Purity ring

Vanessa

Right,but it could help her to remind her promise,and help her to not break it.Each one have to decide if her promise of chastity includes masturbation or not(even if masturbating,but not having sex,is more abstinence,).

Renita But not enforceable. Unlike wedding ring where you will have trouble with your spouse.

Sure,if she want to wear such ring,she should be convinced to never break her promise,even if there is not much consequences.

She could too discuss it with her parents or her boyfriend/girlfriend and decide she would have to wear a chastity belt if she breaks her promise,even while having the ring on(even if it would be a bit extreme).

Angelina

Vanessa (even if masturbating,but not having sex,is more abstinence,).

so I prefer to call it the abstinence ring 😉

Renita

Vanessa if she want to wear such ring,she should be convinced to never break her promise,

Or exposure as such to others

Vanessa

Angelina

Right.

Renita

Right too.If someone date a woman wearing such ring,he/she should guess they won't have sex until married,or,at least,it would be harder and longer to convince her to have sex.

Angelina

Vanessa

I think whoever's really wearing that ring is making a promise.

it is like a wedding ring, if the person has sex before marriage, he/she has broken this promise

Renita

Vanessa it would be harder and longer to convince her to have sex

Probably, but possible. Unlike chastity belt such ring doesn't prevent it.

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree.

Renita Unlike chastity belt such ring doesn't prevent it.

Right.We can more easily break it than a chastity belt.

Angelina

Renita

it would still be very dishonourable, especially because you wear this ring voluntarily

Renita

Angelina it would still be very dishonourable

but after ...

Angelina

Vanessa Right.We can more easily break it than a chastity belt.

whoever does this should not wear the ring 😉

Laura

Angelina whoever does this should not wear the ring

She can change her mind at the moment 🙂

Angelina

Laura

if she is not sure of her opinion, she should not even start wearing the ring 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

She can be sure at first...But,then,meet someone,fall in love,think he/she is the right one,and want to go "more far",even if not married...Or she can have an increase of her urges(even more possible it makes her break her promise if it included masturbating).

Angelina

Vanessa

I'm not quite sure how with girls who wear that ring, the rules for masturbation are

sorry but I can't agree with that, whoever wears this ring makes this promise and you decide to wear it voluntarily

we have already discussed decisions and consequences in another topic, you know my opinion

Laura

Vanessa But,then,meet someone,fall in love,think he/she is the right one,and want to go "more far",even if not married...

That's how it usually happens.

Vanessa

Angelina

I guess the rules about masturbation depend on the opinion of the wearer about it.She may think purity ring means she shouldn't touch herself either,but she may think it only mean she should not be intimate with someone else until married.

I agree there should be consequences,but I think there is some reasons that may make a woman wearing this ring break her promise,even if she planned to keep it until her wedding.

Angelina

Vanessa

I agree with you, but the rules for mastubation should be clarified at the beginning of wearing and this should be the same as for cb 😉

sorry but that's one point i can't discuss. decisions have consequences and who decides to wear this ring has to take the consequences

small example: whoever wears a wedding ring must expect a divorce even if he/she cheats on the partner

Vanessa

Angelina

I'm not sure it should be punished by parents,even if I don't know who else should do it.As I wrote a few times ago,promising to wear a chastity belt voluntarily if we break our promise could be a good motivation...At least,it would add more seriousness about this promise,even if I think it is a bit extreme.

Angelina

Vanessa

that would then be for example a form of punishment and therefore exactly what I meant 😉

furthermore, the girl should no longer be allowed to wear the ring