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Chastity contract
20 days later
It's fucked up that a parent make her daughter sign a contract that says she is obliged to wear a chastity belt. Please escape
The user does not wear more a chastity belt.
But the way, who are you? Make a introduction on the introduction thread, however, reading your name, I guess you do not want a constructive dialogue.
IHATETHISFORUM It's fucked up that a parent make her daughter sign a contract that says she is obliged to wear a chastity belt. Please escape
to reassure you, i no longer wear a belt, but with your usernames you disqualify yourself from any constructive discussion
I rather like the name. Direct, to the point. Always appreciate a straight shooter.
sorry but someone who has in his username that he hates this forum should not be in the forum 
3 months later
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I am pleased to announce that I now have a chastity contract. It's not written down but was agreed to verbally by me and my boyfriend. Sort of. I was enthusiastic in my agreement, he was kind of like, what? What are you talking about?
Some background. I have had a belt for 3 1/2 years. I began wearing after I was assaulted and wore it outside the house about every day and many nights. For the first year or so my only thought was physical protection. For the next year and 1/2 or so I also wore it to prevent sexual activity. But I always said that when I found a serious, and I mean serious, boyfriend I would resume sexual activity, and I did both (find a boyfriend and resume sexual activity) last fall.
Now the school year is over and my boyfriend is heading to Cape Cod (about 100km South of Boston, MA, USA) to play baseball with my brothers. I'm heading to Bar Harbor, ME, USA (about 400km North of Boston) to write. I plan to swear off any sexual activity with others and restrict sex with myself to that which is driven by fantasizing about my boyfriend. I don't really expect any problems, but I thought I would feel better if I started wearing the belt full-time, like many folks in relationships here do. With certainty I think I'll gain a better appreciation of what people here experience.
I have certain exceptions to the full-time bit. First, I have a part-time job at which I cannot wear a belt. Also, I plan to spend as much time as possible at the beach and simply won't wear it there. Also, I have to run, probably twice a day, and can't manage it then. Finally, I plan to spend as much time as I can at the beach with my breasts bare. This is a bit of a reach in the US but possible at the national park near Bar Harbor if you don't stretch it. Federal land is easier than local beaches. And I'm not sure too many men involved in chastity contracts would want that.
So I've started giving it a try. This is my third week here, less time for the NCAA track meet last weekend. I've found it annoying and I'm actually cheating. Taking it off daily and not wearing it so tight that I couldn't stick my hand in there if I wanted to. Wearing it full-time would be something to try.
Avery Nice to hear from you again and congratulation to you relationship.
It is interesting to read why you have now a chastity contract and what your goal is. But I do not see exactly where you want to go with it.
I understand the different exception not wearing it but I can't follow why you wear it loose. I think if no exception apply you should wear it well fitted.
Joh It is interesting to read why you have now a chastity contract and what your goal is. But I do not see exactly where you want to go with it.
I understand the different exception not wearing it but I can't follow why you wear it loose. I think if no exception apply you should wear it well fitted.
Think of it like wearing a wedding ring. A wedding ring does not prevent you from doing anything. It's a symbol. An announcement that you are in a serious relationship.
Part of the reason I want to do it is just to show my partner I take the relationship seriously, that I'm willing to undergo the inconvenience to show some fidelity. Also, I'd really like to understand better what people who wear belts experience. Also, I'd like to see if using the belt adds something to the relationship.
I wear it loose because the belt is more symbolic than anything. I am not going to have sex with someone else and I don't need a belt to prevent that. I have not sworn off masturbation so I don't need it for that. I will only masturbate with my partner in mind. I can control that without a belt. I simply won't do it otherwise.
Sasha Iām guessing sheās not entirely used to the commitment of wearing it as the contract says she should just yet, so wearing it loosely leaves āoptionsā.
Of course Iām just speculating and Iām sure she will answer herself when sheās ready
Maybe I should remind that I have my own key. Wearing the belt tight proves nothing. If I wanted to cheat I'd just take the belt off and do it. And if I want to masturbate thinking of my partner I just go ahead and do it. We do not consider masturbation cheating. Some folks do and I respect that.
IHATETHISFORUM @Milord, is that you?
Avery I am pleased to announce that I now have a chastity contract. It's not written down but was agreed to verbally by me and my boyfriend. Sort of. I was enthusiastic in my agreement, he was kind of like, what? What are you talking about?
If I may reply to my own post, my Father has joined my boyfriend with a huh, what? response to my wearing the belt. He knows me well enough to know I'm not going to cheat (with another person) so he can't figure out why bother.
Avery Finally, I plan to spend as much time as I can at the beach with my breasts bare. This is a bit of a reach in the US but possible at the national park near Bar Harbor if you don't stretch it.
I reported maybe a year ago my father and I were at odds as to how much coverage I needed at the beach for my bottom. We compromised by my modeling stuff for him before wearing it. Oddly enough he has said nothing about bare breasts. Now I'm the one that's confused.
Avery First, nice to see you back. You were much missed. Next, glad you have a chastity contract with the boyfriend. Does that mean he is or will wear on too? I would highly recommend the QIUI device that is app controlled (by you). Are you wearing a lot of the time or only for risky situations.
Whatever, I am sure you will benefit in many ways from chastity.
Sam