Pru's wife here. In a year or two, we're hoping the pandemic has scaled back enough to hold a vow-renewal, maybe for one of the significant anniversary years. Our lives were pretty complicated, and a lot more broke, when we got married so we just did a small civil ceremony. She's had wedding dress dreams for a while and I think I'd look great in a tux. So we want to do it right next time. She'll be wearing her belt under the dress and wants to do something special, but neither of us has any idea how to do it subtly. Maybe a small keyholding ceremony with a few trusted friends afterwards.