homosexual couples,it would be only at the town hall(or on a ship...Captains are allowed to marry people on their ships).

                                        Vanessa

                                        it doesn't work on a ship because camryn is seasick 😂

                                        i know it is difficult, i hope that the church will perhaps become more open in the next 2-3 years

                                            Sara2001

                                            i see this positively, the church has had 2000 years to think about this and can now reconsider its decision 🤣

                                              Angelina it gets pretty crowded in the church 🤣

                                              There are a lot of young religious couples in rural USA who follow the church doctrine to the letter. They marry the moment they are allowed to and work whatever job is available (they are up all night before wedding and at door before sunrise). Their beliefs seem to work better for them than our attire worked for me or @Laura

                                                  Megan

                                                  the problem is that the church in germany is simply very old fashioned

                                                  i am currently thinking about whether i can convince my church when i say that i wore a cb until the wedding and am getting married as a virgin, it represents the old values of the church 🤣

                                                      Angelina i am currently thinking about whether i can convince my church when i say that i wore a cb until the wedding and am getting married as a virgin, it represents the old values of the church 🤣

                                                      The problem is that for the church the only purpose of marriage is reproduction. So they will never see a benefit in your relationship.

                                                          Sara2001 the only purpose of marriage is reproduction.

                                                          it is possible, just not in a conventional way 😉

                                                              Angelina it doesn't work on a ship because camryn is seasick 😂

                                                              There is pills against it!😉