Purity ring

Max9 Why that?

We used to have a very nice small silver shop about four miles from my parents' home in a rural area. Nice stuff, never crowded and the lady always appreciated the business (after all, four females in one house). Regrettably the shop did not survive the covid closures. I would have gone there had she survived but most of the retailers are now chain shops in the malls and I would not go to a mall twixt now and Christmas just because of the crowds.

Avery ah, I see. Yeah, it's sad such stores often don'g survive. There were so many adroable stores that had to close.

Avery

the idea is not bad especially for voluntary belt wearers in case they get the "bad" idea to give it up. it is like a ring that reminds you of your partner, only that this ring reminds you of your goal of chastity.

Max9 how about a band like I wear it?

how can i imagine that? interesting idea

Avery Amazon has some that look nice. The prices are unbelievable, like €12 and such. Not goin' near a real jewellery store 'til after the holidays.

Then you will have to add a 0 to the price. (120)

Angelina the idea is not bad especially for voluntary belt wearers in case they get the "bad" idea to give it up. it is like a ring that reminds you of your partner, only that this ring reminds you of your goal of chastity.

Exactly my thought.

Angelina Then you will have to add a 0 to the price.

True enough. But if I was going to wear it for a lengthy time I would want something nice (maybe dad would pay for it if he knew the reason). I once had a cheap bracelet which began to make my skin turn greenish.

Avery True enough. But if I was going to wear it for a lengthy time I would want something nice (maybe dad would pay for it if he knew the reason). I once had a cheap bracelet which began to make my skin turn greenish.

yes, i admit that i also only buy cheap jewellery extremely rarely, it's not worth it. and yes, daddy's credit card is the best way to shop at the jeweller's.

Max9 the black one with the white lock in my profile picture

ah ok, looks very nice

Angelina and yes, daddy's credit card is the best way to shop at the jeweller's.

Do they have Purity Balls in your country? Where ball in this case means a formal dance. If one looks up Purity Ball on Wikipedia it implies they are only in the US. Anyway there is indeed considerable precedent for the Dad to pay for his daughter's purity ring or bracelet with dinner and dancing in the bargain.

Avery Where ball in this case means a formal dance.

Glad you explained that, my mind went in a direction where I could not find the link to purity anywhere.

Avery

no, at least not that i know of. but i have heard about it from the USA and my father would certainly like it.

Vanessa Would you ask him?

You know at first I said nah, I could get something decent for €100, I'm not going to bother him for that. But. If he did pay for it I would feel some obligation to him to keep my knickers on so it might be better if he paid. A nice compromise might be to buy it myself but tell him what it represented.

Vanessa So,not decided for now?

Pretty sure I won't ask him for the money. Not sure how to bring up to him the whole idea of the ring.

Avery Not sure how to bring up to him the whole idea of the ring.

i think if you are 100% behind the meaning of the ring, it would make him very proud.

Angelina i think if you are 100% behind the meaning of the ring, it would make him very proud.

To be quite serious about it, I would worry that he would worry that my having been assaulted had had a negative effect on my attitude toward sex, men, my body, that kind of thing and that maybe he needed to do something about that.

Avery

then you should explain this to him in detail. i think he will understand you, but yes, there is a certain risk because of your history.

Avery To be quite serious about it, I would worry that he would worry that my having been assaulted had had a negative effect on my attitude toward sex, men, my body, that kind of thing and that maybe he needed to do something about that.

From you posting you have a broad rang of sexual experience.
Did you do it before or after been assaulted?
Does he knows about it or of some?

Joh From you posting you have a broad rang of sexual experience.
Did you do it before or after been assaulted?
Does he knows about it or of some?

I said my ATTITUDE toward sex, men, my body etc. He wants me to think positively about myself, my body, being a girl, etc. One's attitude about these things can be negatively affected by an assault. If I suddenly went to him and said I want to swear off sex he might fear I had been negatively affected and worry.