Sara2001 That's not a good advice, because it would lead to a severe punishment. I am not allowed to touch them without permission except for cleaning and I don't have the permission. 🙁

You should let your boyfriend plays a lot with these,so!😉

Sara2001 Yes, whenever he feels like Daniel's leadership is not good for me. They will talk a lot about my rules until marriage, but I will not be part of this talks. My father still set's a lot of boundaries, just indirect for me.

Good he can still decide if this decision is not good for you and can change his mind.

Sara2001 To only have one leader makes it much easier for me, even if I still have to accept anything my father demands.

Yes,and less risk to have some rules which make diffcult to follow both.

Sara2001 Definitely. The after care is so much better. 🙂

😉

Angelina i think everybody would understand, i think daniel can give you one last free night, i hope you did 😉

It would be a nice gift,yes.

              Vanessa You should let your boyfriend plays a lot with these,so!😉

              It's not at me to decide when he plays with them. I offer them to him all the time and would be very happy to serve in this case 🙂

              Vanessa Yes,and less risk to have some rules which make diffcult to follow both.

              That's also an important point for me.

                    Sara2001 It's not at me to decide when he plays with them. I offer them to him all the time and would be very happy to serve in this case 🙂

                    can you stay in chastity if you want and forbid him to play with your breasts ?

                        Angelina can you stay in chastity if you want and forbid him to play with your breasts ?

                        No, technically it's his descision, but of course he will know when to play and when to leave me alone 🙂

                            Angelina I very much hope so

                            but also, technically it would be sexual coercion

                            Only if giving him this power is not consensual. But this is not the case.

                                Sara2001 Only if giving him this power is not consensual.

                                it's as soon as he makes these abuses

                                but I think you can draw the line there 😉

                                    I'm sorry to have to tell you this.

                                    i was caught tonight by my father watching a porn movie on the internet. before everyone says it's wrong, i know that myself but i was curious and couldn't control myself 🙁

                                    i sent the video to my girlfriend, because i wanted to show her what we could try in the future (after our wedding). but i don't want to go further into the content of the film

                                    as i said i was caught by my father and therefore i will be punished. the punishment starts tomorrow. the punishment contains several things

                                    1. i am banned from the internet for 17 days (that means i can't write with you for the next 17 days) 🙁 i get 10 days for watching the film and 7 days for sending the film to camryn 🙁

                                    2. i get the padlock to the tighbands again for the next 2 months 🙁 🙁

                                    3. i have to write an essay of 20 pages which has to be finished within the next 17 days, of course i am grounded during this time 🙁

                                    4. i have to wear the connecting chains between chastity belt and chastity bra at home ( the next 17 days )

                                    i am currently quite sad, but at least i have the permission to meet camryn once a week, but only in my room

                                    if you have questions, you can ask them tonight, because from tomorrow on it won't work anymore 🙁 I hope you don't think badly of me

                                      Angelina
                                      Bad new...
                                      I said you some time ago, a sexual video is always a bad idea.
                                      I hope you at least can write here.

                                          Angelina i am banned from the internet for 17 days (that means i can't write with you for the next 17 days)

                                          We will be waiting for you. 17 days is not too long.
                                          But once you are back you will have to read a lot. You might want to subscribe to some topics and receive updates by e-mail

                                              Ines I said you some time ago, a sexual video is always a bad idea.

                                              I know and I knew what kind of punishment I would get, I was so stupid 🙁

                                              Ines I hope you at least can write here.

                                              i can use my father's laptop under his supervision if i need something for school, but my laptop will be locked in the safe for the next 17 days starting tomorrow 🙁 so i will not be able to write

                                              Laura But once you are back you will have to read a lot.

                                              I will read everything, but only reply to posts that are then current

                                              Laura You might want to subscribe to some topics and receive updates by e-mail

                                              i have also no access to my e-mail for the next 17 days, only if it has something to do with the school 🙁

                                                        Sara2001 It's not at me to decide when he plays with them. I offer them to him all the time and would be very happy to serve in this case 🙂

                                                        So,you can suggest it?

                                                        Sara2001 That's also an important point for me.

                                                        Logical.

                                                        Sara2001 No, technically it's his descision, but of course he will know when to play and when to leave me alone 🙂

                                                        He always accept?

                                                        Angelina

                                                        I agree.@Sara2001 should take care about it.

                                                        Angelina

                                                        I'm sorry for you,but it is not surprising that the punishment is seevre...It is a very serious offense in my case too,and always mean that no internet for a long period of time is apart of my punishment(I don't do it much,now,it is only very frustrating for me,with the chastity belt on).

                                                        I hope the essay won't be too difficult to write(and not take you too much time),and that the additional chastity device(and the lock instead of the chain for the thigh bands) won't be too hard...

                                                        "Good" part is that he doesn't totally forbid you to date your girlfriend,even if very reduced.

                                                        Angelina i have also no access to my e-mail for the next 17 days, only if it has something to do with the school 🙁

                                                        Yes,but then,after your punishment is ended,you could check your e-mail and can read the updates of the subjects you want to read/reply first.

                                                                      Vanessa So,you can suggest it?

                                                                      I can present them, but he doesn't want me to ask for getting out of the bra.

                                                                      Vanessa He always accept?

                                                                      We are just in the very beginning, but he already has a good feeling when I am in the mood and when I really don't want it. In 80% it is working.

                                                                      Vanessa "Good" part is that he doesn't totally forbid you to date your girlfriend,even if very reduced.

                                                                      Yes, anything else is still very bad but manageable.

                                                                              Sara2001 n present them, but he doesn't want me to ask for getting out of the bra.

                                                                              So,you have to choose well your words,I guess.

                                                                              Sara2001 We are just in the very beginning, but he already has a good feeling when I am in the mood and when I really don't want it. In 80% it is working.

                                                                              Let's hope it'll be 100% when married!😉

                                                                              Sara2001 Yes, anything else is still very bad but manageable.

                                                                              I agree.

                                                                                      Vanessa So,you have to choose well your words,I guess.

                                                                                      Yes. It's difficult but also feels like a little game, even if the consequences for asking are not fun. So far he doesn't open my chastity bra for playing. I miss it a lot, but on the other side he shows me how much he loves me. Indirect he also shows me that he not only loves my body but also the person.

                                                                                      Vanessa Let's hope it'll be 100% when married!😉

                                                                                      I think 100% is not possible, but we should get close 🙂

                                                                                            Sara2001 this is a big problem I see all the time, people love the body not the person, and it's hard to tell unless you are not attractive lol.

                                                                                                Sara2001 Indirect he also shows me that he not only loves my body but also the person.

                                                                                                Yes that is veey important to be loved and enjoyed wholly. Im happy for you Sara. As this dynamic in a relationship is not really celebrated or appreciated these days...

                                                                                                    Valadar As this dynamic in a relationship is not really celebrated or appreciated these days...

                                                                                                    There is still a community practicing this. They are just not visible because it's not well accepted these days.

                                                                                                        Natescage you mean the chastity belt community or just the larger no sex b4 married folk's.

                                                                                                        Mostly the Taken in Hand/Domestic Discipline community but also the no sex before marriage community. I think a chastity belt is relatively uncommon.