Story of me and my wife

sun How long after your marriage did you start belting her?

sun he belt had been always attached with the secondar shield.

I thought you started attaching it few days ago

sun how hard she wore the belt from this forum

Why is it hard? It doesn't let girls do what your wife is not supposed to do anyway

sun That may explain the difference between when she was your wife and when she was your girlfriend. Even putting cultural differences aside, after you married her you changed the dynamic. By placing the belt around her waist, you assumed a position of authority and responsibility. You claimed ownership of her right to orgasm. This is a big responsibility, and one that decisively puts you in charge. There are many ways to react to being locked, but in the end, a belted girl's response is one of two things: either they resist it, or they accept it. Your wife accepted the role of a belted wife and that tends to make one assume a secondary role.

Obviously this is not universal to all belted girls. But if the dynamic is one of leader and follower, it stands to reason that the keyholder would end up as the leader and the belt-wearer is the followed.

sun I think you are a wearer,aren't you?

Yes, and mine is not even detachable

sun You mean you always have the secondary shield?

Yes. All the time.

sun You may be underestimating the power of a belt. As soon as you married her, you informed her that her orgasms belonged to you. You took away a natural and pleasurable function that nearly every other woman in the world can access without any trouble. And more importantly, she accepted your authority when you took this away from her. I think being belted would make almost any person naturally more obedient and submissive to the person who locked them. Even the girls here who hate the belt tend to reluctantly accept the authority of whoever placed them in it. In fact, those who could otherwise escape choose to remain locked out of loyalty to their keyholders.

sun How long did it take you to get used to it?

About a month. But I started with mom's old belt.

sun This is true. My point is, by offering her the belt, you were asking to take a role of authority. By choosing to stay in the belt, she accepted your authority. And now a bond exists between the two of you that you may not fully understand yet.

sun When I say you took away her control over pleasure, I’m not condemning you. I’m a belted wife myself. But I’m saying that the act of giving up control may have triggered a more obedient side of her that she didn’t really know about before.