Hi all,

my girlfriend suggested wearing chastity belts a few months ago. I thought it was a joke at the time and laughed it off. But she kept mentioning it from time to time. So I finally caved in and agreed to give it a go.

I am scared like hell. But what can I lose?

I know, it is silly, but I would like to wear one that looks nice as well as beeing as comfortable as possible.

It looks like a lot of you had not the luck to have a say. But if you had, which one would you want for yourself?

Many thanks,
(scared and curious) Zoe

    Ann, my girlfriend, said she wants it to be sure, I behave. My sexdrive is a bit stronger than hers.

    Not that I need it. And we definitely have a well balanced relationship, I hope. But I am definitely more often in the mood than her. So she sometimes gets a bit annoyed, when I try to tease and push her. (often I overdo it, because I know it drives her nuts. And occasionally I just have my own fun.)

    I know it sounds stupid and silly. But since I know, she actually is serious about it and started researching it a bit more, I have to admit, I started to get intrigued a bit too. She promised me, I can pick it as long as it secure. Hope I won't regret it too soon though!

      Zoe but I would like to wear one that looks nice as well as beeing as comfortable as possible.

      I don't have any complaints about mine from that side.

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          Christine Which one are you wearing, if you don't mind me asking?

          I am kinda thinking about one from my-steel. But open to any suggestions, really.

              Zoe Which one are you wearing, if you don't mind me asking?

              My-steel hips style with the secondary shield.

                  Zoe

                  hi welcome here 🙂

                  will you both wear a belt?
                  What about breaks for cleaning, masturbation, sex, etc.?

                  i wear a mysteel waist style belt which is very comfortable but also very safe and not cheap

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                    Hi Angelina,

                    Thanks for having me here.

                    The deal is, she has to wear one, when I wear mine. We'll both hold the keys for the other ones belt.

                    But I have no doubt, I will be the one suffering more 🥺.

                    Well, I hope she won't be patient enough to keep me belted 24/7. But she definitely knows when I get itchy. So no doubt she'll make sure I won't be able to scratch my itch without her.
                    🙄

                      Zoe

                      i think it can be a great proof of your love if you wear one but it must be voluntary and you must not be pushed to do anything

                          Zoe

                          Welcome!

                          You can lose some freedom,the possibility to get orgasm when you desperately want one...

                          But to answer your question,I've to wear a My-Steel chastity belt(with cable at the rear),waist style,and it is very secure and as comfortable as a chastity belt can be,I think.

                          Zoe

                          She may accept you masturbate enough to reduce your sex drive and make it match her...

                          Zoe I am kinda thinking about one from my-steel.

                          Good idea.

                          Christine My-steel hips style with the secondary shield.

                          I think hips style would be better(and allow more clothes,including some sexy ones).

                          Zoe

                          Both wearing one at the same time is pretty romantic,I think!🙂

                          Even if it would be harder for you,if your sex drive is stronger...But you could have some revenge when she would be very aroused and you would keep her locked...Maybe she would think about freeing you a bit more after having felt it a few times!😉

                          Angelina

                          I agree.

                                        Zoe Ann, my girlfriend, said she wants it to be sure, I behave. My sexdrive is a bit stronger than hers.

                                        A secondary shield is mandatory. Mine is Neosteel waist.

                                        Zoe The deal is, she has to wear one, when I wear mine. We'll both hold the keys for the other ones belt.

                                        I was always wondering why couples never wear belts this way. So you will be the first.

                                              Vanessa But you could have some revenge when she would be very aroused and you would keep her locked...Maybe she would think about freeing you a bit more after having felt it a few times!

                                              I love that idea. I'll definitely try this! =)

                                              Vanessa Both wearing one at the same time is pretty romantic,I think!

                                              I feel the same at the moment.

                                              Renita I was always wondering why couples never wear belts this way. So you will be the first.

                                              Well, it is not an easy topic as deciding to wear a friendship bracelet.

