Chastity bra

Angelina

Sara2001

i just hope that your sister's boyfriend accepts it, but i think the chances are good, he also accepted the belt 😉

and i hope it's really only until her 18th birthday

Vanessa

Laura

Luckily,or unluckily,yes,it fits me well.I guess it is the same for @Angelina.

Sara2001 Yes, for him this is a very sexual act (for me,too). It is very arousing.

I agree.

Sara2001 Definitly, but as long as we feel nothing (at least physical), it is mostly ok for him. He thinks that's something a girlfriend should do for her partner. She has to wait but he should get anything he wants 🙁

Not surprising,in your family,as it is part of the women having to be submissive to their boyfriends.But at least,you can have possibilities allowed to have sex(at least party).

Sara2001 Yes, he looses a lot of trust to my sister. I think that's the main reason while the bra will stay in place.

I hope she can regain his trust...

Sara2001 She expected more then just the spanking and corner time. This wouldn't have stopped her and my father knows it. I think she feared stricter limitations for her sex life and at the end this is exactly what she got with the chastity bra. Most probably she had got it anyway.

She haven't guessed it could be the case?But yes,it can, be consider as the "stricter limitations for her sex life".

So,it wouldn't have changed much,if she told it,she should "only" have avoided the spanking and cornertime?

Sara2001 Yes, except for dinner and spanking she stands in the corner almost all the time. It it not a nice Christmas this year for the whole family.

Yes,I imagine the ambience was not good.It would maybe have been better if she got spanked,but put in the corner only the next day to have a nicer Chritsmas Eve...

Sara2001 Yes, he is number one. I hope the same but are not sure.

It would be good for her if her first one is the right one for her!

Sara2001 Definitely not. A punishment must compensate anything you got from your misbehaviour and more. It must always be better for you to follow the rules.

Understandable.

Sara2001 Yes, I know how difficult it is. I was never brave enough to ask.

It si very hard to talk about it...

Sara2001 Yes, she said absolutely nothing. She fears it a lot.

Logical.it is not easy,but,as you notice on this board,manageable.

Sara2001 I think she needs time.

Le's hoep sh'ell mange it better soon.

Sara2001 Yes, as a side effect I think now I understand the cup size problem. It's just the diameter of your breasts. So I think I was right (and I think it will definitely fit to me 🙁 )

With the new measurements asked,probably,yes...🙁

Sara2001 They can use the phone to talk and chat.

Good,it can be a bit easier for them if they can stay in touch.Had she told him about her punishments and chastity bra?

Angelina ah ok, but then i cannot accept chastity bra as part of her punishment, it is rather a preventive measure

I agree,it is similar to it.

Sara2001

2019 was not a good year for her and your parents...Caught masturbating in the toilets,hidden boyfriend...

Angelina i just hope that your sister's boyfriend accepts it, but i think the chances are good, he also accepted the belt 😉

I think he can accept it,too.

Angelina and i hope it's really only until her 18th birthday

Let's hope,yes.

Laura

Vanessa Luckily,or unluckily,yes,it fits me well.I guess it is the same for @Angelina.

I'm curious if one can wear a chastity bra from another girl or it must be measured and made individually as a belt

Sara2001

Vanessa Had she told him about her punishments and chastity bra?

She has not talked with him about the punishments yet, but about the bra.

Sara2001

Vanessa But at least,you can have possibilities allowed to have sex(at least party).

Yes, even if it is very frustrating, it is a good way to get intimate.

Vanessa I hope she can regain his trust...

I think it will cost a lot of time.

Vanessa So,it wouldn't have changed much,if she told it,she should "only" have avoided the spanking and cornertime?

Most probably she had got a chastity bra anyway, but it is likely that my father would be less strict with her, like removing it at home from school to dinner or things like that.

Vanessa Yes,I imagine the ambience was not good.It would maybe have been better if she got spanked,but put in the corner only the next day to have a nicer Chritsmas Eve...

That's for sure, but my father thinks a punishment should be close to the offence.

