Story of me and my wife

sun I suppose the question is, do you yourself want her to be in a bra or thigh-banded? And if so, why? Thighbands serve two purposes: the make masturbation even more impossible, and they construct the wearer’s legs. You aren’t concerned with masturbation since she has no secondary shield (and thigh bands would not help,) so it comes down to whether you feel her stride must be limited. And that’s more of a bondage than chastity question.

The bra, similarly, exists only to prevent nipple stimulation and to act as a mental reinforcement of control. If you don’t want one or both of these things, there’s no need for a locked bra.

sun But another voice in my mind told me that may hurt her heart and body.

You are right. Don't do it. An abstinence belt is enough.

sun I agree with Renita. Unless you have very strong and specific reason to do such things, it is unwise to test your authority just to see what happens.

sun a chastity belt - like just the belt - is a lot. Let it be special - don't start any idea that it is not enough.

sun My mistake.Maybe I should use "flirtation",instead of "stimulation"here.If she want to stimulate herself,there's no problem.She refuses to talk about such things,I really don't know if she needs such things.

i don't quite understand. stimulation is supposed to be prevented by thighbands and from my own experience i can say that it works well, i don't understand why you find them useless. i would understand restrictive and scary, but useless?

sun I have thougt I should lock a chastity bra or thigh bands on her body directly to see her reaction.

how would you do it? i think the best thing would be to talk to your wife about how far she is willing to go. be open about your wishes, but accept if she does not want to go further than she has done so far.

sun But another voice in my mind told me that may hurt her heart and body.

I would focus on loving your wife and doing other things with her so you enjoy your wife both ways.
I think you should be able to tell by looking at how the belt fits if it is comfortable on her or if it is a " dead weight of metal"

sun That's what I think.

this is true as far as it goes, but more important is what your wife says about it, because the thighbands are not useless for certain purposes, but what purposes would she agree to? which devices are useful should be judged according to what you want to prevent.

sun As I know there are no comfortable chastity belts.But she has used this style for several years.

I am comfortable all the main women are. It depends on how your body is shaped and she needs to look closely at how it is when she moves or sits different ways.

sun
Tell her that you like to see her naked and that she is very pretty. There is no reason for her to be nervous. She can be proud that you like to look at her.

sun Do you think it's normal?

yes and no, it is difficult to judge, because your wife seems to be a very shy and reserved person, but i think it is important in a marriage to be able to be open with each other. just ask her why she feels uncomfortable, maybe you can do something about it

sun my wife does not accept complements on her appearance either.
She doesn’t feel she is pretty or sexy.

She finally accepted that I believe she is pretty but does not believe it herself