                                              We definitely had quite a rollercoaster ride until I got to this point. As I said, initially I thought she was joking. When she mentioned it again a couple of weeks later I pretended I did not hear it. But I had quite the sleepless night questioning if Ann does trust me. What I have dones, that she doesnt. I am sure you can imagine the arguing voices in my head. And of course, I was already in fighting mode when I raised the topic the next morning. (needless to say that sleepdeprivation was not helpful either.) The worst fight we ever had since my emotions definitely had taken over my brain.

                                              A few weeks later when we were watching TV and cuddled, she started it again. At this point my brain was in "Ok, I am listening!". At the end I really aaaaw... this actually is quite romantic. And we started to look at a couple of websites.

                                              Angelina i think it can be a great proof of your love if you wear one but it must be voluntary and you must not be pushed to do anything

                                              I have no doubt, I can stop it, if I really want to. My ego will make sure I am not qutting on a whimp though. (And the fact that if I quit first, I have to cook dinner for a month. I hate cooking. I am utter rubbish at it. So this definitely will motivate a bit too. Gosh it sucks when people know your weak spots x) ! )

                                                        Zoe

                                                        by both of you wearing a belt, you can support each other, even though you may need a little more support than she does 😃

                                                        have you already ordered a belt? if so, what did you decide on?

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                                                            Angelina

                                                            Angelina have you already ordered a belt? if so, what did you decide on?

                                                            I have put the my-steel total with pink silicon in my basket a few times. But hesitated to click buy sofar.

                                                            I can't decide between waist or hip style. And i am still not sure this is a good choice. Having said this, i like this one best at the moment.

                                                                  Zoe

                                                                  this is exactly the belt i wear, i also have pink silicone 🙂

                                                                  it is very comfortable but 100% safe i have waist style but i have no experience with hip style

                                                                  of course it is hard for you, maybe you should do it together with your girlfriend 😉

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                                                                      Angelina this is exactly the belt i wear, i also have pink silicone 🙂

                                                                      it is very comfortable but 100% safe i have waist style but i have no experience with hip style

                                                                      Phew! Thank you! This makes it a lot easier.

                                                                      Angelina of course it is hard for you, maybe you should do it together with your girlfriend

                                                                      Will have another night sleep over it and then tell Ann I made a decission tomorrow morning. I've already whatsapped her the picture. You should have seen her smile when she looked at it =)

                                                                            Zoe You should have seen her smile when she looked at it =)

                                                                            😉

                                                                              Zoe I can't decide between waist or hip style.

                                                                              Hips style is the new trend. I also think to replace mine.

                                                                                  Renita I was always wondering why couples never wear belts this way. So you will be the first.

                                                                                  I think too it can be more fair and romantic(as long as it is voluntarily for both).

                                                                                  Zoe I love that idea. I'll definitely try this! =)

                                                                                  😉

                                                                                  Zoe few weeks later when we were watching TV and cuddled, she started it again. At this point my brain was in "Ok, I am listening!". At the end I really aaaaw... this actually is quite romantic. And we started to look at a couple of websites.

                                                                                  It was some stormy discussions at the start,but ended well!😉

                                                                                  Wearing one both is her idea?

                                                                                  Zoe I have no doubt, I can stop it, if I really want to. My ego will make sure I am not qutting on a whimp though. (And the fact that if I quit first, I have to cook dinner for a month. I hate cooking. I am utter rubbish at it. So this definitely will motivate a bit too. Gosh it sucks when people know your weak spots x) ! )

                                                                                  Good you can stop it,and I like the "penalty" for doing this!😉

                                                                                  Zoe the my-steel total with pink silicon

                                                                                  Good one!🙂 What type of rear?

                                                                                  Zoe I can't decide between waist or hip style.

                                                                                  If you want an advice,I think hip style would be better.Easier to hide,and allowing more clothes.

                                                                                  Zoe Will have another night sleep over it and then tell Ann I made a decission tomorrow morning. I've already whatsapped her the picture. You should have seen her smile when she looked at it =)

                                                                                  Has she choosen her,too?

                                                                                  I understand she's happy to know you're ready to do it.🙂

                                                                                  Laura

                                                                                  Your parents are ok for this one?