Vanessa It si very hard to talk about it...

I am still very happy that it was never necessary for me.

Vanessa With the new measurements asked,probably,yes...🙁

For me it's very clear on the website. The letter has nothing to do with classical bras but only represents a breast diameter.

Vanessa 2019 was not a good year for her and your parents...Caught masturbating in the toilets,hidden boyfriend...

Yes, don't forget that it was also her first year in chastity.

Vanessa I think he can accept it,too.

I hope so, too. Nothing to "explore" for him, but she can still give him pleasure.

Vanessa

Laura

If they have the same cup size,I guess there is a chance.But not as good as if measured specifically as for @Sara2001's sister.

Vanessa

Sara2001 She has not talked with him about the punishments yet, but about the bra.

Has he reacted well?Supporting and comforting her?

Sara2001 Yes, even if it is very frustrating, it is a good way to get intimate.

I agree.Frustrating for us,but good for our couples.

Sara2001 I think it will cost a lot of time.

Probably.But I think there is still a hope.Even if I doubt it would change her situation much.

Sara2001 Most probably she had got a chastity bra anyway, but it is likely that my father would be less strict with her, like removing it at home from school to dinner or things like that.

Oh,ok.So,now,she would have to wear it permanently and not only part-time,because she hided her relationship?If,yes,it is a very bad consequence...

Sara2001 That's for sure, but my father thinks a punishment should be close to the offence.

Mine too.But there could have been an exception for Christmas Eve.Even if,in such situation,I would at least have been spanked before the dinner(in private if our family was already here,but they would know what I did,and would probably agree with my parents,maybe scolding me).

Sara2001 I am still very happy that it was never necessary for me.

Yes,but you were lucky the man your parents have asked you to meet was right for you,and you liked him.And then fall in love with him.

Sara2001 For me it's very clear on the website. The letter has nothing to do with classical bras but only represents a breast diameter.

I think it is better now,yes.

Sara2001 Yes, don't forget that it was also her first year in chastity.

Oh,I forgot it.It is a hard year for her!At least,she had the chance to fall in love.

Sara2001 I hope so, too. Nothing to "explore" for him, but she can still give him pleasure.

Yes,they could still have some pleasant intimate moments.But it should be very discreet(what seems to not be often the case with your sister...)!

Angelina I'm certainly not gonna try it with camryn 😉

You don't want to give ideas to your father?

Angelina maybe i have to point out at this point what a chastity bra means, your sister will be psychologically quite at the end when she has to wear it 🙁 it makes sure that a part of the femininity is closed behind steel and we are missing it 🙁 it can also be quite bad at the beginning if you touch your breasts and only come across steel🙁 if I did not have a cleaning break once a day, I would get the feeling that the breasts have been amputated, which is extremely horrible 🙁 🙁 I am not quite sure if @Lea got a bra but I think unfortunately yes, maybe she can tell us something, in short I do not want to scare you but it is extremely hard 🙁

I agree.Even if I almost never wear it full time,unlike @Angelina,it is still very hard to wear it,I hate it a lot!It's different than a chastity belt,but very awful too.Even if not too uncomfortable,it would affect her emotionally a lot.Especially with the chastity belt,as her two most feminine parts would be locked under steel.And I agree too that it is hard to manage whne we can only touch steel when we want to touch our breasts...

Angelina

@Laura

I'm certainly not gonna try it with camryn 😉

@Sara2001

maybe i have to point out at this point what a chastity bra means, your sister will be psychologically quite at the end when she has to wear it 🙁 it makes sure that a part of the femininity is closed behind steel and we are missing it 🙁 it can also be quite bad at the beginning if you touch your breasts and only come across steel🙁 if I did not have a cleaning break once a day, I would get the feeling that the breasts have been amputated, which is extremely horrible 🙁 🙁 I am not quite sure if @Lea got a bra but I think unfortunately yes, maybe she can tell us something, in short I do not want to scare you but it is extremely hard 🙁

Sara2001

Vanessa Has he reacted well?Supporting and comforting her?

