Letters to Dear Abby 1970

Angelina right I thought you meant the friends at school but this is another situation.

Natescage

no one at my school knows,

no one who doesn't need to know knows

Natescage

Probably,but I think she's right!

Angelina i don't talk about this with anyone (except my inner circle)

Wiser.

Angelina I'm happy in a relationship that's enough of an excuse

I agree.

Natescage

If we take care about who is in this inner circle,it should not be a problem.

I was lucky none of my ex's(for those who knew I had to wear it as a punishment)talked about it as a revenge....

Vanessa once you get over the "this is weaird, and I feel it innapropriate and I want to save her" feelings you tend to respect the persons wishes to remain a secret.

Vanessa I was lucky none of my ex's(for those who knew I had to wear it as a punishment)talked about it as a revenge....

fortunately , this is unfortunately not always the case

Natescage once you get over the "this is weaird, and I feel it innapropriate and I want to save her" feelings you tend to respect the persons wishes to remain a secret.

it was the same in my relationship, it was not easy for camryn in the beginning, but she had to make me this promise to make the relationship work

Angelina how long did it take her and did she try to "rescue" you

Natescage

it's hard to say how long it lasted, but over time it became less

it helps that she knows she'll be rescuing me in a few years

Angelina yes that's true haha. It's interesting how since you can't do anything sexual she is the one who does it and explores it. Were you ever able to do that idea where she sent you a video of her or did your dad not like that idea.

Natescage Were you ever able to do that idea where she sent you a video of her or did your dad not like that idea.

no and I will not ask you, it is absolutely forbidden for me to watch pornographic content (this forum is ok because there are no pictures here), my last punishment is for a similar reason (porn on the internet)

Natescage once you get over the "this is weaird, and I feel it innapropriate and I want to save her" feelings you tend to respect the persons wishes to remain a secret.

Not everyone,especially if not close enough,would react this way.

Emilie reacted a bit like this,however.And she was angry to my parents for making me wear it.

Angelina fortunately , this is unfortunately not always the case

Yes,it would have been hard if they revealed it...

Angelina my last punishment is for a similar reason

And it was a hard one!

Angelina that was camryn too, but the love to me was bigger

Similar for Emilie.Even if it was hard for her to not have arguments with my parents about it,especially at first.

Angelina that's why i don't use videos of camryn, especially because then i put her in danger too

Wise decision.

Vanessa especially at first.

in the beginning it is always very difficult when someone really loves us. it took a few conversations until camryn could accept it 100%.

Angelina

Understandable.But it is important as it won't do any good if a new boyfriend/girlfriend starts to argue with our parenst about it...But not easy to accept for him/her,sure.

Vanessa But not easy to accept for him/her,sure.

of course it is not easy, but it is the best he/she can do. it is also a great proof of love

Angelina it is also a great proof of love

I agree.