sun I agree with Renita. Unless you have very strong and specific reason to do such things, it is unwise to test your authority just to see what happens.
Story of me and my wife
sun My mistake.Maybe I should use "flirtation",instead of "stimulation"here.If she want to stimulate herself,there's no problem.She refuses to talk about such things,I really don't know if she needs such things.
i don't quite understand. stimulation is supposed to be prevented by thighbands and from my own experience i can say that it works well, i don't understand why you find them useless. i would understand restrictive and scary, but useless?
sun I have thougt I should lock a chastity bra or thigh bands on her body directly to see her reaction.
how would you do it? i think the best thing would be to talk to your wife about how far she is willing to go. be open about your wishes, but accept if she does not want to go further than she has done so far.
sun But another voice in my mind told me that may hurt her heart and body.
I would focus on loving your wife and doing other things with her so you enjoy your wife both ways.
I think you should be able to tell by looking at how the belt fits if it is comfortable on her or if it is a " dead weight of metal"
My wife becomes nervous and embarrassed when I stare at her naked body,although we have been married for several years.Do you think it's normal?
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I sent barely posts here in this forum in the last two years.That doesn't mean that I left.In contrast,I often log in.I just haven't desire to talk.Maybe my job make me too tired,or maybe my life is too flate.
sun I sent barely posts here in this forum in the last two years.That don't means that I left.In contrast,I often log in.I just haven't desire to talk.Maybe my job make me too tired,or maybe my life is too flate.
If you like to share your's or your wife's experience from your daily life it will be grate. Other can see how it can work and not see only problems of young girls when they are in a CB.
Although our parents always persuade us to have children, both of us think we don't get ready to have children in terms of economy,emotion and ablity.In other words,we don't know how to raise and educate a child.Their persuading is like a kind of noise,making us frustrated.
As we don't have the plan of pregance,she will have more time to wear her chastity belt in near few years.
In order to fresh our life,we give tasks and promissions to each other.I think it's important to have the same interest or the same goal between us.For example,she trained herself to wear high heels and studied make-up,while she asked me to study dance.Now we often spend about one hour dancing toghter after dinner.
When the epidemic was lifted at last Chinese New Year,I bought her a suit of chastity equipment.That includes a new chastity belt,a pair of thigh band,a pair of chastity bra.
The new belt is Y-style with a detachable secondary shield,she wears it almost every day.Sometimes with the shield,sometimes not.We plays the thigh band and the chastity bra occasionally.We haven't determined how to use the shield,the band and the bra.
She thinks she can cope with everything with no problem if I want.I think they are just toys that we can play with to have some fun,although they look pretty sexy and interesting.