Angelina Jen

try to stay calm and make the best of it. you know why you wear the belt and that's the most important thing. there are always good and bad situations, the momentum can tip one way or the other, but it's ultimately a head thing. it's just like running (@Avery will confirm this), even if you're physically fit the head has to play along, but if you tell yourself "i can do this, i can get through this" then you're the winner. 🙂

One thing I've learned is that you have to take care of yourself. If you do, the whole world looks better. Eat right, get proper rest, get some exercise, buy yourself something to wear, read a good book, meditate.

I don't think we've ever talked about proper rest. The American football coach Vince Lombardi used to say "fatigue makes cowards of us all". He was talking about contact sports, but I've found rest helps me stay on the chastity path. If you're over tired things are just harder, darker, you're more likely to get discouraged.

So keep practicing self care.

      Avery If you're over tired things are just harder, darker, you're more likely to get discouraged.

      Yeah lol my sleep is so over the place. Good insight Avery. 😴

        Avery

        this reads very well, i especially like the last sentence, we should always take care to do something good for ourselves. 🙂

          Angelina may i ask how you found out?

          At the site you get redirected to, pollsters.com, they say that if you become a member you can find out how to still access the old forum. Since I am still checking new results from my polls there, I did that, but didn't get a clear answer. The internet search I did next helped me better.

              carg

              but you can only read the old threads there if you have an account right?

              • carg replied to this.

                  Angelina

                  No, everybody can read. Only for posting you need an account. (Also for creating polls, but that hasn't worked for a long time now.)

                      carg No, everybody can read. Only for posting you need an account. (Also for creating polls, but that hasn't worked for a long time now.)

                      OK, I'll take a closer look at it when I find time 😉

                        Jen I’m trying to understand that perspective on the forum. If you choose to be in chastity then why do you need the chastity? The chastity belt is to prevent sex, but if your choosing to wear it then why does it even need to be locked?

                            CharInChastity The chastity belt is to prevent sex, but if your choosing to wear it then why does it even need to be locked?

                            because every girl has moments when she is overcome by sexual feelings, the belt helps the volunteers here that these feelings do not lead them to do something (sex, masturbation) that they do not want to do.

                                CharInChastity it's a break from controlling myself, like permission to feel sexual. And other things to - like alcohol - I never drink without my belt.

                                    Jen And other things to - like alcohol - I never drink without my belt.

                                    not even small amounts? are you afraid of losing control too easily?

                                    • Jen replied to this.

                                        Jen doesn't take much for me

                                        Yes, I understand that, it doesn't take much for me either. i usually feel the second glass of wine/beer 😂

                                            Another clue. You come from a country probably in eastern Europe or maybe Russia where they do not use the articles a, an and the.

                                                Avery So how is life in an USA? And how would you pronounce that? Oosah?

                                                But now I have to imagine someone doing a comedy routine in a fake Russian accent:

                                                In USA, life difficult. 16 years old, can't by vodka. What's point of belt if can't drink in peace?