Which chastity belt do you recommend?

Angelina

Vanessa I think it is only fetishists who buy one because they were inspired by a sex toy.

hmm, with some parents i wonder how they came up with the idea of the chastity belt. if they just did research how they can protect their daughter or if they already had this fetish 😂

Christine

Angelina if they just did research how they can protect their daughter or if they already had this fetish

The former.

Vanessa

Angelina

I guess it is probably the ones who do research on it.I doubt fetishists consider it as something which can be used for the original meaning,it is more used only as a sex toy for them.

Angelina unfortunately it is too easy to find this device 🙁

I agree!🙁

Tobbe Therefore I think My-Steel sells significantly more females belts, but also the smaller lock gives them a more feminine design.

It seems there is more people wearing a My-Steel one,here.

Angelina

Do you know why he choose to use another brand?

HHelen

Often the case,yes.

shinydiamond77

Hello everyone, I'm back with an update.
The belt has arrived. Long story short - it works as I thought it would.

Once it arrived I had to put it together, turns out it there's some assembly required. After that I showed it to my daughter. I didn't tell her about the belt until then, she was surprised. Without going into detail, I told her what the belt does.
I expected her to protest, but she didn't protest pretty much at all. She was worried, but she only asked questions about if it's possible to go to the bathroom while wearing it and such.
Fitting the belt took about 40 minutes, good thing it's is adjustable. After doing the last adjustments I asked her to put it on for real, and wear it for 2 hours.
Today she wore it for 3 hours, and I'll also ask her to wear it overnight.
So far she hasn't complained about any sort of pain or chafing. The biggest problem for her is going to the bathroom, but she'll get used to it. She also says she can feel the shield pressing from below, but it's not painful.
It took some fitting, but security is good. The shield covers completely, and because it's always pushing up it can't be moved aside.

Angelina hmm, with some parents i wonder how they came up with the idea of the chastity belt. if they just did research how they can protect their daughter or if they already had this fetish

I don't even understand why chastity belts can be a fetish. They're literally the opposite of sex.

aslan_asena

Christine The former.

My mother found out about modern chastity belts via google. She knew that there was an ancient western invention and wanted to know, if there were also modern versions. That was how she found My-Steel, Neosteel, Access Denied and so on.

She's definitely only interested in using belts for protection and control. Without any link to fetish plays.

Angelina

aslan_asena She's definitely only interested in using belts for protection and control.

just like my father, he was looking on google how to prevent mastubation and found the chastity belt pretty quickly

unfortunately it is too easy to find this device 🙁

Tobbe

Angelina unfortunately it is too easy to find this device

It's hard to find female chastity belts at Neosteels site!
Therefore I think My-Steel sells significantly more females belts, but also the smaller lock gives them a more feminine design.

Angelina

Tobbe

my first belt was from neosteel, so it seems to have been more of a coincidence that my father chose this manufacturer.

now i wear a mysteel belt which is unfortunately as safe as neosteel, but (i agree with you) the design and wearing comfort is a bit better 🙂

HHelen

Vanessa She want a very discreet one,and find the classical ones are not discreet enough.

Meaning cheap.

Angelina

Vanessa I guess it is probably the ones who do research on it.I doubt fetishists consider it as something which can be used for the original meaning,it is more used only as a sex toy for them.

actually I think so too, a cb can be used for both purposes, but very few people combine both

Vanessa Do you know why he choose to use another brand?

in the beginning he didn't know anything about mysteel, he only knew neosteel, only when he ordered the bra and the tighbands he discovered mysteel and at least he liked the design better (and honestly i did too, even if i don't want to gloss over the belt)

Amira

shinydiamond77

Good luck for you and for your daughter.

I think over night could be too early and may be too much for her at that point.

Angelina

shinydiamond77 I don't even understand why chastity belts can be a fetish. They're literally the opposite of sex.

because preventing sex can also be a fetish 😉
as far as the belt is concerned, sorry even if it works well now, you will be looking for a reasonable belt in a month (more likely a week) 😉

shinydiamond77 teenagers belted by their parents, and I'm a mom with a belted daughter. I feel like I'm from the other side of the fence.

no problem, there are also "older" women and also parents, we are a good mixture 🙂

Vanessa

shinydiamond77

Surprising she accepted easily;especially if not told before.

Anyway,I doubt you would be satisfied by the security of it over time,if you bought the discreet one you showed us.

shinydiamond77

As other people told you,take care to discuss with her,and know how she feels.

Amira yes, you absolutely are. you are outside of the belt and we're inside of it.

🤣

Angelina as far as the belt is concerned, sorry even if it works well now, you will be looking for a reasonable belt in a month (more likely a week) 😉

I agree.

shinydiamond77 No, and I'm glad she can't with the belt on.

So chastity belt,not abstinence one.

Christine

🤣

Ines

Sure!Even without bands,a more classical chastity belt would work better.

Ines

Even a fancysteel one,and not a chinese copy,would not be effective against masturbating;it may make harder to achieve orgasm,but not prevent it,I think.

Why have you left the idea of buying a My-Steel one?

Amira

Right,it is a risk.

Angelina that's right, it is very important to talk openly with the key holder about the belt at any time 🙂

I agree.

Angelina in any case, fancysteel is just as unsafe as the toy belts from china. as you said, it might be safe enough to be used as a abstinence belt, but never as a chastity belt

It's my opinion too.