I don't know. We hadn't talked about it yet, we didn't had much time on our own.

Vanessa Oh,ok.So,now,she would have to wear it permanently and not only part-time,because she hided her relationship?If,yes,it is a very bad consequence...

He never said it explicitly, but he said that she will "now" have to wear it for acting so irresponsible. That's why I think he may had other ideas before.

Vanessa Mine too.But there could have been an exception for Christmas Eve.

In my family the structure comes first. Even if this means that days like this are disturbed.

Vanessa Yes,but you were lucky the man your parents have asked you to meet was right for you,and you liked him.And then fall in love with him.

Yes, it was a big luck for me.

Vanessa Yes,they could still have some pleasant intimate moments.But it should be very discreet(what seems to not be often the case with your sister...)!

I hope they will be allowed to meet in private once my father knows her boyfriend better. He will come to us this evening to talk with my parents.

Vanessa Even if not too uncomfortable,it would affect her emotionally a lot.Especially with the chastity belt,as her two most feminine parts would be locked under steel.And I agree too that it is hard to manage whne we can only touch steel when we want to touch our breasts...

I fear the same, but for now I can't say anything about it except that I totally believe you. I hope she quickly learn to handle it. I don't think my father will change his mind, soon.

Vanessa

Sara2001 I don't know. We hadn't talked about it yet, we didn't had much time on our own.

I guess she may talk with you about her relationship more when more calm.

Sara2001 He never said it explicitly, but he said that she will "now" have to wear it for acting so irresponsible. That's why I think he may had other ideas before.

I hope he'll change his mind after he met her boyfriend(if he likes him),and is less angry to what your sister did,and ease it a bit for her.

Sara2001 In my family the structure comes first. Even if this means that days like this are disturbed.

Understandable,but doing differently would have been too.But not surprising he decided to do it this way.

Sara2001 I hope they will be allowed to meet in private once my father knows her boyfriend better. He will come to us this evening to talk with my parents.

I hope too.Let us know how it went.I guess your sister and her boyfriend are very nervous!

Sara2001 I fear the same, but for now I can't say anything about it except that I totally believe you. I hope she quickly learn to handle it. I don't think my father will change his mind, soon.

It is not easy to manage,but it is wearable.But it will be hard emotionally for her.A lot of support could help her.

Angelina I agree with you on everything 😉
if i deserved a punishment before christmas, my father would execute the punishment until after christmas, because he is very concerned about the harmony during the family celebrations 🙂

In my case,I would have been spanked before the dinner.No matter if family members are here and could hear what is happening,they would want me to feel "well" the consequences of what I did during the dinner.But I would have been allowed to sit at the table with the family(maybe after a bit in the corner until we would start to eat)..

Angelina a little tip for you and daniel, as soon as you wear the bra after your engagement, he has to be very sensitive with it and make sure that you don't have a mental breakdown

Yes,he should take care of how she'll feel.

Angelina

@Vanessa

I agree with you on everything 😉
if i deserved a punishment before christmas, my father would execute the punishment until after christmas, because he is very concerned about the harmony during the family celebrations 🙂

@Sara2001

a little tip for you and daniel, as soon as you wear the bra after your engagement, he has to be very sensitive with it and make sure that you don't have a mental breakdown

I wish your sister all the best, please report continue

Sara2001

Vanessa I hope too.Let us know how it went.I guess your sister and her boyfriend are very nervous!

The meeting yesterday was very interesting for me. My sisters boyfriend is really a nice guy, but he also is very shy.

I can not say that what he said was his opinion or that he tried to say what he thinks my father wanted to hear.

The good thing is, it looked like my sister was very honest to him, so he knows she is forced to wear everything until marriage, so he knows he will never give her any sexual pleasure or even touch her at her sensitive areas until marriage.

I can not say if he accepted it, but at least he realised that he can not change this situation. He is definitely not the dominant kind of guy. I think he is very in love with my sister and feels very bad for her. He said he never heard that these days still some women have to wear this. My sister said he should not feel guilty that he can have more pleasure than she can feel, that she is very happy about this relationship and that she fears to loose him because of her chastity equipment, but he said she don't have to fear that. I hope he was honest.

