@Tobbe @Angelina @Ines @Vanessa
Thank you for your advise.
When I make the measurement yesterday,my wife told me we shouldn't waste too much money on this thing,the old one is secure enough.
This is the first time she has told me her thought about chastity belt on her own initiative.She misunderstood my intention.She may think I don't trust her as before.I have to stop my plan to buy a new chastity belt.

    sun
    Well, it is, maybe, not a suppressing answer of your wife. I mean, wear the current belt, even if a new one can be safer or more comfortable.
    I do not know your economical situation, but if you can make the expense, say her that is not about security, but that she deserves a better belt. I think every girl likes to feel herself appreciated.

    • sun replied to this.

        sun

        i think it is the right decision. it seems as if your wife feels comfortable with the current belts. like @Ines already wrote you should tell your wife that you just want her to feel better.

        if she is still against it because the costs are too high or she feels it is unnecessary to buy a new belt, you should respect her decision

          sun

          Good she talked with you about it.However,you should have reacted differently,explaining her it is not to buy a more secure one,but to buy a more comfortable one for her,and assure her you don't mistrust her.She may have appreciated it.

            I felt confused when she talked with me about it.I was surprised and a little angry for she misunderstood me,so I didn't explain my purpose to her soon.When I told her later I just wanted to buy her a more comfortable belt,she refused to conversate with me.I don't know whether she believe my explanation.Some girls say they feel frustrated.Now I am feeling frustrated too.

              sun Your wife already has a chastity belt that probably fits well on her body. Then it is no problem for you to measure it and order one that is much better and made for permanent use.
              You will surprise her with the new chastity belt when it comes to your home. Still the same situation for her, but with a much better chastity belt.

                  sun

                  what does your wife think about you buying a new belt now?

                  if she understands your reasons better now, i think you two have talked about it again

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                      Ines

                      Angelina
                      I have told her the new chastity belt is a more comfortable one rather than a more secure one.And I can afford it easily.She refused to talk with me.She was a little angry.I think she didn't believe in my explanation.
                      I think I should give her some time to calm down.

                            sun

                            exactly, give her a little time, maybe she will think about it again. but if she sticks with her opinion, you should accept that

                              Tobbe

                              I don't think she would appreciate it a lot...They must be both ok to buy a new one...

                              sun I think I should give her some time to calm down.

                              I think too.

                              But talk with her before ordering a new one.

                                    Vanessa .They must be both ok to buy a new one...

                                    that's true, anything else could be rather bad for the marriage 🙁

                                    Vanessa But talk with her before ordering a new one.

                                    otherwise the wife would be quite upset

                                          Angelina

                                          I agree.for buying a new one,or adding some devices,they should talk about it,and be both ok before they buy anything.If it is the case,choosing and buying it together can be a good idea,too.

                                              Vanessa

                                              good idea, maybe after a dinner together, sit in front of the computer and take a look and discuss what both want 🙂

                                                  19 days later

                                                  sun After our marriage,I gave her the belt made in China.It's cheap with general quility.Several days ago,I thought I should buy a better one.Unfortunately,I couldn't find Tollyboy's website.

                                                  I notice that you have mentioned China and maybe the Great Firewall. I'm curious are you a chinese? I come from China and it is just quite rare to see a fellow citizen here in this forum. A sensing of belonging~~

                                                      Andyhhh I notice that you have mentioned China and maybe the Great Firewall.

                                                      I did it in a sense how to bypass it if necessary

                                                      Andyhhh I come from China and it is just quite rare to see a fellow citizen here in this forum.

                                                      I see a lot of visitors from China however. And also attempts of DDoS attacks

                                                            Laura
                                                            Of course i have already passed the wall so as you can see me here. But not everybody can do that in China. It usually takes a little money to buy the VPN, and public sale of VPN is not allowed here (we can't just search for VPN by search engine, but I got a recommand from my friends)