Sara2001 Now with Daniel almost all of the rules will stay in place after wedding, but it feels completely different for me because now it was my decision to accept them.

i agree with @Vanessa that it is of course a different feeling when you do it voluntarily

but (and please don't be angry with me) i sometimes feel that your upbringing has raised you to the role of a submissive wife, in short i think there is a psychological problem

    Summer is comming.I think I should buy a better chastity belt for my wife,though I haven't known whether she would like it.I just want to make her feel better.I prefer Fancysteel,for it looks simple and light.I will make thirty measurements in the next ten days.Then I will buy it through a middleman.

      sun I think FancySteel with wires is too flexible to provide full protection.

        sun

        It seems it is mainly fetish products.You would probably not find an effective and comfortable chastity belt from these ones...

            I agree with Vanessa and Tobbe, but truly are nice. It can be useful as swimming belt.

              Ines I don't think it's worth spending money to use it just for swimming. One of my cb friends told me;
              "when I sit down at the toilet the shield is eating my pussy"!!!

                  Tobbe "when I sit down at the toilet the shield is eating my pussy"!!!

                  that sounds very disgusting

                  Vanessa It seems it is mainly fetish products.

                  definitely i checked the belts, not suitable for serious use

                        Angelina Yes, it must be! That's because a wire on the front can never be as stable as the metal

                          @Tobbe @Angelina @Ines @Vanessa
                          Thank you for your advise.
                          When I make the measurement yesterday,my wife told me we shouldn't waste too much money on this thing,the old one is secure enough.
                          This is the first time she has told me her thought about chastity belt on her own initiative.She misunderstood my intention.She may think I don't trust her as before.I have to stop my plan to buy a new chastity belt.

                            sun
                            Well, it is, maybe, not a suppressing answer of your wife. I mean, wear the current belt, even if a new one can be safer or more comfortable.
                            I do not know your economical situation, but if you can make the expense, say her that is not about security, but that she deserves a better belt. I think every girl likes to feel herself appreciated.

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                                sun

                                i think it is the right decision. it seems as if your wife feels comfortable with the current belts. like @Ines already wrote you should tell your wife that you just want her to feel better.

                                if she is still against it because the costs are too high or she feels it is unnecessary to buy a new belt, you should respect her decision

                                  sun

                                  Good she talked with you about it.However,you should have reacted differently,explaining her it is not to buy a more secure one,but to buy a more comfortable one for her,and assure her you don't mistrust her.She may have appreciated it.

                                    I felt confused when she talked with me about it.I was surprised and a little angry for she misunderstood me,so I didn't explain my purpose to her soon.When I told her later I just wanted to buy her a more comfortable belt,she refused to conversate with me.I don't know whether she believe my explanation.Some girls say they feel frustrated.Now I am feeling frustrated too.

                                      sun Your wife already has a chastity belt that probably fits well on her body. Then it is no problem for you to measure it and order one that is much better and made for permanent use.
                                      You will surprise her with the new chastity belt when it comes to your home. Still the same situation for her, but with a much better chastity belt.

                                          sun

                                          what does your wife think about you buying a new belt now?

                                          if she understands your reasons better now, i think you two have talked about it again

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                                              Ines

                                              Angelina
                                              I have told her the new chastity belt is a more comfortable one rather than a more secure one.And I can afford it easily.She refused to talk with me.She was a little angry.I think she didn't believe in my explanation.
                                              I think I should give her some time to calm down.

                                                    sun

                                                    exactly, give her a little time, maybe she will think about it again. but if she sticks with her opinion, you should accept that

                                                      Tobbe

                                                      I don't think she would appreciate it a lot...They must be both ok to buy a new one...

                                                      sun I think I should give her some time to calm down.

                                                      I think too.

                                                      But talk with her before ordering a new one.

                                                            Vanessa .They must be both ok to buy a new one...

                                                            that's true, anything else could be rather bad for the marriage 🙁

                                                            Vanessa But talk with her before ordering a new one.

                                                            otherwise the wife would be quite upset