Purity ring
Angelina and yes, daddy's credit card is the best way to shop at the jeweller's.
Do they have Purity Balls in your country? Where ball in this case means a formal dance. If one looks up Purity Ball on Wikipedia it implies they are only in the US. Anyway there is indeed considerable precedent for the Dad to pay for his daughter's purity ring or bracelet with dinner and dancing in the bargain.
Avery Where ball in this case means a formal dance.
Glad you explained that, my mind went in a direction where I could not find the link to purity anywhere.
youdontknowme Glad you explained that, my mind went in a direction where I could not find the link to purity anywhere.
Yes, I could see that coming.
Avery I thought maybe wearing a ring would help me, kind of like a reminder which is always right there.
I think it could be a good idea,yes.
Angelina it is like a ring that reminds you of your partner, only that this ring reminds you of your goal of chastity.
Right.
Avery But if I was going to wear it for a lengthy time I would want something nice
I agree.
Avery if he knew the reason
Would you ask him?
Vanessa Would you ask him?
You know at first I said nah, I could get something decent for €100, I'm not going to bother him for that. But. If he did pay for it I would feel some obligation to him to keep my knickers on so it might be better if he paid. A nice compromise might be to buy it myself but tell him what it represented.
Angelina i think if you are 100% behind the meaning of the ring, it would make him very proud.
To be quite serious about it, I would worry that he would worry that my having been assaulted had had a negative effect on my attitude toward sex, men, my body, that kind of thing and that maybe he needed to do something about that.
Avery To be quite serious about it, I would worry that he would worry that my having been assaulted had had a negative effect on my attitude toward sex, men, my body, that kind of thing and that maybe he needed to do something about that.
From you posting you have a broad rang of sexual experience.
Did you do it before or after been assaulted?
Does he knows about it or of some?
Joh From you posting you have a broad rang of sexual experience.
Did you do it before or after been assaulted?
Does he knows about it or of some?
I said my ATTITUDE toward sex, men, my body etc. He wants me to think positively about myself, my body, being a girl, etc. One's attitude about these things can be negatively affected by an assault. If I suddenly went to him and said I want to swear off sex he might fear I had been negatively affected and worry.
When this topic was trending before, many months ago, I proposed the idea of a locking “chastity bracelet”.
This could be a simple band of solid metal, of the type manufactured by Axsmar and SM Factory:
https://www.axsmar.eu/Stainless-Steel/Hephaistos/Hephaistos-bracelet-15x4::22.html
https://sm-factory.com/products/heavens-hell-2er-set-armbander
The bracelet would be engraved with the words “CHASTITY”, or “TRUE LOVE WAITS”.
The son or daughter would wear the bracelet, and the parents would hold the key.
These could be marketed to the “Purity Balls” people, to kinksters, and to members of our community, the “serious use” chastity belt community.
The bracelet could also take the form of a miniature chastity belt worn upside down on the wearer’s wrist (If you prefer to wear yours right side up, that’s fine with me.) There could be one piece of metal shaped like a letter “O”, and another piece shaped like a letter “U”. The two pieces would be held together with screws, or with a hinge and an Axsmar “click” lock.
I suppose it would be problematic to put a non-adjustable bracelet of this type on a wrist that’s not yet fully grown.
Joh Perhaps it would be better to start slowly with this issue and introduce the ring after a few discussions.
Another aspect that troubles me about talking to Dad is that if I were to introduce the topic to him when I was 15 it would play as "this is how I'm going to start out in life". If I introduce it at 20, which I am now, it might emphasize that I have not been conducting myself in this fashion. and I don't think I want to draw any attention to that.
audioguy58 The son or daughter would wear the bracelet, and the parents would hold the key.
Must admit I can't see the need for another locking device. Still can't understand why parents can't talk to their kids about what is an appropriate lifestyle and try to show them the advantages of living that way.
