sun

I think you are wrong.
We don't know what your marital life is like, but we assume it's normal, so your wife will have "joys" from time to time and won't have to try things.
Single girls, on the other hand, or at least me, do try, when I'm not wearing thighbands, to try to achieve "something", and something is achieved.
When I'm wearing them, however, it's impossible to carry anything past just below the edge of the shield, and yet anything that goes right under the edge is impossible to move or play with.
I use the bands 4 days a week and the behavior, and even the sensations, change radically.
I don't know if for women with a partner or for girls who have never done "nothing naughty" they are as effective, but for a girl like me (I was never obsessed but I have done things that I shouldn't have 😅 ), yes, they are noticeable when I wear them.

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      Laura
      She wears a chastity belt now.But I am not sure if that is a abstinent belt.Because I don't know what a abstinence belt look like.

          Raquel
          My mistake.Maybe I should use "flirtation",instead of "stimulation"here.If she want to stimulate herself,there's no problem.She refuses to talk about such things,I really don't know if she needs such things.

              sun Because I don't know what a abstinence belt look like.

              Without a secondary shield

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                  AlexandrA
                  Have you talked about your submissive to your mother?

                    Laura
                    Yes,she wears a chastity belt without the secondary shield.

                      Saintprudence
                      I really don't know the answer.And I don't know how to test some assumptions.

                        I have thougt I should lock a chastity bra or thigh bands on her body directly to see her reaction.But another voice in my mind told me that may hurt her heart and body.

                          sun I suppose the question is, do you yourself want her to be in a bra or thigh-banded? And if so, why? Thighbands serve two purposes: the make masturbation even more impossible, and they construct the wearer’s legs. You aren’t concerned with masturbation since she has no secondary shield (and thigh bands would not help,) so it comes down to whether you feel her stride must be limited. And that’s more of a bondage than chastity question.

                          The bra, similarly, exists only to prevent nipple stimulation and to act as a mental reinforcement of control. If you don’t want one or both of these things, there’s no need for a locked bra.

                            sun But another voice in my mind told me that may hurt her heart and body.

                            You are right. Don't do it. An abstinence belt is enough.

                              sun I agree with Renita. Unless you have very strong and specific reason to do such things, it is unwise to test your authority just to see what happens.

                                sun a chastity belt - like just the belt - is a lot. Let it be special - don't start any idea that it is not enough.

                                  sun My mistake.Maybe I should use "flirtation",instead of "stimulation"here.If she want to stimulate herself,there's no problem.She refuses to talk about such things,I really don't know if she needs such things.

                                  i don't quite understand. stimulation is supposed to be prevented by thighbands and from my own experience i can say that it works well, i don't understand why you find them useless. i would understand restrictive and scary, but useless?

                                  sun I have thougt I should lock a chastity bra or thigh bands on her body directly to see her reaction.

                                  how would you do it? i think the best thing would be to talk to your wife about how far she is willing to go. be open about your wishes, but accept if she does not want to go further than she has done so far.

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                                        sun But another voice in my mind told me that may hurt her heart and body.

                                        I would focus on loving your wife and doing other things with her so you enjoy your wife both ways.
                                        I think you should be able to tell by looking at how the belt fits if it is comfortable on her or if it is a " dead weight of metal"

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                                            Megan
                                            We also shared many hobbies,such as cooking,growing flower,tea and so on.
                                            As I know there are no comfortable chastity belts.But she has used this style for several years.

                                                Angelina
                                                To prevent the stimulation from yourself,maybe it's useful.To prevent the stimulation from others,a chastity belt and a bra is necessary.
                                                To prevent women from having sex,a single chastity belt is enough.
                                                That's what I think.

                                                    sun To prevent women from having sex,a single chastity belt is enough.

                                                    If she agrees to wear a belt for this purpose, don't change anything.

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                                                      sun That's what I think.

                                                      this is true as far as it goes, but more important is what your wife says about it, because the thighbands are not useless for certain purposes, but what purposes would she agree to? which devices are useful should be judged according to what you want to prevent.