Vanessa I hope too.Let us know how it went.I guess your sister and her boyfriend are very nervous!
The meeting yesterday was very interesting for me. My sisters boyfriend is really a nice guy, but he also is very shy.
I can not say that what he said was his opinion or that he tried to say what he thinks my father wanted to hear.
The good thing is, it looked like my sister was very honest to him, so he knows she is forced to wear everything until marriage, so he knows he will never give her any sexual pleasure or even touch her at her sensitive areas until marriage.
I can not say if he accepted it, but at least he realised that he can not change this situation. He is definitely not the dominant kind of guy. I think he is very in love with my sister and feels very bad for her. He said he never heard that these days still some women have to wear this. My sister said he should not feel guilty that he can have more pleasure than she can feel, that she is very happy about this relationship and that she fears to loose him because of her chastity equipment, but he said she don't have to fear that. I hope he was honest.
My father tried to negotiate the aspect of forced wearing a bit by explaining that this is a family tradition and that all of us are wearing it. My mother explained that all of us know how we could get rid of the belt but that any woman in this family decides every day that family comes first. All three explained how important it is for my sister that he will not give the information he has to anyone. He agreed that this is very important but I think he was already overwhelmed at this time.
My father explained how everything will work in their relationship and they agreed on everything.
I think that was the main information, I spared some less important aspects.
Vanessa Yes,he should take care of how she'll feel.
Yes, it will be a soft start for me but I still fear that day.