Angelina in general, girls between 16 and 20 are sexually much more active than before and then this cheap belt. absolutely incomprehensible

Even older.Mainly,as long as they're students and go to university or similar,they would more likely be more active sexually,except if they're engaged or married(or in a long lasting relationship).

Ines Good points in my opinion are that is discreet, very nice and I think that with the bands it can be very effective. In my opinion is a good secondary belt, to go out, you can use a lot of dresses and in places where we do not have plenty of time and intimacy to experiment 😅. It has detachable secondary shield too, however as it is not a 24/7 belt, this detail has less importance.

If it is only to go out and wear a discreet one during it,it can be useful,yes.

Ines

I'm not sure "abstinence belt" is often used,except on our board!😉

shinydiamond77

Amira Thank you!
You're probably right, I'll tell her that I can unlock her before bed. You have actual experience wearing a belt, after all 😃
It's interesting how this forum is mostly teenagers belted by their parents, and I'm a mom with a belted daughter. I feel like I'm from the other side of the fence.
Is there something else I could do to help my daughter with her first belted week/month?

Amira

shinydiamond77 I feel like I'm from the other side of the fence.

yes, you absolutely are. you are outside of the belt and we're inside of it.

shinydiamond77 to help my daughter with her first belted week/month?

just be open with her about it and about the purpose of the belt when she has questions. And do nice things with her as a reward so she may not end up hating the belt or even worse you. And be careful that she just tries to be strong and hides that she can't really bear to wear the belt anymore after some hours in the beginning.

Ines

shinydiamond77
Well, even if for some things my mother is a bit disappointed, she is user too, but she is not very active😕.
My advice for you and your daughter, is that wear a safe belt is not excuse to avoid your daughter has a normal life.
Be responsible with her, and fair, and do not ever use the belt for punishment.
Do you approve she can touch herself? I guess that it is the case, it will make easier things, too.

Christine

shinydiamond77 It's interesting how this forum is mostly teenagers belted by their parents, and I'm a mom with a belted daughter. I feel like I'm from the other side of the fence.

@HHelen is. But she looks more like a teenager.

Angelina

Amira just be open with her about it and about the purpose of the belt when she has questions. And do nice things with her as a reward so she may not end up hating the belt or even worse you. And be careful that she just tries to be strong and hides that she can't really bear to wear the belt anymore after some hours in the beginning.

i admire your wisdom, i couldn't have said it better 🙂

Amira

Angelina i admire your wisdom, i couldn't have said it better 🙂

😅 thank you, it was just thinking how I would have felt uf no one told me about the belt before I got it.

Angelina

Amira thank you, it was just thinking how I would have felt uf no one told me about the belt before I got it.

that's right, it is very important to talk openly with the key holder about the belt at any time 🙂

Christine @HHelen is. But she looks more like a teenager.

at least she acts like a teenager 😂

Ines I have doubts about effectiveness preventing touches.

in any case, fancysteel is just as unsafe as the toy belts from china. as you said, it might be safe enough to be used as a abstinence belt, but never as a chastity belt

Ines However, I was reading old posts and her approach to belt is strange, her daughter is so young to wear it and she will left the belt with 17 years. Frankly, I can not understand it!

as @Amira already said I also think it is a very unusual way to give a 14 year old a chastity belt and to free her with 17 again. with 14 I masturbated but not yet thought about sex, now I am almost 17 and think much more about it.

in general, girls between 16 and 20 are sexually much more active than before and then this cheap belt. absolutely incomprehensible

shinydiamond77

Ines Do you approve she can touch herself? I

No, and I'm glad she can't with the belt on.

Amira

shinydiamond77 No, and I'm glad she can't with the belt on.

does she know she isn't supposed to do it?

Ines

shinydiamond77
I thought you purchased a "abstinence belt"...
About she can or not...
Talk with your daughter about the point.

shinydiamond77

Vanessa Surprising she accepted easily;especially if not told before.

Anyway,I doubt you would be satisfied by the security of it over time,if you bought the discreet one you showed us

I agree, before I showed her the belt I thought she would argue and protest a lot, but she was very calm. This is how it went:
when I first showed it to her I told her that the belt will put a shield over her private parts. She asked me if it's to prevent sex, I said that she's partially right, but more importantly it's to make sure she can't access there at all. I explained to her that she should not think that I bought the belt because I don't trust her, but because at her age it's very easy to act on impulse, which the belt prevents.
She thought it was reasonable, asked some more questions, and agreed to do the fitting.

I decided to follow @Amira 's advice and take it slow - today she's wearing it for 6 hours, and tonight it'll be the first time she wears it overnight.
So far there have been no issues with the belt - no rashes, no pain, no chafing, nothing like that. Going to the bathroom remains the biggest problem, but she's learning.
Security is good. I have adjusted the belt so that even when it's pulled down as much as possible the shield is still pressing up. The shield isn't very wide, but if you try to move it to the side, everything will move with it. It's physically impossible to get anything under the shield.

Amira does she know she isn't supposed to do it?

She knows she isn't supposed to touch there, that's what the belt ensures. However, I never mentioned masturbation specifically, because she seems not to know what it is, and the longer that is - the better.

Amira

Ines Talk with your daughter about the point.

you are always much more direct about anything!

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