When I was a senior high school student I knew the chastity belt from a magazine,it didn't give details of a chastity belt.I couldn't imagine what a chastity belt looks like at that time.When I go to the university,I discoveried the wedsite of Tollyboy,then I thought it would be significant if my wife could wear one for me.Tollyboy was the only brand I knew at that time.
After our marriage,I gave her the belt made in China.It's cheap with general quility.Several days ago,I thought I should buy a better one.Unfortunately,I couldn't find Tollyboy's website.When I tried to find some new information about chastity belt,I discoveried this forum occasionally.At beginning,I made a mistake by seeing the tile "unwed"as "unweb".
In our tradition,talking about married life is not welcome.Talking about chastity equipments on the internet is forbidden by law,because it's always about sex,sm and so on.If talk about chastity equipments in a Chinese forum,it will be forbidden quickly.And I found nobody around us know what a chastity belt is.I need somebody to listen and communicate.I have a lot of things to learn.

    For I knew nothing about it,I haven't set up a schedule for break.At beginning,I just made her wear it several hours a day.I didn't want to make her antipathy strong.After about ten days,I kept it locked at daytime.Tow or three months later,I went on a bussiness trip.Although I gave her an emergency key,she kept it on for three days.Then it became permannt.

    When I am at home,I unlock her belt for every wash.When I am not at home,she can only wash in the belt.The belt had been always attached with the secondar shield.I don't know how she does her cleaning and deals with her period.

      sun Unfortunately,I couldn't find Tollyboy's website.

      Because The Great Firewall of China ? I can find it instantly.

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          Laura
          I just can't find tollyboy's website through the search engine.Don't know why.

              Someone think she is a submissive wife.She was different when she was my girlfriend.She changed a lot.

                sun he belt had been always attached with the secondar shield.

                I thought you started attaching it few days ago

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                    Laura I thought you started attaching it few days ago

                    I took it off few days ago,when I learnt how hard she wore the belt from this forum.

                        sun how hard she wore the belt from this forum

                        Why is it hard? It doesn't let girls do what your wife is not supposed to do anyway

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                            Laura
                            It's uncomfortable and girls need much time to be used to it according to someone's experiences in this forum.I think you should know that more clearly than me.I think you are a wearer,aren't you?

                                sun That may explain the difference between when she was your wife and when she was your girlfriend. Even putting cultural differences aside, after you married her you changed the dynamic. By placing the belt around her waist, you assumed a position of authority and responsibility. You claimed ownership of her right to orgasm. This is a big responsibility, and one that decisively puts you in charge. There are many ways to react to being locked, but in the end, a belted girl's response is one of two things: either they resist it, or they accept it. Your wife accepted the role of a belted wife and that tends to make one assume a secondary role.

                                Obviously this is not universal to all belted girls. But if the dynamic is one of leader and follower, it stands to reason that the keyholder would end up as the leader and the belt-wearer is the followed.

                                    sun I think you are a wearer,aren't you?

                                    Yes, and mine is not even detachable

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                                        Laura
                                        You mean you always have the secondary shield?

                                            sun You mean you always have the secondary shield?

                                            Yes. All the time.

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                                                Laura
                                                You are great.How long did it take you to get used to it?