sun Do you think it's normal?

yes and no, it is difficult to judge, because your wife seems to be a very shy and reserved person, but i think it is important in a marriage to be able to be open with each other. just ask her why she feels uncomfortable, maybe you can do something about it

    2 months later

    sun my wife does not accept complements on her appearance either.
    She doesn’t feel she is pretty or sexy.

    She finally accepted that I believe she is pretty but does not believe it herself

      2 years later

      I sent barely posts here in this forum in the last two years.That doesn't mean that I left.In contrast,I often log in.I just haven't desire to talk.Maybe my job make me too tired,or maybe my life is too flate.

        sun I sent barely posts here in this forum in the last two years.That don't means that I left.In contrast,I often log in.I just haven't desire to talk.Maybe my job make me too tired,or maybe my life is too flate.

        If you like to share your's or your wife's experience from your daily life it will be grate. Other can see how it can work and not see only problems of young girls when they are in a CB.

          Although our parents always persuade us to have children, both of us think we don't get ready to have children in terms of economy,emotion and ablity.In other words,we don't know how to raise and educate a child.Their persuading is like a kind of noise,making us frustrated.

            As we don't have the plan of pregance,she will have more time to wear her chastity belt in near few years.

            In order to fresh our life,we give tasks and promissions to each other.I think it's important to have the same interest or the same goal between us.For example,she trained herself to wear high heels and studied make-up,while she asked me to study dance.Now we often spend about one hour dancing toghter after dinner.

            When the epidemic was lifted at last Chinese New Year,I bought her a suit of chastity equipment.That includes a new chastity belt，a pair of thigh band,a pair of chastity bra.
            The new belt is Y-style with a detachable secondary shield,she wears it almost every day.Sometimes with the shield,sometimes not.We plays the thigh band and the chastity bra occasionally.We haven't determined how to use the shield,the band and the bra.
            She thinks she can cope with everything with no problem if I want.I think they are just toys that we can play with to have some fun,although they look pretty sexy and interesting.

              We have reached a consensus that if I determine to add one new piece of accessory around her body,then she can make one wish.

                Her first wish will be a gift of mini electric car from me.I promise I will buy one at the end of this year.But I don't know which piece of accessory I can choose.So She may not need to pay her price to get a gift at the end. 🤣

                sun

                Hi, nice to hear from you. On a personal opinion, having children is very impactful on wearing chastity belt. With my wife I’ve done a lot of discussion (good one, not fights) and chastity belt is very impactful with my 12yo son. Of course I don’t want my son to be familiar with chastity belt or with any other bondage equipment. So I think that it’s a good decision.
                Also, we have a very strong Ds relationship, having a son around is very challenging but doable.
                Personal opinion

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                    Our parents,relatives and friends haven't find our secret by now. 😄

                    Milord
                    Milord
                    Hi,thanks for your kindness.I agree with you,though I don't have such experience.
                    I know a couple on the internet,they stopped this game when the wife got pregnant,and restarted when their child went to university.

                      sun That doesn't mean that I left.In contrast,I often log in.

                      Is it still accessible from China?

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                          sun In other words,we don't know how to raise and educate a child

                          The decision not to have kids is a respectable one, but to be fair no one really knows what they’re doing. Sort of a learn all you can and try your best type of thing

                              Sasha

                              I respect a lot those who take this kind of course. Means less unhappy people around.

                                sun Sometimes with the shield,sometimes not

                                What's a good reason to not wear the secondary shield?

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                                    Renita
                                    Obviously, if you wear the secondary shield, it's not convenient to pee and clean.

                                      sun In other words,we don't know how to raise and educate a child.

                                      nobody knows you just do it, but if you don't feel up to it you shouldn't do it either