Vanessa You should let your boyfriend plays a lot with these,so!
It's not at me to decide when he plays with them. I offer them to him all the time and would be very happy to serve in this case 
Vanessa Yes,and less risk to have some rules which make diffcult to follow both.
That's also an important point for me.
I'm sorry to have to tell you this.
i was caught tonight by my father watching a porn movie on the internet. before everyone says it's wrong, i know that myself but i was curious and couldn't control myself 
i sent the video to my girlfriend, because i wanted to show her what we could try in the future (after our wedding). but i don't want to go further into the content of the film
as i said i was caught by my father and therefore i will be punished. the punishment starts tomorrow. the punishment contains several things
i am banned from the internet for 17 days (that means i can't write with you for the next 17 days) i get 10 days for watching the film and 7 days for sending the film to camryn
i get the padlock to the tighbands again for the next 2 months
i have to write an essay of 20 pages which has to be finished within the next 17 days, of course i am grounded during this time
i have to wear the connecting chains between chastity belt and chastity bra at home ( the next 17 days )
i am currently quite sad, but at least i have the permission to meet camryn once a week, but only in my room
if you have questions, you can ask them tonight, because from tomorrow on it won't work anymore I hope you don't think badly of me
Ines I said you some time ago, a sexual video is always a bad idea.
I know and I knew what kind of punishment I would get, I was so stupid
Ines I hope you at least can write here.
i can use my father's laptop under his supervision if i need something for school, but my laptop will be locked in the safe for the next 17 days starting tomorrow so i will not be able to write
Laura But once you are back you will have to read a lot.
I will read everything, but only reply to posts that are then current
Laura You might want to subscribe to some topics and receive updates by e-mail
i have also no access to my e-mail for the next 17 days, only if it has something to do with the school
Sara2001 It's not at me to decide when he plays with them. I offer them to him all the time and would be very happy to serve in this case
So,you can suggest it?
Sara2001 That's also an important point for me.
Logical.
Sara2001 No, technically it's his descision, but of course he will know when to play and when to leave me alone
He always accept?
I agree.@Sara2001 should take care about it.
I'm sorry for you,but it is not surprising that the punishment is seevre...It is a very serious offense in my case too,and always mean that no internet for a long period of time is apart of my punishment(I don't do it much,now,it is only very frustrating for me,with the chastity belt on).
I hope the essay won't be too difficult to write(and not take you too much time),and that the additional chastity device(and the lock instead of the chain for the thigh bands) won't be too hard...
"Good" part is that he doesn't totally forbid you to date your girlfriend,even if very reduced.
Angelina i have also no access to my e-mail for the next 17 days, only if it has something to do with the school
Yes,but then,after your punishment is ended,you could check your e-mail and can read the updates of the subjects you want to read/reply first.
Vanessa So,you can suggest it?
I can present them, but he doesn't want me to ask for getting out of the bra.
Vanessa He always accept?
We are just in the very beginning, but he already has a good feeling when I am in the mood and when I really don't want it. In 80% it is working.
Vanessa "Good" part is that he doesn't totally forbid you to date your girlfriend,even if very reduced.
Yes, anything else is still very bad but manageable.
Sara2001 n present them, but he doesn't want me to ask for getting out of the bra.
So,you have to choose well your words,I guess.
Sara2001 We are just in the very beginning, but he already has a good feeling when I am in the mood and when I really don't want it. In 80% it is working.
Let's hope it'll be 100% when married!
Sara2001 Yes, anything else is still very bad but manageable.
I agree.
Vanessa So,you have to choose well your words,I guess.
Yes. It's difficult but also feels like a little game, even if the consequences for asking are not fun. So far he doesn't open my chastity bra for playing. I miss it a lot, but on the other side he shows me how much he loves me. Indirect he also shows me that he not only loves my body but also the person.
Vanessa Let's hope it'll be 100% when married!
I think 100% is not possible, but we should get close
Sara2001 this is a big problem I see all the time, people love the body not the person, and it's hard to tell unless you are not attractive lol.
Sara2001 you mean the chastity belt community or just the larger no sex b4 married folk's.
Sara2001 Mostly the Taken in Hand/Domestic Discipline community but also the no sex before marriage community.
I have heard of the Taken In Hand/Domestic Discipline Community (I didn't know it was similar to the no sex before marriage community) May I ask how do you see it as being different when we talk about about it being in a marriage, than say in the TPE (Total Power Exchange) community? Wouldn't you say there are lots of similarities? Just curious / interested in your opinion.
