Purity ring

Vanessa

Laura That's why you shouldn't demonstrate it to "someone" 🙂

But it's difficult to date for long while hiding it...

Laura What is it?

A ring,a bit like a wedding ring,for women,which means they are virgin and want to stay virgin until married.

Laura

Vanessa And I think it was you who thought too it is difficult to make a relationship lasts without sex,and I agree

Yes, but not on the first date 🙂

Vanessa A ring,a bit like a wedding ring,for women,which means they are virgin and want to stay virgin until married.

It's called purity ring, while "virginity ring" is chastity belt in my opinion 😂

Angelina

Laura t's called purity ring, while "virginity ring" is chastity belt in my opinion

in germany this ring is also called chastity ring in reference to the cb, but in my opinion this is the wrong name 😂

Vanessa

Laura Yes, but not on the first date 🙂

Even if I'm not against it,I agree,it is not necessary to have sex on the first date to make a relationship lasts.

Laura It's called purity ring, while "virginity ring" is chastity belt in my opinion 😂

Probably,I knew the idea about it,but was unsure of the name.

Angelina

Well,it is not a bad name for it for women who had sex,but decide to not do it again until married.

Renita

It is like a promise,as a wedding ring is a promise to be faithful to the wife/husband,too.

Christine

But let's hope you'll find someone soon who you trust enough to tell him about it,while being sure he would keep it secret.

Laura You hide your belt well, but have to play a prude with random guys, otherwise your secret will be disclosed quickly

Same when we start to date a new boyfriend/girlfriend.

Renita

Vanessa A virginity ring,as they do sometimes in the US,yes...

It actually means nothing

Angelina

Vanessa Well,it is not a bad name for it for women who had sex,but decide to not do it again until married.

i mean rather that a ring does not prevent from masturbating, and not masturbating belongs to chastity

Vanessa

Angelina

Right,but it could help her to remind her promise,and help her to not break it.Each one have to decide if her promise of chastity includes masturbation or not(even if masturbating,but not having sex,is more abstinence,).

Renita But not enforceable. Unlike wedding ring where you will have trouble with your spouse.

Sure,if she want to wear such ring,she should be convinced to never break her promise,even if there is not much consequences.

She could too discuss it with her parents or her boyfriend/girlfriend and decide she would have to wear a chastity belt if she breaks her promise,even while having the ring on(even if it would be a bit extreme).

Renita

Vanessa It is like a promise,as a wedding ring is a promise to be faithful to the wife/husband,too.

But not enforceable. Unlike wedding ring where you will have trouble with your spouse.

Angelina

Vanessa (even if masturbating,but not having sex,is more abstinence,).

so I prefer to call it the abstinence ring 😉

Renita

Vanessa if she want to wear such ring,she should be convinced to never break her promise,

Or exposure as such to others

Vanessa

Angelina

Right.

Renita

Right too.If someone date a woman wearing such ring,he/she should guess they won't have sex until married,or,at least,it would be harder and longer to convince her to have sex.

Angelina

Vanessa

I think whoever's really wearing that ring is making a promise.

it is like a wedding ring, if the person has sex before marriage, he/she has broken this promise

Renita

Vanessa it would be harder and longer to convince her to have sex

Probably, but possible. Unlike chastity belt such ring doesn't prevent it.

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree.

Renita Unlike chastity belt such ring doesn't prevent it.

Right.We can more easily break it than a chastity belt.

Angelina

Renita

it would still be very dishonourable, especially because you wear this ring voluntarily

Renita

Angelina it would still be very dishonourable

but after ...

Angelina

Vanessa Right.We can more easily break it than a chastity belt.

whoever does this should not wear the ring 😉

Laura

Angelina whoever does this should not wear the ring

She can change her mind at the moment 🙂

Angelina

Laura

if she is not sure of her opinion, she should not even start wearing the ring 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

She can be sure at first...But,then,meet someone,fall in love,think he/she is the right one,and want to go "more far",even if not married...Or she can have an increase of her urges(even more possible it makes her break her promise if it included masturbating).

Angelina

Vanessa

I'm not quite sure how with girls who wear that ring, the rules for masturbation are

sorry but I can't agree with that, whoever wears this ring makes this promise and you decide to wear it voluntarily

we have already discussed decisions and consequences in another topic, you know my opinion

Laura

Vanessa But,then,meet someone,fall in love,think he/she is the right one,and want to go "more far",even if not married...

That's how it usually happens.

Vanessa

Angelina

I guess the rules about masturbation depend on the opinion of the wearer about it.She may think purity ring means she shouldn't touch herself either,but she may think it only mean she should not be intimate with someone else until married.

I agree there should be consequences,but I think there is some reasons that may make a woman wearing this ring break her promise,even if she planned to keep it until her wedding.