My father tried to negotiate the aspect of forced wearing a bit by explaining that this is a family tradition and that all of us are wearing it. My mother explained that all of us know how we could get rid of the belt but that any woman in this family decides every day that family comes first. All three explained how important it is for my sister that he will not give the information he has to anyone. He agreed that this is very important but I think he was already overwhelmed at this time.

My father explained how everything will work in their relationship and they agreed on everything.

I think that was the main information, I spared some less important aspects.

Vanessa Yes,he should take care of how she'll feel.

Yes, it will be a soft start for me but I still fear that day.

Laura

Sara2001 My mother explained that all of us know how we could get rid of the belt but that any woman in this family decides every day that family comes first.

She might also show her waistband as a proof or her words

Angelina

Sara2001

very good for your sister 🙂

i hope he stands by his word and will accept your sister in her equipment 😉

he seems to be the opposite of your boyfriend though, right?

BikelockFugitive

Sara2001 I think its funny how your father actually thinks that he is in any position to negotiate the terms of chastity belt usage. If this relationship ends badly prepare for some high quality autism, now that your sisters boyfriend knows.

Vanessa

Sara2001

Interesting meeting.

It seems it went pretty well.Am I right by guessing your father like him?

It is good he's sweet with her and accept well the situation,and wise to not criticize your father's decision,even if he feels bad for her.I guess too he won't be a dominant boyfriend or husband for her,and she'll probably not have to wear chastity devices after wedding,if she'll marry him.

Good too she took care to let him understand he should not feel guilty to feel pleasure even if she can't,and that he reassures her he would not break-up with her due to her chastity devices.

I hope too that he would always take care to keep it secret,even if it doesn't end well for their relationship(let's hope it won't be the case).

It is understandable you fear to have to start wearing a chastity bra.

Laura

If he loves Sarah's sister,he should trust her if she confirms every woman in her family wear it.Even without a proof.

Sara2001

Laura She might also show her waistband as a proof or her words

I think that is going to far🙂

Sara2001

Vanessa It seems it went pretty well.Am I right by guessing your father like him?

Yes, at least he is okay with him. Once her chastity bra arrives they will be allowed to meet outside of school.

Until then she has to send a picture of the changes of the school schedule for every day and if a class is cancelled has to explain what she is doing this time without him.

Angelina

Sara2001 Until then she has to send a picture of the changes of the school schedule for every day and if a class is cancelled has to explain what she is doing this time without him.

understandable that your father is now very careful until the bra is delivered. it would not surprise me with what I know about your sister, however, if the two play with her breasts in school (while it is still possible)

but it is very good that your father can accept him 🙂

Vanessa

Sara2001

Strict,but good if it makes possible for them to date.

When her chastity bra should be delivered?

Angelina it would not surprise me with what I know about your sister, however, if the two play with her breasts in school (while it is still possible)

It's very likely,yes.

Angelina

Yes,and I should consider myself lucky,as it seems I'm the only one among the ones who have one here,who have to wear it part time only.It seems it is usually permanent wearing...

Laura

It is very effective to prevent any sexual stimulation of this part of our body...

Lukas

It depends,some women can,some can't.

Angelina otherwise the bra serves to prevent any stimulation, what your girlfriend likes, we are not allowed to feel 🙁

Exactly.

Angelina yes it is a very big difference, but only women understand that

I agree.

Lukas Well, that makes sense, yes. I feel very sorry for you.

Thank you!

Angelina

Sure! 😉

Sara2001

Angelina if the two play with her breasts in school (while it is still possible)

I think there is no way to prevent it, except not letting her go to school what is of course not an option 🙂

Laura

Seems chastity bra becomes more and more popular here 🙂

Angelina

Laura

3 in this forum (Vanessa, Lea and I) and the sister of Sara

it's getting more popular, unfortunately 🙁

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